Cancer and Aquarius

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by The-Dream on Thursday, September 25, 2008 and has 43 replies.

Are Cancer and Aquarius Compatible in Relationships

Cancer and Aquarius can have a challenging but interesting relationship. Cancer seeks emotional closeness, while Aquarius values independence. Compatibility depends on mutual understanding and communication. Some find balance by respecting each other's needs for space and emotional expression, leading to a unique connection despite differences.

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@The-Dream
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

okay it prob has been a topic about thi but can it really work?? they tend to say cancers r clingy but i'm not my mom is an Aquarius and shes is very clingy lol i'm very aloof and i need alot of space to myself. So i want to ask anyone currently in this zodiac relationship or i has experience this relationship ?? O i'm a cancer too.

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@airbender
19 Years

I was in a relationship with a Cancer for 5-6 years granted we were young.

In my experience Cancers are very clingy and tend to be aloof only at times when they have the upper hand. Aquarius is Aloof all the time because they are always looking for an objective view point of the situation. Cancers tend to be more emotion driven and can be blinded by this and say and do things they regret, very low level of tact if you will.

you are speaking of a relationship between parent and child this will always be different because a parent must conform to parenting instinct.

when a physical relationship comes into play every ones true nature tend to surface and shout out loud.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

When we're in a relationship, an ESTABLISHED relationship we're normal. Everyone goes through cycles of wanting more attention than usual or wanting to be left alone.

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@AquaDash
18 YearsAquarius

OFA- "Ahhh!!! Cancer/aqua....run for the hills!!"

Also, Taurus and Scorpio! Unfortunately, we do not work well with these two signs. May work as friends, depending the circumstances. I have met Aqua/Scorp people who are friends since child birth, but that is as far as it goes.
Taurus- FORGETTABOUT IT!! Don't even make eye contact with these creatures of another planet!!! Don't sit, talk or even lend an ear for these people!!! Run away as fast as you can!!! ThanK yOu. 🙂

-AquaDash

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"...it took til we broke up for about 2 days! And then I missed him"

lol! Thats usually when I realize just how much I like the person. Its not easy being emotionally stubborn!

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I think its possible we may make the most perfect girlfriends and perhaps boyfriends.

When everyone has accepted their clear defined role as "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" (especially the aqua of the two; male or female) we make great partners for most. BTW, most aquas hate the terms "bf or gf"...I sure as hell do."🙂

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Everyone says they cant wait to see the guy I end up with and that he's going to haave to be a very strong individual.

UC: Both, you have to protect yourself.

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@imitationoflyfe
19 Years500+ Posts

My new guy is an aqua. And there's just something about him that aggrivates the shyyt out of me.

He's so clingy & needy. Wants me to give him so much yet he wants to keep reservations. Already saying he loves me...I know he doesn't. I think he wants love so bad he wants to fit me into his mold of the perfect wife & life.

Not to mention he says things that offend me sometimes. Either he's a liar or his stories and experiences are out there. He gets upset when I probe into his past too much. Honestly its something about him that I can't put my finger on...but it repulses me. Just too happy go lucky & fake acting.

I'm a cancer btw.

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

what's up with all the cancer/aqua relationships lately— it's like there is an over abundance of them all of a sudden!!! pretty strange considering they are of two different worlds...must be the strong attraction level.

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@AquaDash
18 YearsAquarius

moonchild8- "what's up with all the cancer/aqua relationships lately— it's like there is an over abundance of them all of a sudden!!! pretty strange considering they are of two different worlds...must be the strong attraction level."

Aquas-needy people
Cancers- clingy people.
Perfect combo eh?
Although Cancers can teach Aquarians what the word Commitment means. 😛

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@imitationoflyfe
19 Years500+ Posts

Actually I've told him plenty of times to get lost.

Then he lays a guilt trip on me & I give in.

I feel kinda sorry for him since he's going off to war.

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@The-Dream
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

imitationoflyfe o i see why u always act stupid for him but u need to tell him thats the problem communications he not goin to know unless u tell him

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

lol Aquadash - sounds logical --- but I think everyone knows what commitment means, just various ways of committing...All the signs have various interpretation of the word 🙂

what's up with all the cancer/aqua relationships lately— it's like there is an over abundance of them all of a sudden

moonchild, not sure this is all of a sudden....I knew Aqua and Cancer couples before I came on here. Same with other various combos...

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I know an aqua female cancer guy couple...there going on strong. Gender roles help with certain sign pairings.

MoonChild: Bring me to speed. What happened with your aqua guy??

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@imitationoflyfe
19 Years500+ Posts

How about my aqua guy sent me pics of his *ahem* "member".

Although it was quite *ahem* attractive I found it to be unsexy and a turn off.

He told me they were old pics. All I could think of is "omg....how many other girls has he sent these things to?" I asked him and he got offended. I just don't know anybody besides paris hilton that takes and stores nude pics of themselves. That's like so trashy and.....ewww.

The reason he gave for taking them was that he wanted to try out for porn....wtf..I'm like dude are u trying to turn me off?!? Da hell?!

Were like opposites I swear.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

They've all got pics of their members (if not now, at one point in time) lying around their hard drive somewhere and yes someone else has seen it.

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