Workaholic Virgo ex-boyfriend- Help!

Advice?

He's just not that into you...

Posted by Calla
I I was always told that if someone really loves you they will make time, but how does that hold up when work is crazy?

can't apply it in your case. cos you were still in the dating stage, not in love.

work comes first to virgo men, looks like this guy has to work most of the time, find someone else if you can't wait. My 'at the moment' can go up to 12months with no contact.. but that's just me muahaaha

oh and you're a cancer. clingy. save yourself. you'll go crazy with the space virgos need especially when they're too consumed with work.

It's when I'm not in a committed relationship with you or when my interest is lukewarm that I'll take my space without informing... appear & reappear whenever I like.

and based on my experienced cancer influenced peeps are clingy in the early stage....the phase where I need space. When they disrupt this Need in the beginning, they made me run away or lose interest.

*experience

Thanks for the replies everyone, it helped a lot. I really thought I'd found a good one at last with him! That's why it's hard, when it was good, it was amazing.

Posted by VirgoR
*sighs*

er, yes?

don't find another virgo...different sign pls haha

btw give him time.

Posted by VirgoFlirt
@Calla Go find another virgo.... If he wanted you he would make time no matter what...As in do whatever it took to see you, no matter how busy he was.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Let him come to you.

I was thinking about this. I know for guys in general this is what we're taught to do, but with this guy I always made the first move. Only when he was sure I was interested did he open up to me and take more initiative. I still mostly initiated contact to make plans etc because that seemed to work for us. I know things are different now, but I don't know whether I should still keep to making the first move.