Cancer man moving too fast or is normal?

a dear friend of mine is a sagi girl who's been seeing this cancer guy for 3 months. he's moving so fast with her that there is talk about kids and living together and he's her bf and such, talking on the phone 4 times a day. i don't know him that well so i can't say anything negative about him except that he's just too perfect. my only concerned that he might be playing the game to get her help him out in his career and get great perks by association with her. of course, i want her to be happy and have a great relationship with whoever she wants and don't want her to get hurt. she's a bit clingy towards guys and he might use it to his advantage or his's just as clingy as she is.
so, is there anybody who knows about sagi/cancer pairings?

i think it is perfectly normal for a cancer to move "fast", however after 3 months he is moving ok considering.......i have been with a cancer guy for 3 weeks now, i feel that i am living a dream, not only that we talked about how many kids we want but we also talked about what team they will support, he even bought me a new phone on contract on his name so we can talk all the time when we are not together, which is when we are at work.....he is quite possesive but i like it, we do everything together, even met his sisters....last night his friend told him that he shouldtake me to church on sunday to tie the knot....lo-he said it jokingly to see my reaction, he was so excited!!!!has anyone moved faster than that—?lol

This is completely normal for a CANCER. I've dated 3 Cancers and all have been consistent. He really likes her and if all else fails, she has a friend for life. I can't seem to get rid of the 3 I've dated; we talk almost weekly!

I am a Sagittarius and have been dating my cancer man for a about 6 weeks. Let's just say that he's already moved in with me after 4 weeks, planning out our life goals,and wanting his life to be with me. He told me that he wants me to be the barer of his children, his wife, and his woman for life. Being a Sag, I have never even thought of such confinements so quickly. I need my independence, yet there is a magnetic appeal to what he says. He means it. It's sexy when he says it. His eyes penetrate into my soul when he speaks such things. The only questions is, can I handle his moods and his mean streak? He's so handsome, driven, goal oriented, smart, articulate, personable, sophisticated, and so on......just can I put up with his obsessive compulsiveness, his need to control and dominate situations.....— I think I can. As long as I don't lose my soul in the process of appeasing him. Back to the quetsion of moving fast....yes. definitely. but it's fun too.

kelseyyyyy, very nice, it is clear that he means it, don't question things so early, if he is the one that you want to be with than let him take the lead and you follow....but don't forget to stand your grounds, he will appreciate you for that....it's funny, i have been with my cancer for a month now and he moved in with me too, i didn't even realize it that he did, we just ended up ordering more wardrobes....lol

i can tell you that when a cancer guy decides to let himself fall, that's it, it's freefall!! they actively decide it's ok and they grab onto you and move forward, dragging you in tow.

i'm aries/sag and my guy is cancer/sag. once he decided he was in love with me, BAM! he was moving me in and we were engaged and he was in charge and, and, gulp. i panicked. almost ran a few times. he got exasperated and simply couldn't understand why i was at all unsure, after all, we were perfect. end of story.
cancer's are like that. the moods? not going away. period. you know how i deal? when he gets moody, if it's just withdrawn, then i ignore him. i do my own thing. it's just how he is sometimes. he can't even understand it. fine. no big deal. but if he turns a% #hole on me, i DON'T put up with it. i turn around and i just give him an earful and tell him he'd better shove that stuff right back up where he got it! cancer will actually respect you more if you stand up for yourself when they're being unreasonable. it serves to snap him out of THAT particular mood, and makes him laugh. other wise, i let him roll thru the 500 moods a day and just shrug and wait for one that i like. that is the one downside of living with them.

redheadgurl is absolutely right, when it comes to the moods you shouldn't try to understand them, ignore them or put them in thier place, of course in a nice way as they are very sensitive, they are so sweet that they don't even realize that they have those moods. i don't mind their moods at all, my cancer has so many but he snaps out of them once he sees the expression on my face.....lol, i have moods too, my moon is in cancer....sometimes we both have moods but these moods complete each other somehow, it is amazing. i totally agree with what redheadgurl said "cancer will actually respect you more if you stand up for yourself when they're being unreasonable", it is so true, and they love to please you, they can do anything to see a smile on your face....