Cancerss Pushing Away The Ones That LOVE Them.....

I Dont know whats wrong with me. Its Like when i know and can feel that someone close to me loves me (excluding family members) i push them away from me by basaicly being a B**** (bitch) I DONT DO IT ON PURPOSE AT ALL.. its like because i know that they love me i (AUTOMATICALLY) think that i can behave anyhow and anyway.. ive not lost anyone close to me through thiss as i apologise afterr .. so its like a cycle.. Any advice.. im a cancer by the way.. and people tell me that this is a cancer trait.. for cancers to push away the ones they love

i Mean FOR CANCERS TO PUSH AWAY THE ONES THAT LOVE THEM* And They Love*

...yeah, we do it. But we do it because we love the other person too much. Sub-consciously either we're afraid we won't be good enough for them, or we're skeptical that they won't be good enough for us I guess...

i feel like that sumtimes too like why i always keep the bad ppl away is it becuz i fear bein alone?? i dont kno—

Are cancers insecure?

After you been with the one you love for a long time, after a couple years. It wont be like that anymore. We get scared and then act stupid. I know i been in two long term reationships,. all the bad came out after the courting process, than after a couple years, it went very smooth. Once you trust and know that person is going to be there no matter what. You will lose the bitch shell!!!!! Promise!!!!

but no one else is secure.. lol was that a sarcastic comment

Posted by broken_shell
...yeah, we do it. But we do it because we love the other person too much. Sub-consciously either we're afraid we won't be good enough for them, or we're skeptical that they won't be good enough for us I guess...

'Tis true at times.

Damn us crabs LOL!

WOW Ovi, im sorry sweety. Not all of us are that insensitive.

Posted by startallz
I Dont know whats wrong with me. Its Like when i know and can feel that someone close to me loves me (excluding family members) i push them away from me by basaicly being a B**** (bitch) I DONT DO IT ON PURPOSE AT ALL.. its like because i know that they love me i (AUTOMATICALLY) think that i can behave anyhow and anyway.. ive not lost anyone close to me through thiss as i apologise afterr .. so its like a cycle.. Any advice.. im a cancer by the way.. and people tell me that this is a cancer trait.. for cancers to push away the ones they love

Startallz,

Is it normal to every cancers to do so ?
my cancer guy is so obviously not contacting me without any reason.. do u think he is pushing me away ?? I really am confused 😢

Ovi!!!!!!!! *Huggs* She was probably having a silly girl moment. Thats the thing with an Aries/Cancer relationship. You guys are so blunt and straight forward, and sometimes we get silly and stupid to get attention instead of straight up saying we want it. Than we hurt the aries on accident. You think we are not expressing ourself, but we are, just not the straight forward kind. When she gets silly like that. Try laughing back and than go to the fridge, come back laughing devilishly (as you aries know how to do) than start shoving whipped cream in her face, than when she gets upset, apologize and smile and say "MMMM Damn i want you. You look sooooo damn hot in that whipped cream" and than get aggressive and take off all her clothes and rub the whipped cream everywhere and lick her all over, You will than unleash the beast and get a piece while shutting her silly girl personality up for the day! LOL

I Cant tell you how many,... water,Ice,pie,cookie,ice cream,shaving cream,silly string fights me and my Mr. Aries have had,... it always ends in great sex though! lol

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Ovi!!!!!!!! *Huggs* She was probably having a silly girl moment. Thats the thing with an Aries/Cancer relationship. You guys are so blunt and straight forward, and sometimes we get silly and stupid to get attention instead of straight up saying we want it. Than we hurt the aries on accident. You think we are not expressing ourself, but we are, just not the straight forward kind. When she gets silly like that. Try laughing back and than go to the fridge, come back laughing devilishly (as you aries know how to do) than start shoving whipped cream in her face, than when she gets upset, apologize and smile and say "MMMM Damn i want you. You look sooooo damn hot in that whipped cream" and than get aggressive and take off all her clothes and rub the whipped cream everywhere and lick her all over, You will than unleash the beast and get a piece while shutting her silly girl personality up for the day! LOL

lol nice dear but i think there is some things you forgot to tell him like make sure if ur anything like me no tact andno hints mostaries men dont do the hint thing and from my gurl she hints alot and booom woooosh over my head i lve her but some times ts hard i hurt her and she hurts back be open and alk best i can suggest my cancer girl is great tho she des te push away and then i do my i dontfuc*in think so and then we eet in the middle of thekitchen for hot fudge sunday sex lol wish you the besto luck

~Mr.ceribdis

I'm with a Cancer man at the moment and he told me recently that he didnt make the first move on me because he got butterflies. The cancerians in my life - they tend to get over excited sometimes. It's like they have a lot going on inside (excess energy) that they like to get out - either laughing so hard, exercising..or some other outlet. It can also be linked to their feelings of anxiety/worries.

They also dont like confrontations very much. When I first met my cancer partner, he shyed away a lot and dropped hints about what he thought/felt. He was never direct. When I told him I cared about him, he would say things like ''aw at least someone cares''. He was quite skeptical at the time.

But now - we've been together for well over a year (known him for 3 years), he shares everything and tells me how he feels. He is far more open about his feelings than me.

So I think this is what cancerians want - someone to share their love/feelings with on a daily basis. Someone who wont judge or think they are 'weird' or sensitive that cares about them and sticks with them no matter how they behave. So 100% trust and loyalty.

Oh and someone that makes them laugh/feel good. Cancerians are very respectful towards people they have a high regard for. Very loyal.

Maybe you push people away that that love you because you're not 100% sure if they are Really into you (as you are into them), if you can trust them fully, whether or not they will stick by you through thick and thin.

It comes down to feelings and moods too. You need to feel 'at home' with the person you love.

I have done this, but can say after maturing and evolving, I no longer do. I try to stay close to my family and friends, and other people who make an effort to show they care and want my time and affection and are worthy of it. I think Scorpios do this more than anyone else, in my experience anyway. But everyone probably has at one time or another.

Posted by Ovi_Spring
You sure do act stupid. My girl begged me to tell her I love her 10 times in 15 minutes and then she begun to tease me and make me jealous like we just hooked up or something. Pissed me off. This shit is killing my feelings. I'm fucking disappointed.

WOW! I'm sorry to hear that, that kinda sound like one of moments when i was in a relationship, i think she's trying to trust you. People say that you should trust one another but it isn't that easy knowing how humans are unpredictable, so it takes me a very while or i might not trust at all knowing how people are, she probably worry that you would leave her all of sudden. Just show her security and her mind should be at ease. Trust is hard thing for people because i don't trust my own family but hey that's just me.

Posted by Scorpion sting


But now - we've been together for well over a year (known him for 3 years), he shares everything and tells me how he feels. He is far more open about his feelings than me.

So I think this is what cancerians want - someone to share their love/feelings with on a daily basis. Someone who wont judge or think they are 'weird' or sensitive that cares about them and sticks with them no matter how they behave. So 100% trust and loyalty.

scorpian sting,
i know this cancer for 2 years but we were apart for 8 months then we met again, now hes acting so distance, what can i do with him — he text me once within this whole month and told me that he loves me and misses me, but when i text him after 2 weeks her NEVER replied 😢(
he knows im very loyal and he told me that and he knows that i love him so much, but recently the last month i didnt text him only once becoz i feel like he doesnt care about me anymore else he would have asked every week or two ..
what can i do in this case .. I do love him 😢

should I ask or tease him , or act like nothing happened or dont text him anymore —

Posted by Scorpion sting
I'm with a Cancer man at the moment and he told me recently that he didnt make the first move on me because he got butterflies. The cancerians in my life - they tend to get over excited sometimes. It's like they have a lot going on inside (excess energy) that they like to get out - either laughing so hard, exercising..or some other outlet. It can also be linked to their feelings of anxiety/worries.

They also dont like confrontations very much. When I first met my cancer partner, he shyed away a lot and dropped hints about what he thought/felt. He was never direct. When I told him I cared about him, he would say things like ''aw at least someone cares''. He was quite skeptical at the time.

But now - we've been together for well over a year (known him for 3 years), he shares everything and tells me how he feels. He is far more open about his feelings than me.

So I think this is what cancerians want - someone to share their love/feelings with on a daily basis. Someone who wont judge or think they are 'weird' or sensitive that cares about them and sticks with them no matter how they behave. So 100% trust and loyalty.

Oh and someone that makes them laugh/feel good. Cancerians are very respectful towards people they have a high regard for. Very loyal.

You're good. This whole post made me laugh because you're on to us ...