Cancers fall for someone fast?

Hi all,

Met a cancer guy with the intentions of being friends, however the guy is starting to grow on me. He's very sweet and makes this earthy Virgo girl feel at ease and comfortable.

Started to notice he is falling fast for me though which is a concern. He's truly excited about me and has told all his friends and family about me. On

Top of that he had shown pictures off to his family and friends. He also started "claiming" me by saying "my baby" .... Not going to lie, but I really like the showing me off and his claim on me. :-)

Last night he told me that he

Put my picture as his background on his phone too...!

I am interested in him as I read out synastry chart and we were "marriage" material. However, this is new

To me - for a guy to be head over heels for me so early.

Is this normal behavior for cancers??

My past experiences with dating has had me more cautious... so maybe that's hindering my excitement, I dunno.

he is Cancer sun and Moon... I am Virgo Sun and Taurus Moon

Yep. It's normal. But it's best to slow it down and make sure that you're both right for each other first before falling in love. We are notorious for skipping this step and then having a lot of failed relationships as a result. This is especially true if they haven't had their heart broken before and don't realize what that feels like so that they can take measures to prevent it!

What is his sexual orientation?

Thank you all for your responses. He is a total sweetheart and I can tell its possible that we'd have a future together.

I will listen to you all about taking it slow - I have a feeling I will most likely be the driver of things in the relationship seeing that my moon sign is Taurus...? He did bring up sex which I told him A) we would need to be dating for that to happen and B) Probably wouldn't happen until after our 3rd date... He was respectful on how I felt and hopefully appreciates that I'm old fashioned..?

Posted by TaurusBull1977
What is his sexual orientation?

He is a straight male who has dated women like me. However, his last gf was a cis-gender(natal) female.

That's pretty intense. He must be quite excited about you to actually do that.

Luckily we barely pull a 180 and run away after that initial infatuation stage. For that to happen he would have to be disillusioned. He may be having pretty high expectations right now. Make sure he's not projecting on you abd gently remind him that you're still getting to know each other.

Posted by peo
That's pretty intense. He must be quite excited about you to actually do that.

Luckily we barely pull a 180 and run away after that initial infatuation stage. For that to happen he would have to be disillusioned. He may be having pretty high expectations right now. Make sure he's not projecting on you abd gently remind him that you're still getting to know each other.

Thank you Peo for your thoughts and advice.

He really likes transgender women and hasnt come across any since his exgf. He said that when he came across my dating profile, he had no idea that I was transgender based off my photos. On my profile I say "READ PROFILE" because I mention that I'm a trans female. He said I'm like a unicorn - rare and majestic.

He might be overly excited because I'm trans, but maybe its fate... I've been dating guys who never had experience dating a trans female and it had never lasted. I don't think its a sexual thing either because he seeked out my profile before reading that I was trans - I think for him, its all icing on the cake.



And yes, I will gently remind him that we still getting know each other and try to slow his roll... This I would have done because lately my heart has been getting broken by these past guys that for my sanity and well-being, I need to take it slow.

Posted by Fun4Life
When he finds out you have a dick and are really a female, he will go home, take a shower, drink heavily, and not leave the house for a week.

You're an idiot - he already knows!

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi all,

Met a cancer guy with the intentions of being friends, however the guy is starting to grow on me. He's very sweet and makes this earthy Virgo girl feel at ease and comfortable.

Started to notice he is falling fast for me though which is a concern. He's truly excited about me and has told all his friends and family about me. On

Top of that he had shown pictures off to his family and friends. He also started "claiming" me by saying "my baby" .... Not going to lie, but I really like the showing me off and his claim on me. :-)

Last night he told me that he

Put my picture as his background on his phone too...!

I am interested in him as I read out synastry chart and we were "marriage" material. However, this is new

To me - for a guy to be head over heels for me so early.

Is this normal behavior for cancers??

My past experiences with dating has had me more cautious... so maybe that's hindering my excitement, I dunno.

he is Cancer sun and Moon... I am Virgo Sun and Taurus Moon

Hold the phone. He's doing these things already before you guys are official?! This guy's crazy!

Wait.... no, he's a Cancer.

It's VERY easy for a Cancerian male to invest emotion into someone before even asking them out. To you, what you describe seems sudden, but I assure you his feelings for you already started building before you knew about them. The investment is a huge gamble, and I am guilty of it as well: If these feelings are reciprocated, it will send the cancer straight to heaven. But if they're not...

Anywho, even in the case these feelings are returned, there can still be a bad turnout. And this is my warning to you. In some cases (not all), what happens is the crab will want to progress the relationship much faster than you are ready for. Keep an ear for early mentions of anything that can pertain to long term commitments.