Gems Female Vs. Cancer Male— Any thoughts

Okay so I have a really good friend who is a male Cancer. I've been attracted to Summer boys all my life. Gems, Cancers, Leos. I've dated and almost married a fellow Gem. What a trip that was. But the sex was amazing.

Leo men I've always been very fond of.

But Cancer men have me stumped. My male Cancer friend and I have read just about everything we could get our hands on for Gem/Cancer and even did a chart that stated we would make a great team. I'm just stumped over the whole thing.

Suggestions— Advise—? Since I know my fellow Gem's love to give advice. Hook me up with some PLEASE!!!!

Too many insecurities and mind games

From who the Gemini or the Cancer??
Or Both??

I've never had a romantic relationship with a Cancer man, but my dad is a Cancer, and as much as I love him, he drives me NUTS. Very moody, and such a homebody. He would rather save is money for a retirement he may not even live to see, rather than having even a tiny bit of fun with it in the present. He also lives waaay to much in the past.

I tried a cancer, and they are way too much of home bodies for me. Never wanted to do anything! he clung to me like glue. Very jealous. Not good. We were great friends but as soon as intimacy came it went down hill. I didn't even "put it on him" either...lmao

Cancer guys are too emotional for me. I'm too aloof and I usually hurt their feelings.

You would > in your opin have to def what "friend" means hn.

You wanna fck him go for it. If he's cool about it.

"gem women should stick with scorpio men how many times must we go over this ?"

Scorps are short term enjoyment for me. I way too much passion and strife. I love em' to death and they see right through me and i so enjoy them, but i get exhausted by em.