Cancer Men and Negativity

I know every Cancer is not the same. But based off of your experience or what you have read about Cancer men, do they like to criticize a lot. The Cancer man I know picks on everything possible that he can. Now it is possible he does this because he is jerk, but I was wondring if his Cancer sign has anything to do with it as well.

Examples
- You have a nice purse why is it so messy? You need to blah blah
- Your coat, its time for a new coat.
- Why did you paint your nails that color? You should have blah blah blah


And there are a million things I could point out about him, but I don't. I just think it is really weird.

Any ideas?

Thanks

lol, oh we know we are not compatible!! Not for a min or second!

@Maddy your right and I dont "let" him talk like that. When he says *hit we go at it! I don't insult him, I just let him know that he is a dum A@@.
This Cancer is not a love interest at all, this Cancer is a friend of a friend, and hangs around. He is so annoying.

That sounds like my ex who was a cap/aqua. Total toolbox. He was also verbally abused as a child.

Posted by myownway
I know every Cancer is not the same. But based off of your experience or what you have read about Cancer men, do they like to criticize a lot. The Cancer man I know picks on everything possible that he can. Now it is possible he does this because he is jerk, but I was wondring if his Cancer sign has anything to do with it as well.

Examples
- You have a nice purse why is it so messy? You need to blah blah
- Your coat, its time for a new coat.
- Why did you paint your nails that color? You should have blah blah blah


And there are a million things I could point out about him, but I don't. I just think it is really weird.

Any ideas?

Thanks

yes they are, at least the one I dated was. Everything I did even when we werent dating, always had some negative shit to say. It doesnt bother me but it gets old. I dont like to critisize people, I like to let people live and do them. I think that they can be very insecure and afraid of trying new things, and when they see someone doing what they dont have the guts to do, they try and put you down.

Two examples:

I had on a purple dress with cheetah print shoes
Cancer guy: why are you wearing those colors together, you dont match. Mind you we were on a public train. This guy cant dress for shit either, I am very fashion forward and take risk with my clothes. Some people may not agree with my fashion sense, but I own it either way.

Going to spain for my bday
Cancer guy: Why are you going, you will still be the same person you are in brooklyn, in spain. I hate travelin!

I mean if thats not a hater , I don't know what is. He is currently trying to work hisway back in my life, it will never work. He wasnt a horrible bf but, that aspect of it I just can't take. I need someone who is as supportive of me as I am of them, even with small things.

My only experience with a cancer guy dating wise, I do know one more who is a friend and he is the same way.

My crab doesn't criticize me but he definitely is more of a pessimist than an optimist, no question. (Though he claims he's merely a realist).

Cancer men advise you to fuck off, hopefully that answers your question.

These "examples" don't sound too good, honestly. Few women actually deserve better, but if you do, get moving!