Cancer woman with aquarius guy?

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BleedingMoon
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14 Years

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depends how we're treated as to how much space we can give...there have been plenty of times I've wanted to have my space from male pursuers (both were Air signs) and I couldnt run fast enough.

There have been some Air/ Fire signs I've fallen for and ya, I got a little clingy...

It comes down to timing in anyone's life...and life's situations really.

If we're in it for reals or in it just to hang out...I mean, love dont run right?

If you're meant to be with someone...and you know that they're are into you... I mean, Cancers (I'm one wiht a an Aqua. Moon) ... I need a lot of assurance for sure, once I have it...and a level I'm comfortable with...if all other aspects of the relationship are fine- then my partner has all the freedom he wants...

Recently I broke wiht an Aqua. and the more secretive and behind my back he got about crap- for no reason at all, the more he made plans and shifted them, changed or broke them- the pissier I got.

I'm not clingy per se...but, I do like to feel that my partner is my best friend and I would like access at my leisure and theirs. I want to talk and work out issues with them...

this Aqua. not the most insightful (Taurus Moon) sort of a loner.


Cancer and Aqua are fine as friends I'd say- but, it depends what type of Cancer you are.
Some Aqua's like to be the center of attention- a lot. SO plan on being comfortable in your own skin.
Personally, unless you have an Air Moon or Air sign Venus... this could tire in a matter of months...

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Californiansunshine
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14 Years

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Hi everyone,

To answer the first post: there's astrology on the one hand. So, yes, I'm a cancer, but I have air signs and I'm a moon in aries, so clinging is not my forte. If I ever feel a little bit clingy, I keep it to myself (too much pride I guess). Then, there's your education and experience. And those 2 elements have really made even less clingy. I actually need A LOT of freedom. I can tolerate people for a while, but then, they have to give me a break and leave me alone. I can't do 24/7 (that's why I'm divorcing!). Deep down, I guess I'm a commitment-phobic.
As for the other questions: well, we haven't been there in our discussions yet, but it's in the air. He's making a lot of efforts to see me these days and is starting to talk about personal things, so we'll get there. The attraction has been there since February and we slowly started to talk to each other since then. Since a month and a half, he's the one making the efforts, I've taken the back seat and been observing him a lot. Man, the guy sure talks A LOT!! (talk about being the center of attention!!!!!!), but he's funny and interesting, so it's ok. I even think it's touching... If he weren't, I would have run away a long time ago.
I guess my real problem has nothing to do with astrology. My previous relationship has been such a disaster that I lost all self-confidence. I guess, I just have to let go and see how it goes!
Anyway, thank you all for your comments, it's always helpful to hear perspectives from people who have been there!
Cheers from France,

S.