Cancer maaan, Love or just sex—?

Hi everyone, pleaaaaase i need help with this cancer Man.

He's cancer Sun, pisces Moon , me Taurus Sun also pisces Moon. It may bé à bit long but i need to tell it from the beggining.



Episode 1

So i first met this cancer Guy abt 2 years ago. At that time i was living in another City (his City) n at that day i took the bus to go to my cousin who lives in his area as he was taking thé same bus. He Saw me since i was in the bus but i didn't notice him. Then he came to me and said that he liked me and asked if we Can get to know each other and asked for my phone number. ( I need to montion here that this is an acceptable way of getting un touch with a girl in m'y country. An arab country) so i refused exchange numbers at first coz i was engaged to s.one else then but didn't tell him it was thé reason just said no and he insisted and promised that he wont call me unless i call first ( i dont kn what made him sure that i would call him then coz i really didn't show any interest n even didn't notice him when hé was staring at me in the bus!!).



So i told myself let me teach him a lesson not to be too selfconfident and i agreed to exchange numbers and After he went i deleted his number and forgot abt thé whole story.

After abt 3 months m'y phone rang n it was him. I asked him why he calls since he said hé wont unless i call and he said that he waited for me to call but finally decided to call.

I said ok so as you Can see am not intested in knowing you and stop bothering me. Hé said ok but just After two weeks hé called again and asked me to give him a chance n that he really likes me n then i told him that i am engaged so there could be nothing btwn us. Hé said ok.

After some weeks he texted me n i ignored him.

Few months later i came back to m'y hometown n settled there. One night he texted me n at those days m'y relationship with m'y fiancé wasn't that good as he ignored me After i went back to my home town.

So i was feeling à bit lonely n i starter to text this cancer Guy back for the first time. I asked him why he keeps calling n hé said that he likes me very much. Hé even said that he felt kind of love from first sight. I said that one can't love someone that he saw just once n doesn't know anything abt n so i can't bé love but hé said it is.

So we were texting for several days n felt how kind n romantic he was (something missing on m'y relationship with m'y fiancé) but didn't respond to his feelings anyway and after several days i started to feel guilty abt being engaged n talking to him n that i can't cheat on m'y fiancé which was absolutely trie ( Taurus loyalty).

And in order to make him go away i said that m'y fiancé read his messages n that he caused me problems n so i will change my number.

So hé stopped contacting me but said that he can't forget me n then i really changed my number.

Episode 2

Few months later i broke up with m'y fiancé. And one day i decided to get back m'y Old phone number coz many Old friends have only that number and i lost touch with them since i changed it but ofc nothing happened btwn me and that cancer man for a long period since i dont even have his number anymore.

Actually i know his facebook at that time but even though i remember him from Time to Time i didn't contact him first coz i didn't evolved any feelings for him in the past n second coz i thought all that staff of not forgetting me can't be true n so hé must be in some relationship by then.

So 5 months ago i went to the City with m'y mother who was undergoing cancer treatmennt so we stayed for one month in m'y relative's housse.

One day m'y phone rang and Oh m'y god it was him After abt 2 years !! He asked me wether i still remember him n i said yes. He asked how i do n i said i am in the city n then he asked that WE meet n i accepted since i was single.

The following day we met for abt half n hour. I felt n instant chemistry betw us. He said hé was so happy to meet me n WE met thé following day as well.

And there when i started to worry

Thé connection between us was so strong that we started to cuddle n kiss since the third time we meet. But the problem that WE were never in a date. I mean every Time he Comes WE go on a ride in his car. We stop in some park to sit or walk à bit.we cuddle n kiss n then go back home.

On our third time i asked him why dont we go to à public place n hé said that he forgot his wallet so hé doesn't have money. I doubted it from the beggining n i remarked that he does't bring money on purpose in order not to go to à public place.

After few "dates" hé confessed that he loves me but i started to worry more n one day i told him that his goal is just to sleep with me n that he is not serious that's why he refuses to meet me in public. Hé said no n that he's not playing with me n that he really loves me. He said the only reason is that he wants to spend thé Time with me alone. At that time i was back home n hé promised that everything would bé right in the future.

So we kept in contact n 2 months later i went to the City for work n it was an opportunity to meet him. I expected to have a normal date with him but nothing happened. Hé took me to that same park so i decided not to meet him again. So i went back home and told him that i dont want to see him or talk to him anymore.

And that time i thought it may be not just being not serious but also not bringing any money with him when comes to see me. I know information that cancer man does note spend money on a woman he is not serious with so i told him again that he is just playing with me and wants to have sex.

Again hé insisted it was not true n that he trully loves me n abt the issue of money he's just having some financial problems. I insisted that if hé really loves me hé would have set plans to date me n just not come randomly. he said am right in that issue of dates n meeting on public n said he loves me.i asked him if hé considers à longterm relationship with me meaning marriage n said ofc.

Hé also promised to come n see me in my town (something i asked for before n promised to do but didn't due to financial problems as hé said then) n that everything would be fixed.

Personally i no longer trust him n don't know what to do. I love him but i refuse to be with someone who is not serious. Shall i wait n see if he comes n give him a last chance or—