Cancer Man in love with Aquarius man

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Ryan_Slade
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Hi everybody. I've been seeing this Aquarius guy for almost six months but I have this feeling he's not as into me anymore. Let me give you some background. We're both Scorpio moons and I'm a Venus in Taurus and he's a Venus in Capricorn. Every move in this relationship, he's made the first one. He asked me to be his boyfriend and he told me he was in love with me before I admitted it to him. Well he broke it off with me and then two weeks later came back. None of us have been in relationships. However ever since we got back together he's been a lot more aloof and distant. Like before he separated from me, he would constantly give me affection like "I miss you" "You're the greatest thing that's happened to me and you deserve so much more than I could ever offer you" after I took him back things have changed he doesn't talk to me nearly as much like he can go days without talking to me and it doesn't seem to bother him but it tears me up. Mind you when during the first half of our relationship before we separated he had a job so we only saw each other twice a week and when I got back with him he had lost his job and has way more free time so naturally we've been seeing each other more. I don't know though when I'm with him, he's completely absorbed within his phone and it always feels liken I have to be the one to contact him first. And I've spent a lot of money and time on him and go through a lot of effort but he never seems to notice. On our birth chart we have a great compatibility but I still feel empty when I'm away from him and he's not giving me attention. I don't know if that's the whiny cancer in me and I should just chill. Thoughts on this? I would love input from fellow Aquarians or Cancers but anyone else is welcome! Thanks!
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Nyleve
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10 YearsCancer

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Just you know how the relationship is between you two, like all the details and stuff. But read what you typed as an outsider and you'll see, there's something up. Reminds me of the song Too Good by Drake feat. Rihanna. It doesn't matter when he told you he loves you but if he really feels it. If it makes you feel any better, I don't think it's your whiny Cancer. Aquas tend to bottle up feelings too, it's a facade, they care much more than what they show.
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LadyNeptune
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Posted by Ryan_Slade
I guess it all depends but yeah he said it within three months actually. And I did and still feel the same way, I just don't know what to think half the time though because it seems like he's shutting me down so I bottle up all these emotions and things I want to say to him but then the moment I see him everything just disappears. It's weird.
Damn 3 months.

How can you love someone after such a short time? That's not enough time to really know someone imo