cancer guys,acting different?

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ninjamu
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Posted by loveingsaggirl
ouch, quite critical and judgemental. I never said anything about my mistakes or injust actions, just asking about cancers point of view. It's okay, Ive been committed for 10 years to my husband,but my cheating deffinately shows me that I am ready for a divorce. My Aries husband has been good in so many ways. Not that this cancer guy is the one for me,but has taught me about myself in many ways, and reinforced my morals.
Any who, anyone competent in synastry readings?



ah, blessed and cursed art thou who dare tread the land o' dxp. judgments and criticism is the main theme of the party here. i give and receive my fair share as well. it all balances out though 😉
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Posted by loveingsaggirl
ouch, quite critical and judgemental. I never said anything about my mistakes or injust actions, just asking about cancers point of view. It's okay, Ive been committed for 10 years to my husband,but my cheating deffinately shows me that I am ready for a divorce. My Aries husband has been good in so many ways. Not that this cancer guy is the one for me,but has taught me about myself in many ways, and reinforced my morals.
Any who, anyone competent in synastry readings?



Morals? You bring morals into this. Amazing!! Yeah, sure, the whole ordeal has taught you that you have NONE! How completely selfish!
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a cancerian point of view...

you can never fully trust someone who cheats. i've been attracted to unavailable men... hell i've even encouraged their pursuit, BUT it was only a test to see how far they would go. also a test to see how far I'd go.

I think anyone who cheats either has low self esteem, a fear of confronting the problems in their relationship or a combination of both. If this cancer is cheating with you, he probably doesn't have much respect for you or himself.

the temptation of infidelity is natural. i think committing to monogamy is more of an 'enlightened' frame of mind to be in as opposed to a 'natural' one. this is only my opinion. i know tons of people who have cheated on their SO and I can see why they've done it. There are some horrible relationships built on negative emotions out there. The question isn't whether it's right or wrong, but confronting and resolving the 'why'?

i'm interested in the responses you thought you would get...