CANCERS AND ANGER ISSUES!!

HEY , I WANT TO KNOW WHY CANCERS SEEM TO JUST SNAP , AS IF THEY AREN'T THEMSELVES, WHEN THEY GET MAD!!! A CANCER WILL LASH OUT ON YOU AND FORGET YOU ARE THEIR FRIEND OR SOMEONE THEY LOVE. WHAT MAKES CANCERS SNAP SOMETIMES, EVEN AT TIMES WHEN NO ONE IS HARMING THEM INTENIONALLY. WHY DO YOU ALL SNAP , WHERE DOES THAT ANGER COME FROM??

RUN, crabs, RUN! It's an angry Scorpio! *protects crabs* Back away from the caps lock key! You're not screamin' at the crabs, dammit!

Girl , get a life and stop following me around. GET OFF MY JOCK ... I don't like women... Ghetto ignornat , ignorant girl!!!

flygyrlchi - Cancers are super sensitive to their own emotions but also very intuitive of other people's emotions.

I think that if a Cancer is not taught at an early age how to express their emotions in a non combative but communicative manner then they can turn out to be the type of person to lash out when they feel threatened or hurt.

Mature Cancers who understand their feelings/emotions and don't fight them or hide from them can become more aware of the things/situations/people that affect them and try to avoid them.

I know for me when I am upset rather than lash out with unkind words I usually shut down (get quiet as to not say something offensive or leave) to extract myself from the situation all together.

Its a rare in my case........but i hate it when it happens.......it starts like this,a bad day with lot of frustrations and by the evening if someone provokes or argues then that person is dead!!!!I would just go to sleep without talking 2 anyone to avoid lashing out @ anyone and take a day off @ work.......others might be facing similar situations.......let see

when i was a young cancer i had a really bad temper and would get angry a lot. but now that i am older and wiser i don't allow myself to get angry. grant it i get upset but i don't lose control and turn into satan's child like i did before. it becomes a matter of recognizing that anger doesn't get you anywhere except in more trouble. i tend not to take things so personally anymore and prefer to laugh things off..but to each his own..

hotgal78 , i feel ya. I think that if someone is shown at a young age how to communicate , they will lash out correctly , and aim at the right damn target. My mother is a dearest Cancer. I love my mom. She doesn't act like any sign. She's just herself. No mood swings, no emotional out burst, no temper tantrums. She's angry when she has a reason. Real loving, but can be snappy at times.

My thing is , with cancers, why do they lash out and loose it soo, as if nothing but (GOD) himself can bring them back to earth...! It's like some comes over them, and there is no such thing as, talking them out of their moments. (SCORPIOS CAN) Virgos has a way of keeping their attitiudes tidy, according to research. They also lash out on people when no harm is intentional in the first place. That's the problem, showing anger is no problem, I think the bible states, so as long as you don't sin...!!!!

I'm a SCORPIO!~ though

I've noticed with my female cancer best friend that when she's angry she won't say anything, she'll just disappear for a couple of weeks then come back and make up some excuse like her son broke the computer and she couldn't get on-line.

I think the men are more expressive of their anger.

DAMN, YOU HAVE COMPUTER LOVE... LOL


YOU'RE 26, THAT'S AROUND MY AGE... I'M IN THAT RANGE , BUT A LITTLE YOUNGER.

Remember , Silence is Golden !!!! the best anger is the silent kind

I'm never angry

I swear when a cancer gets upset ....look into their beedy little eyes .....you will see flames ......duck .......or else.

Flygirlchi actually does bring up a good point. That is interesting that some cancers do have coping skills learned. I can see this to be true, but I would have to say that Cancer people are easily frustrated and it is beyond me why many of them take management jobs because to manage people you need patience and understanding.

Cancer people when they are in a good spot are such a joy to be around. I did date a cancer a few years ago, and I adored him however I could never understand those moods. I think it takes a certain person to either ignore those moods or truely understand them.

((hugs sweet cancers)) we love you no matter how moody you are. 😉

PD

Cancer theme song ....lol love this old 80's tune

My Ever Changing Moods - style Council (video VERY goofy)

Here is an example of someone ANgry?.


Only time I'm ever Angry is when getting pwnt in halo 3 by a sniper while sneaking up behind someone with a sword for a kill fucking up your killing spree while noticing your dog running away with your last slice of pizza and hurting your pinky toe on the coffee table while chasing your dog and being called a noob by the tool sniper who killed you and finding out he was only 12 years old... I didn't care.. I told him SANTA the tooth fairy and the Easter bunny DOESNT exists the live the dream now go suck on your mommas pepperoni tits until you fall asleep?

Well something like that?.

I don't get angry?. I get upset?

My cancer never seems to get angry, more like he has moments of just being annoyed. the closest I've seen him get was at his car and in the end he just yelled at it, i laughed and then he started laughing.

Cancers dont really hold onto anger do they?

btw HI CANSIR!

Yea i hear about cancer mood swings a lot, honestly i enjoy taking care of my cancer, so its not really a problem... plus im moody too!

but yea it never really seems like hes holding onto any anger. for a moment hes really pissed / irritated, then 2 min later hes like over it. it seems to just roll off his shoulder rather easily. So i can never really understand it when people say 'cancers are moody and hold onto things', cuz he seems to get over it pretty quick.

I've never heard of cancers being vengeful, please dont tell me they dont do things out of spite?

A Scorpio did NOT just ask why Cancers snap?!
hmmm- pot calling the kettle black isnt it?

consider both the sign and moon sign...the moon rules the emotions as well
dated a Lib/scorp moon- boy, that guy would dish out crap and couldnt take one thing in return...how lame.
and revengeful as all get out.
I dont bite unless bitten- and even then I ask myself, "is it worth my time?"
probably not.

hey parakissbelle! hope you are doing well. i agree with moonmadness in that one would have to factor other pieces of the chart. i have a cap moon and aries rising so like parakiss was saying about her boyfriend i can be the same way in that i can get mad fast but i am also over it just as quick. but like i mentioned earlier i now get upset not angry :-)

moonmadness, remember the guy u dated had that libra in him, they usually can't take what they dish, a SCORP can however. lol

What did you say, a pot calling the kettle black, ahhh there's the quote i've been looking for.. lol Who said I was a scorp?

Yeah the moon does control the moods, and when it's full , it's hellafied sanctified. lol

cancers can be cool, but when they are mad, it's like the warewolf on top of the moon, growling... mewwwwwwwww

I know when I'm ang....er....upset, I am quiet as I'm trying to sort out in my head why I'm upset. Like is this for real? Or am I overreacting. I'm trying to talk myself out of being upset because I know I can be irrational sometimes or is it just that I'm emotional?...Don't know but I can work it out in my head and then I'm cool again! 🙂

OK, i would say a Scorp. can take what they dish.
but watch out when its their turn to serve...yeeeshhh.

hey cansir, turns out ur moons the same as my bfs! btw obviously as you can already tell, i waited, waited and waited. finally saw him after 3 weeks, i broke down and spilled my little aries guts out (rare for me to be really emo)... and we're official! He's gotten a little possessive, but otherwise again no rage, just irritated moments where he eventually gives up... waits and then tries again. Cancers seem to be very patient

I dated a cancer for three years and in the beginning he was the calmest, sweetest, warmest person I had ever met and never once had a mood swing. By the end of the third year though, big change.

I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. He would just SNAP. And there was nothing you could say or do that would return him to his normal self except to leave him alone for a day or two. But it was scary as hell. Upsetting too. He'd act as if he didn't even know me when in those moods, hit me once even.

It was so odd because any other time he was the most non confrontational person you would ever meet.

It was so odd.

Sorry I can't help hah, I have no idea, I would love to find out though.

Cancers get extremely irritated at the following:
Financial difficulty (security)
emotional security
if these are off balance in their lives as well as other processes of life causing stress- 4get about it...yes, they can turn into real crabs for periods of time and sometimes not even realizing it.
I suppose this could be true of anyone, but these (2) things are near and dear and thoughts of poverty or being really alone are terrifying to Cancer and they (we) can act a little irrational.

My cancer guy friend that cut ties with me had extreme anger issues. He almost killed a man.

HONESTLY ON SOME REAL SHEIT CANCERS BE SNAPPING ON SOME REAL SHEIT. THE MEN WILL SNAP ON YOU LIKE THEY'RE GOING TO KILL U. CANCER MEN WILL HIT WOMEN WHEN THEY GET UPSET. MOONMADNESS, YEP SCORPS CAN TAKE WHAT THEY DISH, BUT WHEN THEY GO OFF, WATCH THE HELL OUT. THE THING IS, A SCORPIO WILL STING , WITHOUT EVEN SHOWING ANGER OR APPEARING ANGRY. THAT SHEIT JUST HAPPENS. WHEN WE TAKE INJURY, WE DO AND THAT'S WHAT IT IS...


CANCERS BE CRAZY THO

FLY...You need a board or a talk show all by your lonesome.