Cancer Moods Swings!

First of all, I love reading these...I have learned alot about traits of a CANCER MALE! For some reason, I seem to be in a relationship with another one! The last CANCER man, broke my heart. Found out he got married and was still talking to me. This new one I have been seeing alot more, he calls me all the time, we see each as much as possible. Been seeing him for about six months. His MOODS...sometimes is is the sweetest thing...other times COLD, distant! I don't want to get hurt again! HOW DO YOU KNOW IF THEY ARE REAL ABOUT YOU? Tell me what to look for, both negative and positive about how they feel about a woman they are involved with? Oh yes, one more thing. Sex with a CANCER man...the best have ever experienced...they are tigers in bed...they like to get wild and kinky!

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Hi! Well, I am a cancer male, and maybe I could shed some insight on your dilemna. First of all, you must know that cancers "FEEL", we let our emotions lead our lives, and therefore emotions change constantly. I agreee, when we are warm, we are warm, and vice versa. This shouldn't be taken personally, trust me, it's just the way our moods change. If your man trusts you completely, feels emotionally secure and stable in your relationship, and wants to be with you - and continues to call you - you have NOTHING to worry about! When he isa little moody, just give him a little space - the mood will pass, I promise you. I know sometimes we can be difficult to figure out - but we are worth the ride. Oh yea, SEX with us is the best - hands down!!!!
Good Luck!

im curious to know what your sign is.

Re-read his first sentence for answer.

not the CANCER MALE obviously, i was talking to the person who posted originally.

Well, thank you very much! I DO KNOW YOU CANCERS are moody! And yes, I have learned to back off...and he always calls or comes over in a much better mood after I let him have his peace...I am not demanding to him. Plus...it seems when I do back off...he comes on stronger! And I am a GEMINI...but also A CANCER...I was born only 2 days from the CANCER sign..so I have both traits. Again, thanks for the insight...I really like this guy...he seems as though he TRUST ME...and that is a biggy for a CANCER! He tells me his most private secrets.

Hello,
I wrote the HARD TO KNOW message, you may like to read that to get a bit of a background on me. But basically I work with a cancer lady who is just fantastic and I adore. But I find it hard to fathom out what she is thinking as well. I am a Gemini with a cancer ascendent so I think I know what you mean when you say you feel you have both signs in you.
Maybe it's our gemini side that for some reason doesn't gell on the same feeling level with a cancer person given that gemini's like to communicate how we feel more verbally. I get on talk and communicate great with librans, who we are suppose to. But I definately do have this other cancer person in me, which is interesting. Maybe it's me that confuses her. A gemini one day and a cancer the next, who knows.

Sorry #205. Usually people seem to comment/respond to the last poster's message on these boards and I just took it for granted that you were referring to #166's message.

I'm a Libra who cares very deeply for a Cancer male. He's 7 yrs younger then me. And he lives elsewhere then I. Ohh...that's a story in itself.

What I am here to say is that yes I too am coming to realize that sometimes the silence from them is nothing more then them doing their own thing.

They do come on strong and cling but then they scurry away to check you out further. It takes them a while to know they can really trust you.

I've dated 4 for some odd reason. I'm finally learning. If you push them they will resent you. so just back off, as hard as that sounds, you have to if you really want to be with them. I'm a libra and patience does not come naturally for me let me tell you.