I've read somewhere that cancers have this need for revenge and I was interested because I myself have a deep need to get revenge when I've been done wrong and I won't feel right until I do then I'll be satisfied. I just wanted to know any of you cancers have it in you to let go ever? or its not done until you've got your sweet sweet revenge. I've also read some cancer bashing threads that cancers tend to make these 'wrongs' up in their head due to their natural fear of rejection... Revenge is what makes life go on, right? =p
NAh no revenge for me no sense. Is if someone has threathened you then we act out.. justice. I can let go very easily but at times it hard when u been with a person in so deep and have so much love for that girl.
Yeah, its kind of like, not putting effort into people that don't matter. Why would you get revenge on a casual acquaintance? Maybe for kicks but thats just about it.. nothing too personal. I know if someone really close has done wrong to me, especially someone I have fell in love with or love, I will make it a part of my life to get them back.
Nah i try not to especially wityh someone i love i prefer let karma do its bidding, it always does. But at taimes when someone taking thinsg to extreme against then i act back.
I think cancers sweet revenge is as simple as their casual, cool, couldn't give a butter attitude! When i wanted a strong reaction from my cancer about something, he would show no emotion whatsoever and just shrug his shoulders like whatever(this drove me crazy) and he wouldn't argue with me either unless he wanted to and that was always when i didn't want to. I just always got this feeling he knew what he was doing and would try to wind me up on purpose and then when i would react, he'd look at me like i was strange and had grown another head or something (maybe i did!).
revenge does come in many shapes and forms but yes we do know how to push peoples buttons if we want to. when i was younger i was more revengeful but as i am getting older i can let things go more easily and like blackknoxx i let karma do its magic..
Exactly venus lady same with me, when me and my ex broke up she wanted me to throw a row when she blow a hissy fit. I just did not give into that and i know i what i'm doing in terms off controlling my temper and so called revenge. But she hurt me in a way that involve my life and i aint playing with that. TAurus gone bad,yup aint a pretty site.
Revenge is unneccessary and not a part of my game. . . unless. The person has done me a serious wrong. An act that was disrespectful, not instigated, hurts us-intentionally, etc. I dated a guy for over & around 3 yrs. We had an argument and didnt talk for quite some time, happened before. this time longer than usual, but I was soo busy. Anyway, he started online dating, found someone, never called me to say it was over. I called him, saw him-winks at me, then next day informs me he met someone online and is dating her. Whatever. Totally disrespectful and callous. Especially after all the crap he did to me thru the relationship and acted like I was the one that broke us up. Ha. But I was crushed with the way he handled things- total libra. We hooked up several times after he tells me he loves this other chick-still attracted to each other I suppose or he was trying to use me further-but I see thru it. He told his ex-wife. She defended him for years saying what a great guy he was. . . I called her one day(not to make waves, but to speak some truth into the matter, I said nothing of the hooking up-she brought it up. she thinks he's the biggest weenie on the planet now. Now I can rest in peace. So I wasnt outwardly revengeful nor did I confess to the ex that we hooked up more than once (she only know of one time, which he didnt even tell her the "one time" that he told me he told her, it was a completely different time). we hooked up in his apartment, he gets dressed and his new catch shows up at the door- did I yell "HI" in all my nakedness as he walked out the door to go to dinner? No, but it wouldve been damn funny. Was he trying to make me "feel" used? Sure. But at this point who cares, he did more damage to the ok relationship he had with his ex-wife than anything else. He is exposed as a jerk now, I am happy. Not in a mean way, just satisfied. Trust me, he in no way deserved to be defended.
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I just wanted to know any of you cancers have it in you to let go ever? or its not done until you've got your sweet sweet revenge. I've also read some cancer bashing threads that cancers tend to make these 'wrongs' up in their head due to their natural fear of rejection...
Revenge is what makes life go on, right? =p