Cancer Mars

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I heart you Cancers, but this placement gets on my damn nerves & guess what, I possess it! Sometimes I just want to have a casual encounter with someone without all of that other emotional bullshit but I CAN'T!!! When I was younger it was easier, but now that I'm older, I prefer to be in a relationship with someone to have sex.

I really loathe this because sometimes I just want to have sex with someone & K.I.M. God damn it!!! IDK, maybe I'll call an ex for a 1 night stand & kick him out immediately afterwards...😛 hell, that's not going to work either. He will only be a rebound because I just broke up with someone & I'm not ready to start another relationship right now so damn...scratch that option. Looks like I'm going to be celibate for a while. Ain't that a bitch?

*sigh*

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I heart you Cancers, but this placement gets on my damn nerves & guess what, I possess it! Sometimes I just want to have a casual encounter with someone without all of that other emotional bullshit but I CAN'T!!! When I was younger it was easier, but now that I'm older, I prefer to be in a relationship with someone to have sex.

I really loathe this because sometimes I just want to have sex with someone & K.I.M. God damn it!!! IDK, maybe I'll call an ex for a 1 night stand & kick him out immediately afterwards...😛 hell, that's not going to work either. He will only be a rebound because I just broke up with someone & I'm not ready to start another relationship right now so damn...scratch that option. Looks like I'm going to be celibate for a while. Ain't that a bitch?

*sigh*



yeah, this placement is tough. i know because i have it too! a cancer mars with a cancer sun! lol.

but really... just because it's tough doesn't mean it completely sucks. i don't see it as a detriment because i would much rather have the benefit of an emotional crap than not.

if you want to have some fun, the placement shouldn't stop you ... cancer mars loves sex as the next person. but it looks like maybe being celibate might be the way to go after all. 😄
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SNAP!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by treefrogster
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I heart you Cancers, but this placement gets on my damn nerves & guess what, I possess it! Sometimes I just want to have a casual encounter with someone without all of that other emotional bullshit but I CAN'T!!! When I was younger it was easier, but now that I'm older, I prefer to be in a relationship with someone to have sex.

I really loathe this because sometimes I just want to have sex with someone & K.I.M. God damn it!!! IDK, maybe I'll call an ex for a 1 night stand & kick him out immediately afterwards...😛 hell, that's not going to work either. He will only be a rebound because I just broke up with someone & I'm not ready to start another relationship right now so damn...scratch that option. Looks like I'm going to be celibate for a while. Ain't that a bitch?

*sigh*



yeah, this placement is tough. i know because i have it too! a cancer mars with a cancer sun! lol.

but really... just because it's tough doesn't mean it completely sucks. i don't see it as a detriment because i would much rather have the benefit of an emotional crap than not.

if you want to have some fun, the placement shouldn't stop you ... cancer mars loves sex as the next person. but it looks like maybe being celibate might be the way to go after all. 😄
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Oh don't get me wrong now!!! I LOVE sex!!!! I'm very sexual & have my fair share of fun & then some...I just believe it's because I'm coming out of a relationship & I'm not ready to have "emotional" sex with anyone right now. If I do pursue it, it will JUST be to get my rocks off & I wouldn't want to be bothered with him afterwards. Been there before with an ex. I wanted him to leave afterwards & he didn't want to so I made his ass sleep on the couch...hahaha. 😛

That's why I'm just like ok, whatevs, I can wait...I would prefer sex that is meaningful. It was loads of fun with him during the moment, but I totally lost interest afterwards so I'm like, what's the point?
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Ahem, try being a Leo. . .

. . .with Mars in Cancer.

Dominant Element: Fire!
Dominant planet: Sun!
#2 planet: Pluto!

Found that out here:
percent of elements in our natal charts

*grrrrowwwllzzzz*

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My saving grace:

#2 Element: Earth 🙂

I can definitely live without a ONS!



Hahahaha...my dominant element is air, then fire, earth, & water. *In that order* WATER ONLY BEING 8% !!! But I'm still an emotional rollercoaster sometimes...aaaaarrrrrggggghhhhh!!!! Who the hell told the lie that Virgos don't have emotions? Pffffffff!!! I wish...
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@RealTalk - HaHa, my Leo power is 109.3, Virgo is 100.6, and Scorp is 82.4, so I definitely believe in the Virgo emotions, very picky, yes that's me. It's no wonder with the influence of all that Pluto business and Cancer Mar's being conjunct to Leo, sometimes I don't know if I'm coming or going.

And. . .I don't have any problem knowing what I want, and deciding exactly what I need to do to get it, but when I reach the threshold, I just can't go through with it.

Does that make sense?

How is it for you?



Yes, alot! I'm very picky myself & I can sooooo relate to the coming & going business. My ex & I were planning on moving in together & I knew I really wanted to live with him, but whenever the time came I'd get cold feet. I also met someone a month ago, good looking "hunk" of a guy, we exchanged #'s & at the moment I knew I wanted to date him, but here I go again with Artic toes so I just cut ties.

That's only to name a few among a thousand others!!! I also have a Libra merc so I'm indecisive like a mofo. Changing my mind to one thing, only to change it again & again. It can cause me to linger in situations until I finally make a decision. Hahahahaha...IDK why that made me think of "the situation" from Jersey Shore, lol. Maybe I should call myself "the decision". *giggles*