Cancer Woman

Are cancer woman attracted to guys who listen, care, and understand them? Because as a cancer man I can't help ,but do those things , and if so would she make the first move??

So I would have to make the first move??

Posted by PurrrrrHisssss
Yes, those things are crucial. No, I wouldn't make the first move.

What if he's really tall and a good singer and he looks at you longingly?

Posted by PurrrrrHisssss

Posted by mr.crabby

Posted by PurrrrrHisssss
Yes, those things are crucial. No, I wouldn't make the first move.

What if he's really tall and a good singer and he looks at you longingly?

If I were attracted to him, I'd probably smile a little, then get nervous and look away, honestly.

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Ditto! I would do the same exact thing. Us cancers girls......we're shy (:

And adorable.

Yes, that is required not optional for me.

Not all people who are willing to listen, care, and understand Cancers are privileged to do so...
But when she allows you to do that then that's a good sign. Don't hastily do the move, you may scare her away... my advice is to just give her hints... and her reaction will also give you a hint of what she is feeling.

Goodluck.

flirt! flirt! flirt! flirt!

Haha! Yeah try flirting! >🙂)
Thru texts will do. 😆

Cancer women sound very very needy....

Cancer women like all that but what they want more than anything is a WINNER! Show her you've accomplished something or that you're on the road to accomplishing something. I'm not saying be an "alpha" but be an "alpha" Take the lead. May the game be good to you. CHUUUCH!

Hmm. Yes Cancer girls like all those (care,understand, etc), but I definitely think what the others say are right: You have to show that you are some sort of alpha male (not necessarily be exactly one) and have your own life, friends, etc. We are drawn to strong men who can take care of themselves, but treat us and only us nice >> care, understand...

We want to feel special. So you should be strong and "alpha" with the others, but soft and understanding with us! Oh and only ramp up the caring part when you're in a relationship. I don't know why, but when men care way too much about me during the chase, I feel that they are too desperate and it turns me off.

Not all Cancers are shy. I for one do flirt and passively try to get the crush's attention. But the first direct move must come from you, the guy. Crabs move sideways and all ways except forward. Most of the time I just flirt and leave lots of clues and basically drive the crush crazy wondering if I actually like him, but I would never admit it until he says he likes me first. That, is the first direct move.

I know, I am afraid of rejection. 😛