I THINK i might wanna marry a SCORPIO woman......

Marriage is important to me.
I want that old fashion, nuclear FAMILY.

As a pisces male.... i'm a hopeless romantic but i'm currently recovering from a devastating break up with a cancer female.

She wasn't the one, but of all the twelve signs i see my choices for a wife, life partner, mother of my kids etc. as such:

#1. CANCER female... why? there is no woman that compares to her. eventho she left.


#2. SCORPIO FEMALE..... why?


Well.... Passion.

Not the sex drive they are known for, but simply passion.

My cancer girl kinda made me feel like she just settled for me....

I know a scorpio girl would indulge herself in me the way i would indulge myself in every facet of her.

I'M NOT trying to make this sound sexual... i mean it for real.

Also....

CONVERSATION... some of my best conversations have been with scorpio women.

They actually seem interested in what i have to say, which is rare in females.

also....

LOYALTY.... i'm not sure, but they seem like a very loyal bunch.

I do have a shallow reason for wanting a scorpio girl...maybe i'll get into that another time.


But.... can you all tell me what i would have to look forward to
as the potential husband of a Scorpio woman —? (i'm speaking hypothetically)

Family means alot to me, i want alot of kids, a tight knit family,
a fun household and a passionate and heavenly marriage...

as a pisces man, could i find this in a scorpio girl ?

Probably and those stacks of unpaid bills and stuff(from the other topic,I noticed but didn't respond before) would be gotten rid of also if you were with a scorp girl...maybe,if you get a more normal one lol.We can be control freaks and unpaid bills is sooo bad for ones credit when your trying to succeed😢So my rambling does have a point yes🙂You'll possibly find what your looking for in a scorp plus will be a chick whos gonna be on your butt and helping towards success in the business relm also.

Nuh uh...NO CAPRICORN GIRLS for me.

Not again.

Hi Mercury, glad to be able to give you some advice for a change :-)

Yes marry a scorpio!!!! We are passionate, which is why our temper is so legendary - but our temper blows over very quickly. We will totally obssess over you and pisces are about the only ones who can and do appreciate that intense type of adoration - most other guys feel suffocated by it, which makes us feel rejected and unimportant to them. Pisces men love it and that deepens the bond that we share.

The music and love of artistic persuits will also bonds us together and we feel like we are the only ones on earth who understand and "get" each other, like we are in our own little world together and that feels so amazing - we feel like we belong to eachother and no-one can tear us apart (unless we do something stupid, like i did, and now i have to pay the cost, but you know all about that).

Yes we scorp women ARE interested in what you have to say, because we are obssessed with you and and anything you love we'll probably love (well, mostly) and we love interesting and stimulating conversation too. Scorpios are very independent too and we won't live our lives thru you so don't worry about that!!

We'll love your romantic side and we will appreciate your tenderness, your sensitivity, your patience and your understanding. We are loyal - i have been known to almost kill to defend a friend or loved one (not just b/f) NO-ONE but NO-ONE disses our loved ones EVER, but that does have a dark side which is known as JEALOUSY which can be very very difficult for our lovers to deal with - you see we scorpio's DEMAND to be the centre of your universe so if anything or anyone threatens that...watch out!!! All we scorpio girls want is to be the centre of your world, to devour you with love and adoration and to have you indulge us in your romantic and artistic creativity...

go for it Mercury, you won't regret it... (even tho my pisces man is at the moment - the jealousy thing you see...dangerous!!)

PLUS SCORPIOS ARE YOUR SOUL MATE SIGN. MARRY THE WOMAN OF YUR DREAMS , DON'T MISS THAT. FORGET THE SIGN SHIT. BUT IF YOU WANT TO GO FOR COMPATABILITY AND YOUR SOUL SIGN, A SCORPIO IS IT. PIECES +SCORPIO= SOUL MATE SIGN

I don't know about other Scorpio girly wirlies but personally for me I don't think a Pisces man does it!. I want someone who makes me WORK WORK WORK for it...

Scorpio men - Wanted by God, Hunted by Men!

I UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM MISSMORALS. I LIKE A CHALLENGE TOO! I'M JUST RESPONDING TO THE GUY ON A SIGN LEVEL.

I met a really nice Virgo guy tonight at a BBQ. We caught each others eye and he's friends with my friend..so I think she's going to tell him 😉

THANK YOU THANK YOU........


Yo - this has been very good for me.

One POINT -- i noticed that NO ONE even mentioned anything about my Cancer choice
even though it was my #1. choice for who i'd likely to marry.


ONE THING ... i need explained about SCORPIO WOMEN tho....

and this might be what Cancer girls typically have over Scorpio girls....

I know a few Cancers. I know a few Scorpios.

I LOVE GOOD GIRLS............ I MEAN ..... even though it's really just something you see on t.v. and not in the real world but even in these days and times....

the girls who seem to be more selective with who they have sex with
and who they let into their lives are CANCER females.

Innocence.

Very sexy.

What likelihood is there that a Scorpio girl would successfully repress her urges enough to still be a good girl —?

I mean.... even some of the religious scorp girls i know STILL have slept with at least a dozen guys.

My cancer ex -- i was her 4th and we were in our mid 20's.

that's what i want, can i find that in a scorpio girl ?

yeah it never seems "right' if we dont have a tiny bit of tension before my scorp guy and i have sex..i usually go through some emotional stuff before

yeah it never seems "right' if we dont have a tiny bit of tension before my scorp guy and i have sex..i usually go through some emotional stuff before

Notso007 - "morals are also a result of upbringing and personal decisions"

Thats why I can't stand this stigma of sex attached to Scorpios. There are some saints around..like moi!..

**halo shines**

LOL@shining halo.


Abstinent Scorpio females —

That's brilliant.

And i see your point, had i not bought into the stereotype so much that would've even shock me.

But. that's the point of these message boards.

I do think that how a person has conducted themselves in their sexual past brings about a certain judgment on them.

My friends call me a prude because i don't do one night stands.

They are wrong for calling me prudish and all....but yo -- they are absolutely right to ascertain that i take physical intimacy very seriously.

Females these days hardly ever attach emotions to sex anymore.

All of my friends who make fun of me for being so "up tight" about not having sex with random partners...they are all females.

So....when i say i want a GOOD GIRL.

I do factor sexual past into it.

Finding a female who conducts herself as a lady ....that's damn near non-existent in this day and age.

At least here in the so called midwest (ohio, Michigan)

THAT'S what i wanna hear !!!!!

Hope ya little girl chooses wisely.

I don't do one night stands either,live in ohio and originally raised in michigan.However moving to ohio was a really big step back in intelligence in the sexual department compared to michigan.I learned about sex,contraceptives,etc. in 3rd grade in detroit(probably cause the school I went to was for the poorer,ghetto residents:Statistics and stereotypes again) then moved to a smaller town in ohio and they didn't teach sex ed until like 5th or 6th grade.In which some of the class was already having unprotected sex.I myself was a virgin until like two months before turning 18 and it was a longterm relationship(couple years).

However on this scorps/sex thing alot of the scorp women here(on the site) seem to be the "prudes" or more selective scorps version of scorps,but at the same time,theres alot of slutty scorp women I know personally.Only myself and one other scorp female,doesn't have a huge sexual background lol.So pretty much anything you read here can't be aplied to all scorps either,we're the extremist of the zodiac so some may be total sluts but just as many may be the "virgins" or close to it until marriage also.Depends on which extreme they fall under.

notso07 - fantastic comment...

speaking personally I can say that 'physical intimacy' in a relationship goes way way beyond just the physical - it's mind, spirit and soul as well and is more of a way that we can express our love for our partner because we feel so much emotion and passion for them that it sometimes frustrates us because we can't express it.

Scorpio's want to be the centre of your world, be your only one, so we don't want to know about your sexual past either because it can have the tendency to play on our minds. The reality in this day and age is that most people do have a 'past', but if you don't tell me yours I won't tell you mine is probably the best way to approach it. Anyway, speaking for myself the only person i'm obssessed with and thinking about 24/7 when i'm in a relationship is the man i'm with - i'm not thinking about past lovers or whatever.

Mercury, honey, we scorpio's are loyal to the death. We want to mate with one for life, we will be totally and completely devoted to you and you pisces are about the only ones that can handle that intensity, actually you thrive on it!!! But, we demand loyalty and faithfullness is return...remember, you don't ever want to betray a scorpio :-)

I have only had 2 serious relationships and I wouldn't dream of cheating on them. I am faithful as you can get..I don't beleive in sleeping around, have far too much self-respect for that kind of thing..anyways I don't want to contract all those horrid diseases and I would probably hate myself for having multiple partners...I am extremely self-critical as it is!

Well if my experience shows anything, we may be loyal to a fault. That must just be me and whatever else is going on in my chart.

Make sure she knows who she is to start, maybe not evolved, but grounded in her identity. That was my problem, I let my husband define me. I'm paying for it now.

I think I'm devolving heavily. But maybe it's the phoenix burning part of my evolution. It hurts.

Good luck.

Phoenix... so many women say that they are akin to the legendary phoenix.

There's a girl on myspace, she and i are cool - she's a sag and has still found a way to weave this phoenix thing in there somewhere - LOL


Call me petty, but i'm the type to WANT to know my partner's sexual past
and i dont mind telling my own.

Maybe i'm different.... who knows.


IT really is good for my heart to see so man of the females on this site that seem to NOT be the cheating type, the one night stand type - so on.

That is ....it's amazing to me really.


As for my thoughts on if i wanna marry a scorpio girl ....


This board has done alot to bolster that energy, you know ?



Maybe i just hold Cancerian girls so dear because my ex was one and i have yet to meet a woman who compares to her.

But... judging from i've read and what i've learned on here....

the girl that woould give me the relationship i want...and wouldn't just up and leave...
just might be a Scorpio.

Okay...that's what i'm going with.

My next girl.... SCORPIO.

But i'm NOT gonna look.

when im ready... i'll just concentrate on it and it'll happen.

Mercury,

Well here's what I can say about the matter. Scorpio women, yes when we love, we love hard, but we don't give our hearts quickly or freely. You'll be put through tests, either to your knowledge, or not. We are something else when its one on one behind closed doors and if our hearts are involved. I for one, do not give my body to just anyone because I feel that it's sacred, and it's very important to me that I am in love with the one that I become sexually involved with. So not all of us succomb to the stigma of our sign. We love to pleasure the one that we're with, and yes we truly enjoy sex, but that doesn't mean we're all a bunch of hussies! Sex, at least for me, is a spiritual connection as well as a physical one. That's why I love it so much, cause lets face it, it's impossible for you to become closer.
I was with a pisces for 8years, it was a wonderful connection, and if I would have my way, we would still be together. Unfortunately though, we weren't evolved individually enough to be with one another. Our focus was more on eachother, then it was ourselves, and believe it or not, that doesn't work. So I will let you in on a couple of words of caution before you find your scorpio. Know where you're going, and what your goals are before you enter a relationship with a scorp, we're intense, I realize you're learning, but not too many people realize our intensity until they get involved with us. A scorp woman will passionately help lift you toward your goals if she truly loves you. But if you are only half into what you're going for our all or nothing nature will come into play, and eventually your goals will be written off as just talk. So be solid on where you want to go, and what you want to do. And even when you're down or out, we'll lift you up, dust you off, and give you the love and support to keep on. Being a pisces it will be in your nature to almost always go with the flow, a scorpio woman needs a strong man in a partnership to actually be a partnership. If you make it so we call the shots everytime, we'll view you as a weakling, or doormat, and will eventually tire of being the one who calls the shots. So take initiative every once and again, trust me, it will definately be appreciated. We like strong men, and that's both of mind and body.
Good luck!
Storm

I don't know about other Scorpio girly wirlies but personally for me I don't think a Pisces man does it!. I want someone who makes me WORK WORK WORK for it...



If you want a sign that will make you work for it - Virgo is the person for you.

I am chatting to one at the moment to tell you the truth. He's making it quite easy. I am the one making him work..But theres no need..we are both straightfoward and know that we fancy the pants off each other!..lol..He will take a while to trust but so do I so its all cool...we have an understanding..

🙂

Wow...sometimes these threads become so long and off the focal point i forget what the initial question was. Anyway...Good Luck with marrying your Scorpio Girl. She is most definitely faithful and will be as freaky as you want her to be. Only to you of course but once the love is their the inhibition goes out the window.

Promiscuous Scorpio's? Nah...we are too emotional for promiscuity. I am in my late 20's and have had 3 partners to date. I don't think i am promiscuous at all.

Sex is never cheap to a scorpio.

well as you can see mr crabby, i am thee. i responded in a matture way to your forum, but ldybg377 is 35 and immature , full of viruses and downloads. SHES a pieces who's always on the scorpio board, how obsessive, gay , and wierd!!! , . what a destructive person. I think you know who to run from..!! it's funny ldybg377 still trying to clown, but she fells to realize ,she's being ignored , i actually take you as a joke a good laugh=lol, as someone who may be gay, i mean why are you harassing me and taunting. YOU ARE SO BENEATH ME , AND YOU DON'T COME CLOSE TO FUCKING WITH ME , WITH THAT OVERBEARING ATTITIUDE. I GUESS I'M WORKING YOUR NERVES WITHOUT EVEN TRYING, GUESS IT'S THAT POWER. i would speak logically to you but this will work better:

GET YO IMOTURE AZZ OUT A HERE, WE DON WONT YO ON THIS BOARDD NO MO !

Dyrstr8z -- DOPE ASS NAME by the way...and i love how you put that.

MOST FEMALES these days...seem to want some overly macho dude...that's not me.

Still waters run deep... i don't have to raise my voice to get my way.

Hopefully if i meet a nice scorpio girl she'll be able to deal with that.

"Females these days hardly ever attach emotions to sex anymore."

i think you can see from the posts on here that scorps take sex pretty seriously.
i posted this somewhere else recently regarding sex/relationships:
"for me sex is an important part of a relationship because it is one of the ways i express feelings my towards my partner. a 'communication of the souls' so to speak; sounds goofy, but for me an intense emotional connection is renewed and energized during physical intimacy."

sex is not something i take lightly, and am so glad to read this thread coz i thought i was the only one who felt that sex is a spiritual experience, not just a physical act.

i think someone's attitude towards sex is more relevant when it comes to evaluating a potential relationship than the number of partners they've had. focusing on a number seems to be more about ego (the male ego, to be more precise - sorry, had to say it :p)

besides, some things are better left in the past. maybe it's just the scorp in me, but sometimes i can get jealous talking about ex's ....

anyway, sounds like you want a scorpio in the bedroom and a cancer outside of it, LOL - maybe find a cancer girl that has a venus in scorpio or whatever, am not an expert on the astrology stuff. good luck 🙂

Mercury...you still haven't told what happened with the Cancer girl. Now I might not be "obsessive" about my men, but I AM obsessive about knowing what happened.

I can be a stalker you know...

LOL@ Cancerlady stalkin me for info.

You know what... i plan on writing something that captures what happened w/ my ex.
I've tried a few times this week and erased what i wrote...it still hurts and i don't know if i want it bumrushed by folks who won't care that its a sensitive issue.


BY THE WAY: I NEVER intended for this "...might wanna marry a scorpio..." thread
to turn sexual.

never.


Scorp5.0 --- cute diagnosis and all...but freaky women don't attract me.

FURTHERMORE.... i think that NUMBERS are important when it comes to sex.

If a girl says
"I ONLY have sex with people when i have a deep, meaningful, special bond with them"""

But then she's slept with like 10 -15 GUYS and she's like 25......

WELL DAYUM... tha'ts a contradiction.

NO WAY she could've had a train of such meaningful bonds.

TAKE KARIMA'S POST (a few posts up) --- she's in her late 20's and only 3 partners.

THAT gets all the props in the world.

It says she's a lady. it says she thinks things through.

Sure... as a man, it does feel good to know i could be with a girl who hasnt' been around the block.

And i treat myself the same way. I can count on ONE hand the number of people i've had sex with in my 20's and i'm 28.

It's a two way street and the numbers DO matter.

A meaningful bond wouldn't evaporate quick enough for ANYONE to start racking them up at the speed of light...........if so, then they truly weren't that meaningful or special afterall.

Just cuz your syrup on shyt DOES NOT make it pancakes.

You can't be infatuated, lust filled or horny -- and call that "meaningful".

WAIT -- i messed that up:


" You can't pour syrup on shyt and call it pancakes"


LOL -- THAT'S how it was supposed to go.

WHATEVER!

As soon as you get a woman who hasn't been around the block...you'll be complaining that she wasn't any good in bed! 😉

Besides, alot of women lie about their sexual past because all men really want to hear is that he is her one and only, the most virile, the best of everything, blah blah blah...and he is happy.

My mother has only had sex with one man in her life (so she says) and even though I'm not mad at her for it, I look at her like...HOW BORING! Talk about pancakes for breakfast everyday! I think people should do what works for them sexually and not judge others for what they do as long as it is consensual.

I must say though, Mercury...I am glad that you hold yourself up to the same standards that you hold for your women. Many men want the virgin but they are the biggest whore this side of wherever! Kudos to you, and I hope you find her.

No man can really expect a virgin.

Do you WATCH B.E.T.— Females are happy walkin around half-naked.

And as a man who prefers more lady-like girls...these half naked, overtly sexual girls just skip over guys who have higher standards.

think about the guys you know who are Whores .... do they EVER have a problem getting girls ?? NO.

Why is that ??/

Cuz females are becoming more and more acquainted with "going around the block" themselves.


And you are INCORRECT.

If i had an innocent girl, and she was innocent due to high morals...
i'd prefer nothing better.

I had a girl who was mildly reserved in the bedroom....didn't bother me at all.

I loved it actually -- much better than a girl who wants to show what she's learned on her way around the block leading up to me.

no thanks.

OK Mercury, that was a joke...chill out dude! I know you already said that freaks don't attract you. I just like playing devil's advocate...

I wish you all the luck in the world in finding your virtuous girl 🙂

I mean the first part was a joke. Women REALLY DO lie about that. The only way you can be ABSOLUTELY sure is if she IS a virgin. Otherwise...you never really know.

Mercury, i'm 35 and can count my partners on half a hand, but it doesn't automatically make me a more moral person, it's only coz i've been in long term relationships.

am curious about something... number of partners - where do you draw the line? what formula are you using to determine whether she's good enough or not? so 5 partners is ok, but not 6? hmmm, i'd find that tough to measure. 'i really like her a lot, but if only she'd been with 5 guys instead of 6...'

all's am sayin is don't be so judgemental .... and i don't mean to suggest compromising your standards, am just suggesting to keep an open mind.

and i do wish you good luck - it's an admirable thing to know what you want, and to not settle.

Sorry folks...i'm judgmental.

Can't help it.


It would take faaaaarrrr too long and too much of your attention span to dive into my past to psycho-analyze myself to give you guys answers that will please you.


But alas... i am flawed, yet i am me.


(beginning to re-think this whole scorpio woman thing...for real yo )

scorp5pt0...thank you for making that point.

dyrstr8z

You think I'm amazing...*blush* Wow! Thanks...I try my best! BTW, needle in a "ho stack" LMAO! Hilarious...

But I think you also have a great point with "Patterns of Behavior" theory.

"(beginning to re-think this whole scorpio woman thing...for real yo )"

sorry Mercury, hope you didn't get stung 🙂 i guess that's a scorpio trait, where you try to help someone and you end up stinging them in the process, lol

scorpio women are all or nothing, and loyal to boot - that goes a long way towards giving you peace of mind and security...don't count them out, oops, uhm, i mean don't rule them out :p