Cancer and Pisces Breakups

So I know 2 women...one Cancer, one Pisces. Both have been involved with one particular man for years (different man for each woman) Both of these men never committed to either of them and actually ended up marrying/moving on to other women.

So each woman over the years has gone through the same pattern. First it's "I'm fine being friends", then eventually just friends is not enough for them so they get mad and block the guy from calling, texting, social media. Then after a few weeks/months ...friends again. Until they get tired and block again. Lol.

My detached nature cannot understand this so I'm hoping you good people can help explain. At first I though it may be a case of delusion and not being able to let go, but maybe not. Is this a sun sign thing, Venus, etc? If so, how long does this pattern go on until they're finally done and move on for good?

What?

I feel like I didn't explain this right now...

Exactly. Explain better lol

Usually once I stop dealing with someone I was just dating.... I'm done for good. But they cannot leave these men they were just dating alone. Listening and trying to give advice about it is hard because I don't understand it.

Posted by Aquariusbaby80
Usually once I stop dealing with someone I was just dating.... I'm done for good. But they cannot leave these men they were just dating alone. Listening and trying to give advice about it is hard because I don't understand it.

Yeah as for Pisces it's difficult for us to move on if feelings involved.

Lol. So you're saying everyone can't decipher what's in my head ? Hmmmm. Lol. I guess I'm asking is there a point where this push pull ends with these guys who clearly are not serious about these women. Is there a point when they realize that?

Still depends tho. You gotta analyze whole chart, not just sun signs. I'm a big flirt if I don't care much. I would date someone and still keep my options open and interact with others. It's rare but there comes the moment I meet someone I care about and have feelings for. I become completely different person

Posted by Aquariusbaby80
Lol. So you're saying everyone can't decipher what's in my head ? Hmmmm. Lol. I guess I'm asking is there a point where this push pull ends with these guys who clearly are not serious about these women. Is there a point when they realize that?

I don't know. Unless those women have all the evidence that guys playing them, not much hope I guess. Are you aqua dominant? Just move on lol

Makes sense. Well the Pisces friend had a brief fling with a guy during her "break" from the guy she's in love with. But once that ended, she went right back to the guy she was in love with and continued the push pull. But the Cancer friend never talked to anyone else that I know of during her time with her guy.

Both ladies are in the "I'm done" stage as of right now and have blocked the men on everything. But when I ask them about getting back out there it gets shut down ?

I don't know. Unless those women have all the evidence that guys playing them, not much hope I guess. Are you aqua dominant? Just move on lol

Lol. I know....but I want to help my friends. I just don't know how besides suggesting finally leaving the guy alone for good and moving on. Thought maybe someone could give some better insight on it. But thank you for your replies. Is much appreciated!!!

Posted by Aquariusbaby80
Makes sense. Well the Pisces friend had a brief fling with a guy during her "break" from the guy she's in love with. But once that ended, she went right back to the guy she was in love with and continued the push pull. But the Cancer friend never talked to anyone else that I know of during her time with her guy.

Both ladies are in the "I'm done" stage as of right now and have blocked the men on everything. But when I ask them about getting back out there it gets shut down ?

Yup. When I'm hurt or dealing with break up, I tend to engage in long conversations with strangers. Making friends with tons of guys. The way I cope, trying to think as less possible. Just turn off my mind completely. And I'm overthinker so its really difficult.

Posted by Aquariusbaby80

I don't know. Unless those women have all the evidence that guys playing them, not much hope I guess. Are you aqua dominant? Just move on lol

Lol. I know....but I want to help my friends. I just don't know how besides suggesting finally leaving the guy alone for good and moving on. Thought maybe someone could give some better insight on it. But thank you for your replies. Is much appreciated!!!

You welcome