Scorpio men

Hi, I’m a cancer woman whose has been involved with a Scorpio man for a long time, I accidentally hurt his feelings when I told him I couldn’t come out one night , and he felt I rejected him, and he iced me out for over 3 years , barely talking to me, we started talking again last year and he just wasn’t the same, I’m heart broken, I tried apologizing and I took it all to prove to him I felt bad for hurting his feelings, we started talking again two months ago, everyday non stop! But it’s akeays me to initiate contact, so after 7 weeks I asked him last night if he wanted to hang out, I told him I missed him, he said “ sorry I don’t see us hanging out “ just being honest... is he doing this so he keeps me away? Like is he afraid to see me again because he might develop feelings again and be vulnerable? Any advice would be appreciated!!

I think this time I will... but they usually come around again, but I think he feels safe Just talking..

Damn, all these scorpio men stories make them sound like total aholes 😕

I saw him once last year and we were talking everyday but then the minute he saw me? He pulled away and it was really hard because he just wasn’t the same guy I had this amazing connection with..

I’m done, I just don’t know who he is right miw, he wasn’t the guy I knew for 10 years, and after that happened? He’s been slowly relaxing... here’s no manipulating here, we haven’t gotten together at all.. but thanks for the advice

And your right! They eventually come around again... but when your talking again for weeks, everyday and then I told him I missed him and would like to see him and I asked if he was comfortable with that, he texts me back saying “ I have a lot of friends that I don’t see or talk to abd were still friends, but sorry I don’t see us hanging out .. sorry just bring honest “ WHO SAYS THAT—??

Exactly! He doesn’t trust me because he thinks I will hurt him again and I said I couldn’t go out because I had to work early the next day! Then he pulled his whoodini act on me! He was hurt that I said no! I did everything to show him I was sorry ! He and I had a good thing! That’s why this is so heart breaking... but thanks again for your advice..

But all you did was say no to hanging out once, why are you doing everything to show him you were sorry? You're super nice and he's too immature.

Thanks everyone I needed this! And we are that cancer and Scorpio connected type but I guess maybe he is still deep down hurt and prefers to keep me a distance... it sucks because the heart wants what it wants, and I’m trying not Blow up and out him in his place! Last night After his response? I simply write back “ sorry you feel like that” and I walked away... because deep down I knew why he said it... and I’m angry that he won’t allow himself to have feelings again... that’s what you call an unevolved Scorpio “ FML! I find out 13 years later!!! Again thanks for everyone’s responses! This is helping me a lot!

Finding it hard to believe you got iced out simply because you couldn’t go out and had to work....

What else went on why he feels you were either making up an excuse or lying or seeing someone else??

He didn’t trust you back then for a reason either that or he sounds really immature and threw his toys out of the crib in a tantrum!