Cancer male/Aquarian female

Anybody know how this combo will work, I seem to attract Aquarius females, and I'm a bit concerned about the LTR aspects

You should be attracted to a scorpio female like myself lol...do you have any aquarious in your chart ? If not , you may have some problems in the long run.

Cancer go well with scorpio and pisces. Look at the placement of planets in your chart at time of your birth though. Also, virgo and taurus might be a good match. Cancer may be too touchy and moody for aquarius.

Will u silly people stop all this prejudice? Don't judge every person on the planet by their bloody star sign! Is that a cancer trait?

Cwab 😢((((

I sent the original question, and I love Scorpio's but haven't connect with one yet. I have three ladies who have shown interest, but they are all Aquarians. I was just wondering if anybody has had a good relationship develop from this combo?

I am the scorpio from above , and I find all aquarians to be a bit odd lol. That's just my opinion though , but I could not be with one. They are too far out there for me, but don't brush it off. Give her a chance and see what happens. It might be worth it.

Your relationship should not be based on your sun signs, planets, or any of that!!!!!!!! It is possible for an Aquarius and a Cancer to have a wonderful relationship together- it just might take a little more pateince and commitment! The best thing about a Cancer/Aquarius relationship is the qualities: Cardinal and Fixed. So what ever Cancer starts in the relation, Aquarius will gladly carry it through!!!! I say....go for it!

Appreciate your open-mindedness, Cwab...thanks!

Yes, I am afraid that Aquarians are a bit "odd" and "out there"...

I have wonderful Cancer friends...but, have not successfully maintained a LTR with a male...though only tried it once...

I say that if the things that are important to you are there...go for it!

Take Care.
Star

Thank you for your advice, it sounds reasonable. Are their any other Cancer/Aquarian couples out there?

I have the same question though it's a male aquarian and female cancer. I had a sister who was aquarius, and we were very close. I also have aquarius as a rising sign - could that help me? Anyones opinion would be appreciated.

I am a bit confused...are you a female Cancer with Aquarius rising? I would think that would help immensely with a relationship with an air sign...Aquarius, in particular...
For definite sure, there are two areas where Cancer and Aquarius are compatible...these are sex and food...meaning they both enjoy HOT sex and GOOD food...cooking together can be quite fun!
Good luck to you!
Star

I became friends with a Cancer man for 10 years (at work basically). We finally decided to date and ended up together for three years. The strange thing was that eventhough we took breaks together and talked about ourselves for 10 years, he forgot to mention the fact that he was married! It was amazing to find out (a year after living together) that he just never got around to getting a divorce! Needless to say, he was dumped, but to this day, he still calls, drives past my house (all my neighbors keep an eye open for his car) and sometimes will "drop" by my office! Oh, we've been apart for over 2 years and guess what? His divorce will be final before the end of the year! AND—!!!!

Cancer men are sneaky , and pour their hearts out to you and tell you they love you. The next thing you know , they are gone.

Not always, some of us Cancer guys stick around :-)

Talk about stick around! More like "stick to you like glue"!

I prefer to say we bond, not stick. We are very much heart to heart creatures, and once we make that connection we hold on tight to the one we love.

Please excuse my choice of words. It's just that my experience with a Cancer man has been soo weird. I know it's unfair to clump everyone in the same pot and being an Aquarius, most people think I'm weird. Just need to say, Thanks goodness there's exceptions to every rule.

Boy, please excuse the typos!

Not a problem with spelling at all, we all do that one. Thank you for not lumping us all together :-) understanding and appreciating diversity is the answer to so many relationship issues. We can compliment without compromising or competing. I need your strengths and you need mine.

I agree totally. One thing I notice with Cancers though is that you can be some of the funniest people when there's no pressure. If more people could laugh at themselves, we probably wouldn't have all these questions about getting along.

well I know that I am pretty late to this cancer/scorpio chat but what I have to say is still relevant... I am a scorpio woman and the lvoe of my life is a cancer male and I know without a doubt that I will love him no matter what happens but like most of you comments when they leave its like the world stops. the realtion ship I'm in that has been for a year with my cancer is starting to take a turn I'm starting college soon and we have been together through most of highschool but it seems as though something is really diffrent about us I hope it isn't a donell jones type situation and he don't know where he want to be for I know he is the love of my life and never want to let him go..... reach out to me anyone (with much love Asia)

I think cancer/scorpio realtionship are the best

You have a classic match going there for you. It is hard to draw a cancer out of his shell, but try to talk to him and find out what is up.

He most likely is feeling a little insecure about you going to college. They do not open up, they pull back when they are not sure how things may change in your situation.

Partly because they dont know how you may respond if they tell you what they are fretting over, not wanting to be viewed as weak. Or that their fear will seem unimportant to you, or worse that you feel it is not something to worry over. (Like it is silly or something).

My cancer needed to know that I would never cheat on him, because it had been done so many times before. They are really sensitive about that one.

It is a relationship breaker for them period. They will never look back again, or acknowledge you exist. He may be worried that you could find someone at college that you view as a better match for you. I know how this sounds, but you are young, and cancers are not always that self assured in that area about themselves.

It is not that he thinks you will do something like that, It is just that he may be worried about how much it would crush him if it did happen.

Its a security issue kind of thing. Ask him, bring that subject up yourself. Then reassure him about how you feel and that there is no one else for you so he doesnt have to give it a second thought.

Let him know you understand that he does not think you are that kind of person. He most likely does not know how the changes will affect things. And cancers dont like change, they find security and stability in familiar routines.

Hope this helps some. I have been with a cancer off and on for over two years, that is why I posted to you. Bye TW2

Hi CB - I also feel that us Aries are the same way...we really have no problem ending a relationship if it is not working, or damage has been caused. Trust is very important to us Rams - if there is no trust, what is there? A false relationship and we value REALNESS which now days is pretty darn hard to find. Mind you, I love people and I am aware that we all have our faults and we are here to learn by making mistakes but...if the same mistake is repeated over and over and there is no respect, trust or reciprication then it is not a workable situation (for me anyway). It is easy for us to just move on and not look back - we look ahead for the next adventure coming our way and believe me, we always have them coming!!!!

I agree with you CB..."trust" on all levels - it's a good view that you have my friend.

Thank you alot for what you said.... It really did make me thnk about it and thats whats been going on in his life for a long time.. he told me how he was always getting hurt by girls he tought was the one. I'm majoring in becoming a screenwriter/editor but I'm a poet at heart and hes my insperation I can't see me cheating on him because theres not anyone out there that can love me the way he does.. Even though I'm the one that is always picking him up and keeping him focus on his goals hes the one that holds this realtionship in not only his heart but in his mind when he thinks about our future and daydreams about our past, and when he figures out what makes me happy and when I mad or being irrational (which I know I can be at times)I'm a handful but he is willing to hold me so I won't do anything to make me fall and anyone cancer/scorpio (or any) realtionships going through anything I wish you all the best but know realtionships has there ups ans down and everyday won't be no walk in the park but if there is love... you can make it (not no puppy love either)real and true with much love asia

Yes you all are and I thank whatever gods for your being and for all the other cancer/scorpio (or any) pairing who feel they have found your true love I wish you the best and for you cancerbuddy nothing but upmost love from me comes your way and I wish you the best in everything you do. thank you a lot for reaching out to me and just to let you know you have a freind in me with much love... Asia

Yes Cancers are awsome creatures, are they not! I know I love and cherrish mine with all my heart.

Me to, I Wouldn't have it no other way.....