How to get rid of cancer?

Hi everyone, im new to the forum and looking for advice.

Im a 40 Yo pisces male with aqua moon. I was dating a cancer woman awhile back, it was awesome and we were steadily heading for marriage. I loved her very deeply and was convienced she was possibly a soul mate. I have never cheated or been promiscious, sex and love are almost the same thing in my mind, dont know why, it just is.

Then my world came crashing down around me. To make a long story short, one of my female cousins is one of my best friends. I had went to bed after a long week, my cousin came in and woke me up. I told her i needed a few hours sleep and then I could help her. I lived in a studio apartment, so my couch and bed were the same. Unstead of leaving she layed down next to me while I slept. Next thing I know my cancer girl was standing above me freaking out. I dont blame her reaction, I probably would have done the same. But the fact remained that I had not done anything wrong, it just looked really bad. She wouldnt listen to me, She made the next few months of my life a pure living hell. Ive never had a woman hurt me as bad as her. After I had enough, I did the pisces thing and removed her completly from my life.

Fast forward 5 years she came back wanting a relationship with me. I had forgotten who she was and had to have friends remind me about her. Shes persistant and will not stay away from me. When I get rid of someone, its not temporary, it is for life, and if there is life after death, stay away from me even after death. WERE DONE!!!!

Ive threatened to call the police and she still comes around. I really dont want to involve anyone in the american injustice system, so how do you get rid of a cancer sign for good?

Posted by 4reefer2man0
Hi everyone, im new to the forum and looking for advice.

Im a 40 Yo pisces male with aqua moon. I was dating a cancer woman awhile back, it was awesome and we were steadily heading for marriage. I loved her very deeply and was convienced she was possibly a soul mate. I have never cheated or been promiscious, sex and love are almost the same thing in my mind, dont know why, it just is.

Then my world came crashing down around me. To make a long story short, one of my female cousins is one of my best friends. I had went to bed after a long week, my cousin came in and woke me up. I told her i needed a few hours sleep and then I could help her. I lived in a studio apartment, so my couch and bed were the same. Unstead of leaving she layed down next to me while I slept. Next thing I know my cancer girl was standing above me freaking out. I dont blame her reaction, I probably would have done the same. But the fact remained that I had not done anything wrong, it just looked really bad. She wouldnt listen to me, She made the next few months of my life a pure living hell. Ive never had a woman hurt me as bad as her. After I had enough, I did the pisces thing and removed her completly from my life.

Fast forward 5 years she came back wanting a relationship with me. I had forgotten who she was and had to have friends remind me about her. Shes persistant and will not stay away from me. When I get rid of someone, its not temporary, it is for life, and if there is life after death, stay away from me even after death. WERE DONE!!!!

Ive threatened to call the police and she still comes around. I really dont want to involve anyone in the american injustice system, so how do you get rid of a cancer sign for good?

I understand what you are saying and no-show likes to be hurt so bad. But..think about her too.

You said you loved her deeply and that she was possibly a soul mate. Maybe she felt the same way about you. Maybe she felt so deeply hurt by what she Thought had happened that she lashed out at you so badly.

Often as humans our reactions reflect how deeply we feel and deeply we care. And sometimes the more deeply we care, the worse we react - especially when in love with someone.

I know it's been 5 years but couldn't you give her a 2nd chance? Realise that maybe she loves you as deeply as you loved her once.

I am a Capricorn woman with Venus in Pisces. Now I will try my damndest to fix things in a relationship no matter how hurt I am. It's my situation at the moment - as you have read. I will only cut a man out of my life completely if he has hurt me so badly on a regular continuous basis. He will be dead to me.

BUT if a man hurts me because he thought something was going on between me and another man, I would quickly and sensitively try to resolve things rather than just getting rid of him.

My Love for him would matter More to me than the Pain he made me feel. I would realise that he is hurting me because He is hurt.

So maybe she hurt you - unintentionally because she was hurting BECAUSE she loved you x

*No-one, not No-show

I don't understand how you can forget someone you thought was your soulmate at one point. Did she look like a completely different person from when you first dated?

Just have your female friend of your cousin come over again. If it worked the first time it's got to again the second right?

a restraining order ?

she may have turned into a psycho in the past 5 years ...

You don't go from "I thought she was my soul mate" to "I couldn't remember who she was" this doesn't make any sense... sounds like you guys had communication issues along with trust issues. Are you seeing someone new?

True love: when you forget what she looks like after 5 years. Dat soulmate connection doe.

Posted by LadyNeptune
True love: when you forget what she looks like after 5 years. Dat soulmate connection doe.

Same thing I thought..

How you forget what someone that was your "soulmate" looks like in ONLY 5 years??

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Posted by 4reefer2man0
Hi everyone, im new to the forum and looking for advice.

Im a 40 Yo pisces male with aqua moon. I was dating a cancer woman awhile back, it was awesome and we were steadily heading for marriage. I loved her very deeply and was convienced she was possibly a soul mate. I have never cheated or been promiscious, sex and love are almost the same thing in my mind, dont know why, it just is.

Then my world came crashing down around me. To make a long story short, one of my female cousins is one of my best friends. I had went to bed after a long week, my cousin came in and woke me up. I told her i needed a few hours sleep and then I could help her. I lived in a studio apartment, so my couch and bed were the same. Unstead of leaving she layed down next to me while I slept. Next thing I know my cancer girl was standing above me freaking out. I dont blame her reaction, I probably would have done the same. But the fact remained that I had not done anything wrong, it just looked really bad. She wouldnt listen to me, She made the next few months of my life a pure living hell. Ive never had a woman hurt me as bad as her. After I had enough, I did the pisces thing and removed her completly from my life.

Fast forward 5 years she came back wanting a relationship with me. I had forgotten who she was and had to have friends remind me about her. Shes persistant and will not stay away from me. When I get rid of someone, its not temporary, it is for life, and if there is life after death, stay away from me even after death. WERE DONE!!!!

Ive threatened to call the police and she still comes around. I really dont want to involve anyone in the american injustice system, so how do you get rid of a cancer sign for good?

Wait, that woman loves you quite clearly, wrong a crab and the claws come out, you have to prove your damn worth.

Have you even told her that this was not a sexual thing between you and this other female?

Because yes Cancer's have highly skillful intuition and we know when people lie, so either you have not communicated, or your story here is not as crispy and honest as you make it out to be.

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Remember there is 3 sides to every story, His, Hers & the truth...

Posted by poison_ivy

Posted by LadyNeptune
True love: when you forget what she looks like after 5 years. Dat soulmate connection doe.

Same thing I thought..

How you forget what someone that was your "soulmate" looks like in ONLY 5 years??

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We all know he didn't. He's just played dumb so he could hurt her. He remembers her all too well, he's still butt hurt by the way she left him.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
True love: when you forget what she looks like after 5 years. Dat soulmate connection doe.

Same thing I thought..

How you forget what someone that was your "soulmate" looks like in ONLY 5 years??

We all know he didn't. He's just played dumb so he could hurt her. He remembers her all too well, he's still butt hurt by the way she left him.

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I have to agree..My best friend is a Pisces... She doesn't get over her "soulmates" THAT damn fast.. & if she did, she still remembers what the douche looks like. He was def trying to slight his ex in some way because she left.. I meant who would believe that you were just sleeping next to your "cousin-friend"

& if it's your blood cousin, what is a 40 year old grown ass man doing sleeping with his female cousin— Confused much? Too close for comfort..

Posted by cvurko
He probably created some heavy mental blocks in order to cope with the pain he was experiencing. Of course he will try to forget her. Good job for being successful, though i don't believe he has really forgotten her.

It seems to me this is more of a vent disguised in a question tho 😄

I get it.. Pisces are forgiving ppl.. So I think he would forgive her.. But idk... I gotta say that all this sounds backwards to me... Maybe there are bits and pieces missing in the story?

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Posted by poison_ivy

Posted by cvurko
He probably created some heavy mental blocks in order to cope with the pain he was experiencing. Of course he will try to forget her. Good job for being successful, though i don't believe he has really forgotten her.

It seems to me this is more of a vent disguised in a question tho 😄

I get it.. Pisces are forgiving ppl.. So I think he would forgive her.. But idk... I gotta say that all this sounds backwards to me... Maybe there are bits and pieces missing in the story?

Most certainly, he has provided us with a very small amount of information. I think he was venting.

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Possibly!! 🙂

Either way I hope it works out for the best!

Wow, sounds like a Leo, is she 3rd decan and have a lot of leo planets? Pisces men aren't very trustworthy; you did something crazy passive/aggressive and I bet you. Pisces are the only other sign that tricks me--think we're best friends, then you guys leave me downtown at 2am in a city I'm visiting for the first time then I have to catch a $ 40 cab back to your house. Or you accuse me of stealing some shit I would never need and you get your Leo brother to punch me in the face. You probably owe her money. You probably PLAYED her in a big way.

I proved to her my innocence but by that time it was to late. As far as the soulmate chatter, I believe we have multipul people that can be A soul mate. I dont think there is 1 soul mate per person. Thats why i said she could possibly be A soulmate.

The way she treated me and as much as she hurt me, you would have blocked her out of your memory too. Plus I suffer from PTSD so blocking painful memories out comes easy to me. Do you want the person you love to go sleep with all you friends and then come rub it in your face? That bish went effen crazy.

I make more money a year than most will their entire life. She knows this and I believe that is why she keeps coming back. Ive thought of restraining order, but dont want that.

I need to get it through to her that we are done forever and dont come around anymore. Whats the best way to get that through a cancer womans head?

another venus retrograde victim right here. look up venus retrograde 😉

The whole cousin in my bed thing was really bad, but NOTHING happened. I have aries venus and im a straight shooter. I have saturn in eighth house, I approach sex with caution.

Too many holes in this, and too one sided. Was your cousin naked in your bed? Because most people won't flip about a cousin in the same bed if everyone is clothed. It's also odd that you made the braggy claim about your income. But whatever......moot point! If you really don't want her around and she won't take no for an answer then get a TRO. If you won't get a TRO then shut up about it and endure.

I love the outdoors. I used to teach primitive skills classes after work. More often than not we would be out into the early hours (3-5am) and have to be to work by 8. After a week or 2 of these sleepless nights, you get sleep deprived and your going to crash hard. My cousin, her husband and children were some of my students. Thats why my cousin was over that night, she was trying to wake me so we could head for the mountain. Unstead of going back out to her car where her family was, she laid down next to me and tried to get me up. That is the god honest truth. I hate when people bash pisces and call us all liars. Im one of the most honest straight forward people you will ever meet on this planet. Yes I have an over active imagination and Im spacy as hell, but im not a liar

My cousin wasnt naked, nor was I. I mention my income because people are greedy and that is the ONLY reason she is coming back around.

As much as I DONT like it, sounds like TRO is the way to go.

Thanks for the input guys!

Good luck hope it works out.

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Posted by 4reefer2man0
My cousin wasnt naked, nor was I. I mention my income because people are greedy and that is the ONLY reason she is coming back around.

Probably. A woman who loves you would never sleep with your friends not even for revenge

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I agree, i think she was always there just for the money. I think my ex friends that slept with her were expecting me to bow down to her every whim, that didnt happen. When they started their games with me, They all lost. I believe everything happens for a reason. I dont know why that happened on that night, but i assume it may have been a higher power saving me from a whole bunch of future problems, and it also helped thin out the number of idiots that I was surrounded by. Honestly, what are the odds of something like that happening?

Im picses, I avoid confrontation, so of course they saw me as weak. She is a ho as far as I am concerned, and all those mates are gone.

Posted by whatisthisallabout
another venus retrograde victim right here. look up venus retrograde 😉

Just got done reading about venus retrograde, I think you are right!!! Very interesting read. Its happening to me right now lol

Posted by 4reefer2man0

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee

Posted by 4reefer2man0
My cousin wasnt naked, nor was I. I mention my income because people are greedy and that is the ONLY reason she is coming back around.

Probably. A woman who loves you would never sleep with your friends not even for revenge

I agree, i think she was always there just for the money. I think my ex friends that slept with her were expecting me to bow down to her every whim, that didnt happen. When they started their games with me, They all lost. I believe everything happens for a reason. I dont know why that happened on that night, but i assume it may have been a higher power saving me from a whole bunch of future problems, and it also helped thin out the number of idiots that I was surrounded by. Honestly, what are the odds of something like that happening?

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Don't worry, a Cancer can't beat a Pisces. It is highly probable that she IS coming back for the money because a Cancer would do that. A lot of people would, but especially a Cancer woman.

Lol why ur accusing her about the money thing? (First n foremost u ppl dont even comment about the money when u dont really know her ) when u n her in a relationship does she ask for you to buy her this n that or did she asked u to pay all her bills everymonth? Because as far as i know we cancerians know how to make our own money lol u said u were in pain that she put you through did u ever think about her pain too? What did u do to win her trust again? Lets say if u were in her shoes what r u gonna feel when u see her w/ a man on bed? The stalking is not good but u have to comfront her she is not as crazy as u think she will understand what u will say to her just talk to her n be honest tell her u dont love her anymore and definitely she will withdraw herself from you dont give her a false hope thats why she keeps coming back to you

My friends and family, emails and text messages proved my innocence. But her actions toward me is what finalized any kind of love from me. Your right when you say cancers can make their own money, she has done very well for herself, and she is on a roll as far as I am concerned. Good for her, she earned it. We had a few good business deals and she wants more, thats why shes coming back. Ive been reading lots about the venus retrograde, I believe thats whats happening right now. I even called my ex wife to make some deals before I knew about the venus retrograde. Im going to take total advantage of the retrograde and try to start, but not finalise some sort of business deals, its in the stars!! Maybe crazy cancer girl will have some awesome idea that I need to hear, so for now Im going to relax and see what she wants. She goes crazy Ill get the TRO.

She must've really ripped your guts out if you perma exiled her. Crabs can do that, and deploy their pain on to others that care for them. Sucks, but if it is that bad, and she is harassing you, then you will have to get the law involved.