So I had been seeing this Cancer guy..he was the sweetest thing...I really begin to like him...Well we dated for awhile in the summer and when his obligations in fall started up again, work, school,etc,,,he didn't have as much time for me, and I lost it, and started to panic and start fights with him because I was insecure...Well we kind of grew aprt, well we did grow apart...Well the other night I asked him if he still cared about me, and he said, he couldn't put up with my attitude,,and that I wouldn't believe him anyway...I asked him to just answer the question,,(this is via text)....he didn't answer after awhile so I said "alright"...he said goodnight..and I said goodnight back, thinking thatwas the end of it and that just meant that he didn't....so then I get a text that says "I'm not going to fall for this, I love you, but I can't mess with you"......I just can't understand how he suposedly loves me but cannot talk to me...I will admit that I had really turned into a bitch due to my insecurities...but to me love is such a strong word to use. I mean I asked him if he "cared" about me, not loved me...and I'm kind of offended in a way, because I wish he wouldn't have said that, because it doesn't seem sincere to me with the closing sttement behind it...and it just makes me angry when I think about it..What do u guys think
