@cafrella
20 Years
Im a male Cancer, what would you like to know? i promise to be honest.
What, i'm not good enough? This is bogus.
I find that they can be babyish sometimes? they like to be fussed over, no?
They have a real NEED to be needed? we all do, but they have a bigger need right? Or wrong?
What kind of a test or tests would you use on a woman you?re interested in and why?
The funny thing about Cancers is that whoever we like won't know it until the moment that we just can't hold it in anymore. It might seem like a Cancer is very distant towards you but inside we're just bursting to be with you. That's how I act sometimes. We don't like to show our affection until we're sure you're the right type of person we want to be with. That might mean taking two months to get to know you first. Funny thing is that I never ask out girls that I haven't known for months. Maybe it's just me or maybe it's all cancers in general I don't know. We test to know if you're interested in us and to see what type of things you would do. It's never good to be cold to a cancer b/c we'll just back off, since that was the purpose of the testing. In a cancer-leo relationship, I find that the leo really needs to be consistent and warm. We definitely lack consistency. Although, when I like someone, I like them for a long time.. Then again, I don't like very many girls. Probably the opposite of someone who have ten people in their black book at once.
From what i've noticed is that if a cancer does care about you even on just a friend and only friend level they can confuse people to thinking it's more than what it is.They do put thier guard down with people they trust and can be very expressive but they aren't really interested in that way towards that person.My brothers ex had alot of confused guys get a little confused about her wanting them when she really didn't and was just being herself as a friend while she was with my brother.Keep your own guard up too against that just as a possibility of being mislead warning just for the simple fact that there's the other woman in the picture.Everyone they come into contact with gets tested pretty much,after they trust you your given alot of looks,hugs,etc from them that you don't get or is used to coming from other people,it doesn't really mean there's a romantic reason for it.
Thanks Kupo, OFAquarius and Tiamat!
all your little notes help me out, in figuring out these CANCERS!
I really fear giving the wrong impression about me liking someone, i'd feel terrible.
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Ah ha! Kuppo
I'm getting pretty good at reading these little Cancer men! That's right they looove to test you!
Kuppo what else do you know that could interest me on these Cancers... what juicy stuff you have?