Honestly, if a partner doesn't understand or like my family dynamics then that's the end of the relationship IMO, unless they are just amazing in every other aspect.
Cancers how would you handle a partner that doesn't like your family?

She'd have to be really hot to make me stupid enough to not drop her. Like my friends, the family members I choose to associate with and keep close to my heart are really awesome people. If you disapprove of them, you would be such a bad judge of character that it wouldn't make sense how we get together in the first place.
If she disapproved of the family members I have that I am not too fond of myself whenever we have no choice but to let them be around, that's a different story. I will have likely warned her about said person beforehand anyway.
If she disapproved of the family members I have that I am not too fond of myself whenever we have no choice but to let them be around, that's a different story. I will have likely warned her about said person beforehand anyway.

You may need to say something...but question.. is what he saying has truth to it? I been on the other side. Being really opinionated about my partner family. There was times he will turn the table around on me..but I didn't care because it was the truth it. Although I am right about his family because everything I speak about had came true..I had to learn how to shut my mouth at time. So speak up..bUT also learn how to let things go.
If it's a husband that just doesn't like them cause he just does not, then he has to bare with it cause that's the only family members I'll have, no one else.
He gotta learn how to suck it up cause his not having a relationship with my family. It's me he's having a relationship with.
However, if it's because they're doing something that he doesn't approve of I would be understanding but doesn't mean he should continue talking about other people's life when he should be focusing on our relationship.
He gotta learn how to suck it up cause his not having a relationship with my family. It's me he's having a relationship with.
However, if it's because they're doing something that he doesn't approve of I would be understanding but doesn't mean he should continue talking about other people's life when he should be focusing on our relationship.

I think what’s more telling is the lack of respect your hubby is showing towards you. What are his placements?
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