So in a nutshell everything we had was perfect the chemistry but he just didn't put in enough effort to see me thus I couldn't take it anymore I sent him a text saying I'm basically done and he texted me back almost immediately mind you he never texts me back "I wish we would have done this in person but can we please remain friends" I have yet to reply but I want to text him back this "As much as I would of preferred to have a face to face talk I resorted to this simple because I don't know when I'll see you next which was the only major problem. As for the friendship I honestly don't think it's the best route to take at the moment, as for the time sake I'm going to keep doing what I do best and that's being the amazing person I am. Don't miss me too much. " should I send that or not even worth it and ignoring it?
Did I handle this situation with cancer man right
I sent it to him and that was that, knowing him he won't respond but it feels good I just was so sad by the fact he asked to be friends and can I get tips to move on

you shouldn't have txted him. It drives people nuts when they think you don't care. I just hope that if he ever does txt you again that you'll be strong enough to resist temptation.

If your really done with him you handled it well, but I have a feeling he'll come back around anyways :-/
Not all cancers are coming back. I see this more an urban legend - "he'll come back". No, he won't.
You screwed it up and you have to live with it.
You sent this message - you've been rude to him. Not, its's your turn again. Move on and let him be.
You screwed it up and you have to live with it.
You sent this message - you've been rude to him. Not, its's your turn again. Move on and let him be.
Well I only texted him the break up simple cause I don't know when I'd see him next and it hurt hoping I'd see him but literal weeks passed by so I just had to he did reply to my message and said "haha you are an amazing girl!!" I want to so bad reply with sass and be like "tell me something I don't know" but I think the best thing is just to do me and if by chance he does want me back I need to have his actions back it up
There is oh there is! And he said he still wants to be in my life like he asked to see a movie later down the line but i don't know how to respond
Lovesick Cancer we need to but I sent him a text saying that I'm going to give him space cause that's what he needs but if I don't get a respected correspondence it's not worth it anymore and to not take it as pressure just that I want him to have ease in his life
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