Cancer man fixated on ex

Hello everyone,

This man is cancer sun, libra moon, pisces rising, virgo venus.

I am aries sun, virgo moon, virgo rising, taurus venus.

I was really smitten when I met this guy 7 months ago, he was like prince charming...he did everything just to make me happy. He was dating a libra woman for 7 years before. They were broken up 3,5 years when we met. After two months of dating, I found out they speak every day on fb (I saw the messages, nothing romantic...) and sometimes go for a lunch together. Ok, nothing romantic...but why? He said he was just used to it and that he loves me and will stop (still not sure if they really stopped). Later on I found out he was checking her social media regularly and found some of her stuff at his place so I moved out. He keeps coming back and rejecting me. Now it has been 2 days since the last “break up”.

Are all cancer men fixated on their ex?

Was their breakup a mutual decision? If so, they could be good friends. I'm friends with two of my exes, but they would be the last people to imagine myself in a romantic or sexual situation with.

What stuff did you find at his place? Could it be from 3 years ago?

Cancers tend to keep everyone they ever loved in their heart. Doesnt mean they want to relive their relationship.

Ok so I'm Cancer Rising and I'm the worst for this. I've had 5 soul connections this lifetime, one was a twinflame (we always chat), one connection wasn't that strong but the other three ....... It blows peoples minds to find I sit down for Christmas dinner with my two ex boyfriends and my new one. I didn't intentionally set out to build a collection of exs around me but once I fell out of love with them I couldn't ignore the pull to still be friends and they felt the same. I just feel some people are soulmates and you're doomed to misery if you cut these people out of your life completely like I have tried in the past. I know it's really hard to understand but coming from someone who is in same boat, I would never be with any of my ex's, the thought repulses me. Its the soulmate connection Cancer signs just can't ignore. I believe they are just good friends.

Posted by Poetry

Hello everyone,

This man is cancer sun, libra moon, pisces rising, virgo venus.

I am aries sun, virgo moon, virgo rising, taurus venus.

I was really smitten when I met this guy 7 months ago, he was like prince charming...he did everything just to make me happy. He was dating a libra woman for 7 years before. They were broken up 3,5 years when we met. After two months of dating, I found out they speak every day on fb (I saw the messages, nothing romantic...) and sometimes go for a lunch together. Ok, nothing romantic...but why? He said he was just used to it and that he loves me and will stop (still not sure if they really stopped). Later on I found out he was checking her social media regularly and found some of her stuff at his place so I moved out. He keeps coming back and rejecting me. Now it has been 2 days since the last “break up”.

Are all cancer men fixated on their ex?

Do you think he is bending the truth and Still has romantic feelings for her, especially if he tells you that he loves you, yet rejects you after 7 months of dating?

Was it 3 or 5 years that they broke up? it could be possible that they broke up sometime ago and Are now friends that still have casual sex.

How is he rejecting you? Are you asking him for a commitment?

Posted by Undine

Was their breakup a mutual decision? If so, they could be good friends. I'm friends with two of my exes, but they would be the last people to imagine myself in a romantic or sexual situation with.

What stuff did you find at his place? Could it be from 3 years ago?

She broke up with him...he said he was not enjoying the relationship anymore, he was not in love and they did not have sex for 2 years... but wanted to stay with her and just wanted some things to change.

I found just some cups she made so yes, it was from ages ago. It was just surprise for me because I get rid of things like this so it does not remind me my ex boyfriends. But I burn bridges mostly...

Posted by CreativeCap

Posted by Poetry

Hello everyone,

This man is cancer sun, libra moon, pisces rising, virgo venus.

I am aries sun, virgo moon, virgo rising, taurus venus.

I was really smitten when I met this guy 7 months ago, he was like prince charming...he did everything just to make me happy. He was dating a libra woman for 7 years before. They were broken up 3,5 years when we met. After two months of dating, I found out they speak every day on fb (I saw the messages, nothing romantic...) and sometimes go for a lunch together. Ok, nothing romantic...but why? He said he was just used to it and that he loves me and will stop (still not sure if they really stopped). Later on I found out he was checking her social media regularly and found some of her stuff at his place so I moved out. He keeps coming back and rejecting me. Now it has been 2 days since the last “break up”.

Are all cancer men fixated on their ex?

Do you think he is bending the truth and Still has romantic feelings for her, especially if he tells you that he loves you, yet rejects you after 7 months of dating?

Was it 3 or 5 years that they broke up? it could be possible that they broke up sometime ago and Are now friends that still have casual sex.

How is he rejecting you? Are you asking him for a commitment?

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He lied to me in the beginning of our relationship when I asked if they are in touch and he said just once in a while. Then I found out they speak every day...so he bended the truth. I do not think he has romantic feelings...more like emotional dependancy maybe?

They were broken up 3.5 year when we met so now it is 4 years. She is married now so I do not think they have sex...also they did not have sex last 2 years of their relationship.

He always contacts me, then we agree we would work on our relationship, but 2 days later he says there is nothing to do and he does not want to be with me. Yesterday he contacted me again ... I am tired of this.

My cancer sun guy has this friend who he occasionally spoke to and liked her posts and I didn't really know who she was and he finally admitted the he had sex with her prior to our relationship and then he full on cheated on me with her when we hit a rough patch. He kept her a friend in disguise through out all of our relationship and at all cost will protect her from looking like a bad. He always looks for her on social media and will always say how grateful he is to have her as a friend. She friends zones him a lot in the conversations and I think he is borderline obsessed and scared to loose her even as a friend.

This is just my experience with a cancer guy.

Posted by Arielle83

Op ignores my comments, yet I have this guys placements. Only thing that’s off, but close, is the rising.

Op came here to have ppl tell her she’s right, and he needs to stop talking to his past

Lol no, I never expect people to tell me I am right.

We are back together and he set some boundaries with her. We both compromise.

I mean...everyday talking is not right...you know that. I do not need to be insecure to not to like it.

I personally have a hard time cutting my emotional connect with exes that I loved. If it was me talking every day to one, I’d know I was still in love with him. I recently started dating an amazing man and only today deleted pictures of my exes pictures from 3 years ago. I also removed him from my location. It’s been hidden for the last 8 months but I couldn’t even delete his name until I moved on. I also stopped reaching out to him via text.

It’s nice he compromised with you. Does he hide his phone or anything? If he lets you look, you can trust him.