Cancer woman and talking/texting

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So I've been talking to this cancer woman, and as a cancer myself, you would think I'd know the ins and outs of cancerians haha. But anyway, this cancer girl that I've been talking to once a week has not been really good at texting back. I'm the kind of cancer that loves texting, but I do know that the are some cancers that don't. When we talk in person, we don't run out of things to talk about and love laughing at each other's jokes. My intuition tells me that she's at least a bit interested, but I'm not sure since she doesn't text back much. Thoughts?
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Sometimes i will do the texting depending on the mood. And for me, i d text someone who can make interesting topic and will ignore them if they arent sound interesting especially when i m not in the mood to text.

Well, cancers are most likely to act depends on their mood i think ? and perhaps we can make the texting sounds more interesting and the texting isnt measured your chemistry with the girl. She is interested in you for sure but texting maybe depending on her situation and moods. Good luck!
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Posted by Cylancer
So I've been talking to this cancer woman, and as a cancer myself, you would think I'd know the ins and outs of cancerians haha. But anyway, this cancer girl that I've been talking to once a week has not been really good at texting back. I'm the kind of cancer that loves texting, but I do know that the are some cancers that don't. When we talk in person, we don't run out of things to talk about and love laughing at each other's jokes. My intuition tells me that she's at least a bit interested, but I'm not sure since she doesn't text back much. Thoughts?
ask her out on a date. go hard or go home
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^This. What do you expect her to do if you're just texting all of the time? Cancer or not, she's a woman and she expects you to be a man and ask her out on a date. Men initiate the courtship and set the dates, that's your job. She's not going to do this for you. The reason why she's avoiding your texts is because she wants you to stop texting her (makes sense right). She wants to see if you'll go right up to her and ask her out (either that or call her), but you must stop the incessant texting.

In fact from now on make a point in your mind that you are only allowed to text her so that you can set up your next date. You get to use 3-5 message to do this. Set the time and place with her by speaking with her about her schedule. If she is interested in you she will either accept the date or offer you an alternate time/date. After that wait to see her on your date. NO texting or called until thne unless it's to give pertinent information regarding the date (change in time, update in location, etc).

If you want an astrological spin, Cancer males and Cancer females spend a lot of time dancing and side stepping around each other in an attempt to figure each other out that you may waste too much time and miss the opportunity. Once a woman feels that you aren't man enough to ask her out, she will perceive you as emotionally weak and "friend zone" you. Once you're there it's really hard to get out. A women must respect you if she's going to love you.