Cancer Women....

There are so many bad things to say about cancer men. I never read anything bad about us cancer woman. What's everyone's view on cancer woman. I mean from those of you who aren't cancer woman. What things do you have to say about us?

always have to be right, always have to have the last word. lol
a good thing, they will take ur secrets to the grave, bad thing, u piss them off, they will forgive u, but still call u on it

Ima Cancer woman and I do think we are alot to handle...but I also think we are wayyy worth it.

My best friend is a Cancer (I'm a Scorp) and our kids are best friends (Sag and Aquarius).

She is very nurturing, kind, maternal, funny, beautiful, deeply intuitive, creative...

Can also be private (me too), protective...

We had a big fight a year ago (her husband, also a Scorp, said we are like lesbians -- always fighting and making up -- LOL!!!) because our kids fought, and we were in there -- two overprotective moms, each taking our kids' sides...

She did not talk to me for six months, and this hurt...however, now that I am experienced with Cancers (having been married to one, now divorced), I let her have her emotions...

We made up in a very indirect way, and she never admitted her wrongs...neither did I...

She is about the only person I trust with my kids...I know she has "ways" of living and knowing that I am only just beginning to understand...and I admire, and learn from, her mothering techniques...

Wow! I know this sounds intense, but we do have an intense bond for two heterosexual women! It's just that Cancer/Scorpio connection...

Eaglegirl

Message posted by: solitas777 on 12/30/2006 6:00:40 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.46
Hmmm well lets see. Beautiful, kind, caring, and comforting. Also self-centered, needy, ultra-sensitive, loves to sulk, indirect, procrastinators. Wooing a cancer woman is hell, she's indirect so you never know if your winning her and her crab like shell is ALWAYS up and it can take forever. Winning a cancer woman is HEAVEN and HELL. Cancer's make great mom's, decent wives, great friends, and terrible girlfriends.

I don't thik wooing us is hell.... If we are wooed you'll know!! If were not wooed right away that's when we're indirect. At least I am!! If I'm still feeling a person out then I'm not going to come out with my feelings because I'm still tryin to figure the person out. If I've made up my mind about you already you'll know. And the last part of what you wrote makes no sense lol. We make decent wives but, terrible girlfriends... If we're such terrible girlfriends how the hell do we get to wifey status?

We made up in a very indirect way, and she never admitted her wrongs...neither did I...

Spoken like a true Cancer and Scorp relationship.

Yes the women are sensitive...but also kind hearted, caring and affectionate.

And Lord knows they are MOODY!

Message posted by: GreatBull on 1/2/2007 10:47:50 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.37
"What things do you have to say about us?"

you secretly evil.
and munipulative, but i cant find out if its for the better or worse.

Were not evil but, we can do evil things when evil things are done to us. We do have a soft spot for taking revenge in our own hands... I'm learning to control this and put things in Gods hands....

I mean there really is no justifying it but, I don't think I'm evil person or cancew woman are evil people. We are actually overly nice people lol... I just know that I do think of doing evil things when I'm pissed off but, I don't take it to extremities like when my X was locked up for beating me up I could have done a lot of evil shit and my sister was tempting me to take all his belongings in his van down to the homeless part of town and leave it there to let all the homeless people pick through it. No matter how bad I would have loved to do that out of spite I didn't do it because I'm actually not that type of person. So I don't think we are evil. Being evil and having evil thoughts are two different things.

you secretly evil.

i think that's one of the best descriptions i've read thus far. we are exactly that. secret, because when we're baking cookies and kissing boo-boo's you'd never think we'd become the woman to cut the sleeves off your armani suit (and place it back in the bag) or cut the tongues out of all of your sneakers.

most of the 'evils' are all in your head

by all in our head, do you mean wrongs that we know to be true where the other party will not concede wrong-doing? that could be anyone and any sign. my husband and i are both cancers and when we go at it we each will often say "yeah, but you KNOW what you meant" while the other will vehemently deny any malevolence...beneath it all we each go to bed knowing exactly what we each meant, and it wasn't nice.

Going into shell?
LOL
I prefer giving them a good piece of my mind or may just spew it out with all concerned.
Then feel bad about spewing for days till I realise that actually spewing out did bring in some changes (not necessarily in my favor) but towards the larger picture.

"Cancer's make great mom's, decent wives, great friends, and terrible girlfriends."


ha...i like that!!!

cancer females tend to project whatever is thrown onto them. For example, if someone is not making them feel very loved or protected then they will act aloof or put up their famous shell.

WHOA! That is SO TRUE! I do that...alot. I'm trying to work on my negative traits.

Yes, tends to be a bad habit of ours! I do it all the time. But I try not to, though it seems I do it without even knowing it most of the time.