Cancer man...

Do cancer man make a clear remark if they know that they don't feel for you? Do they have a courage to stand out and say that they are over you?

And if they feel, do they hide their true feelings from u, just bcz u hurted them?

They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

i knew one that made it obvious by not initiating conversation or pursuing in any way at all. switched off completely.

Yet i know another that is so hot and cold years later - either he hasn't got the guts to say the truth, or he's clinging on for old memories

Posted by firefis1996
i knew one that made it obvious by not initiating conversation or pursuing in any way at all. switched off completely.

Yet i know another that is so hot and cold years later - either he hasn't got the guts to say the truth, or he's clinging on for old memories

And wat if he sometimes call me up to meet me? After a break up (he was the one to break up).. n says to b friend? Wat does that mean?

Posted by pinkbird03
They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

And do they take any initiatives after saying that I don't feel for u anymore?

My cancer ex behavior is confusing me... he says that I don't know.. n then say that I m nt sure.. but still comes up by himself to meet me up..

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Posted by Ashley0202

Posted by pinkbird03
They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

And do they take any initiatives after saying that I don't feel for u anymore?

My cancer ex behavior is confusing me... he says that I don't know.. n then say that I m nt sure.. but still comes up by himself to meet me up..

Well confusing behaviour means that he is confused and unsure. So it does not mean, he is secretly wanting you back. It means he is just feeling a little confused, which is quite normal after a break up. You have to readjust to a new situation.

Took a cancer man almost 4 years to plain out say, that it was me, he did not want to be his girlfriend. 4 years!!!!!

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Confusing as in... sometimes I don't even ask him but he calls by himself to meet me.. n may b bcz he is just afraid of being in a relationship... he did this an yr ago as well.. and aftr few mnths he himslf said to continue... the prblm with him is that he just ignores the relationship problm.. he avoids confrontations... I know him sinc last 6 yrs.. n 2 yrs of relationship... but this time the situation is something, and I m nt abl to predict anything...

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Posted by Ashley0202

Posted by pinkbird03
They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

And do they take any initiatives after saying that I don't feel for u anymore?

My cancer ex behavior is confusing me... he says that I don't know.. n then say that I m nt sure.. but still comes up by himself to meet me up..

Well confusing behaviour means that he is confused and unsure. So it does not mean, he is secretly wanting you back. It means he is just feeling a little confused, which is quite normal after a break up. You have to readjust to a new situation.

Took a cancer man almost 4 years to plain out say, that it was me, he did not want to be his girlfriend. 4 years!!!!!

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And dis time things are diffrnt bcz I myself in aggression said alot n he thought breaking up is my choice.. n said many wrng things.. but wen I apologised he said I just don't to b in a relationship.. I want u to b my frnd... I m cnfused bcz last yr he did the same thing but he was sure deep down.. n this time I dont know wat exctly it is

Posted by Ashley0202

Posted by pinkbird03
They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

And do they take any initiatives after saying that I don't feel for u anymore?

My cancer ex behavior is confusing me... he says that I don't know.. n then say that I m nt sure.. but still comes up by himself to meet me up..

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They are emotionally attached and stay that way for awhile after a breakup. Sometimes they are truly unsure of what they want and sometimes they know they don't see a future with you but will stick around until they find someone else.

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Posted by Ashley0202

Posted by pinkbird03
They will try to be subtle at first in order to not hurt someone's feelings, but if the other person keeps pursuing and begins to make them uncomfortable, eventually they'll get the courage to tell them they are not interested.

And do they take any initiatives after saying that I don't feel for u anymore?

My cancer ex behavior is confusing me... he says that I don't know.. n then say that I m nt sure.. but still comes up by himself to meet me up..

They are emotionally attached and stay that way for awhile after a breakup. Sometimes they are truly unsure of what they want and sometimes they know they don't see a future with you but will stick around until they find someone else.

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Unpredictable moody crabs they are.. but I do love him... anyways.. lets see where it goes...

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Posted by firefis1996
i knew one that made it obvious by not initiating conversation or pursuing in any way at all. switched off completely.

Yet i know another that is so hot and cold years later - either he hasn't got the guts to say the truth, or he's clinging on for old memories

And wat if he sometimes call me up to meet me? After a break up (he was the one to break up).. n says to b friend? Wat does that mean?

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im not entirely sure because I'm not a cancer but from what i have learnt - its to see if he still feels for you? apparently cancers have a hard time letting go of past things (claws)