Cancer man & Pisces woman

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mademoiselle_m
@mademoiselle_m
5 Years

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Hi,

I would like to ask for your opinion. We know each other from college, we always looked at each other, but we never really had fun. It didn't start until December last year, when we went out and then slept together. But he kept telling me that he didn't want the relationship, that he hadn't dated anyone for a long time, that he was only dealing with work. We didn't see each other in January and we didn't write. It all started again in March and much more intensely. He didn't even want to go out before, and now I've been at his house for almost 3 weeks. He writes to me all the time, hugs me, kisses me, but when I start doing something more "relationship", he tells me: I hope you didn't fall in love, that wouldn't be good.

But then he hugs me again, tells me I'm his, and asks: are you mine? Do you like me? He also wants me to go there, he wants to spend time with me. He will then say that he has never spent so much time with anyone and that he likes how it has developed and will develop between us.

I don't understand if it's just a game or if it's testing me in some way ... What do you think? The problem is, I can't end it anyway.
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Double_scorpio_all_the_way
@Double_scorpio_all_the_way
5 Years

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You need to end it, hes just using you. If you want something more, then tell him that's what you want. If that's not what he wants, then you need to stop sleeping with him. Sounds like hes on the "something casual" side. He gets what he wants without committing. Talk to him and tell him what you want from this, otherwise hes just going to keep using you to get what he wants leaving you confused. Sounds like hes just throwing everything at you BUT committing to you. That's annoying as hell.