Cancer guy goes silent

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Maiden111 on Monday, November 20, 2017 and has 8 replies.

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@Maiden111
8 Years

Hey ..i met this guy over Tinder ...we chatted for a few weeks before we met up. We had two dates and on the second day we slept with each other. he was sweet and caring . Msged me almost every day, but then a few days after our second date he changed. He wasnt all that communicative. Stop msg and went all quiet on me. When i told him i didnt like it , he said he needed to be quiet. I told him i wont msg him again as i dint want to msg someone who wasnt wiling to be spoken to. Also that when he reads and ignores my msgs i don like it. its been a week and he hasnt msg me back. Should i msg him / wait for him to make the first move/ forget him and move on. Any advice guys ?

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@Cannedcappie88
8 Years

You should probably forget him and move on. You could wait a lifetime on one of us cancers too come back too you. Stay off tinder! if you want too meet a good guy. Try okcupid or matchdotcom. Dont sleep with a guy after the 2nd date. I wanna rant but ugh live n learn...

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Are you still only messaging through the app?

If so, he was just in it for the booty.

Someone whose interested in more, even just a repeat of the sex would've hit you up for the digits.

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@nousername
7 Years

Posted by Cannedcappie88

You should probably forget him and move on. You could wait a lifetime on one of us cancers too come back too you. Stay off tinder! if you want too meet a good guy. Try okcupid or matchdotcom. Dont sleep with a guy after the 2nd date. I wanna rant but ugh live n learn...

It is quite stupid from a cancer guy to judge a girl based on when he slept with her. Even though he never tried to get to know her. There are many couples who ended up in a relationship after sleeping on a first date. Cancers are just limited in their way of thinking.