Cancer's Idea of Love

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taurus_daisy
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Hello,

I have a question regarding cancer man. Can a cancer man love someone so much that he could rule out for sex? Just not to screw up relationship?

He says we should not romance else we might screw up our relationship which is currently being close friends.

Man, I love this guy but hell is this! Or he is polietly asking me just to be in friendzone permanently?

Or maybe I need to move on, forget him.
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taurus_daisy
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🙂 thank you !

He only want to be friends, I should accept it and find someone else.

It was not only about sex, but about a loving relationship. I want to say so many things to him, want to do so many things for him which I cannot by being a friend. On top of that, this ego hurts when he even talks to another girl.

No point in being loyal towards someone who does not want you? Its not good to be possessive towards someone who is not even mine.
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Posted by taurus_daisy
Hello,

I have a question regarding cancer man. Can a cancer man love someone so much that he could rule out for sex? Just not to screw up relationship?

He says we should not romance else we might screw up our relationship which is currently being close friends.

Man, I love this guy but hell is this! Or he is polietly asking me just to be in friendzone permanently?

Or maybe I need to move on, forget him.
How long did you guys know which other for? He might not be friendzoning you actually.

I think Cancer don really give a hoot about our feelings (it can be talking to another girl. He is single anyway) and also because they are not in a relationship so they don give us the attention too.
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Posted by taurus_daisy
🙂 thank you !

He only want to be friends, I should accept it and find someone else.

It was not only about sex, but about a loving relationship. I want to say so many things to him, want to do so many things for him which I cannot by being a friend. On top of that, this ego hurts when he even talks to another girl.

No point in being loyal towards someone who does not want you? Its not good to be possessive towards someone who is not even mine.
No don't be loyal to him. The truth is, he secretly loves how you feel even if he doesn't feel the same way. He will pop up every once in awhile when he needs someone to make him feel good about himself and this could confuse you into thinking he does care a lot more than he actually does.
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taurus_daisy
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Thank you all for the help and sharing your experiences.

He asked me to move on. He loves me only as a friend.

Does not matter how much heart breaking it is to feel, I am accepting it.

No other option than to trust a man's words that he does not want me at all.

Men somehow behave differently before "I love you" and after "I love you".

Before they will be talking to you all the time, support you emotionally, meet you almost every day, plan visits, even make you meet their family and friends, talk about their future, career, life, girls, relationships, their dark secrets and every possible conversation.

But as soon as you say, "I love you" to them, within 24 hours everything will get changed. They will have suddenly closer friends who would keep them busy, nothing to talk, no calls, text or meets, no discussion about life, everything else is friggin important to them than to you, suddenly another girl is closer and he would want to talk about her only, lots and lots of arguments, late night fights, dissapointments.

What hurts me is the person I thought will wipe away all my tears within a day became a person who is giving me numerous of tears. And its all because I said I love you to him.

Thank you for the comments 🙂