Are cancer men players—

I'm a Scorpio seeing a cancer for the last 6 months. We have been having sex for the past 3. He claims that I'm the only one, even though we don't see each other more than once every 10 days. I have never pressured him for commitment, just wanted to know since we were having sex. He claims that the rest of the time he takes matters into his own hands. 😉
He is a yoga instructor and very handsome. I find it hard to believe that I'm the only one. He says he is shy and all the girls he likes are taken or don't like him back. Yesterday I was at his house and saw some long hair in his brush and he said it was a friends. I want to trust him but I have trust issues from being cheated on in the past. He does admit to having platonic female friends.
Are most cancer men lying cheating scumbags or are they sincere? It is so hard to tell with this one!!!

Tough call. :/
He probably has ideal conditions to cheat on you, with you being away and all that.

However,
with the kind of work he does he will probably have a lot of female friends that he will hang out with. Chances are most will think he is gay.
How did you two meet and get together?

Do you have a reason to believe him if he's lying or to doubt him it he's telling the truth?

We met at a coffee shop. I had just separated from my husband. At first he was hesitant because my divorce has not been filed for financial reasons. I have kids and he doesnt. I live in a huge house with my x who sleeps a couple thousand square feet away. He did have issues with it at first but once he came over and saw the dynamic he got more comfortable with me. We took the first few months extremely slow.
I do want to be in a monogamous relationship with him, but don't want to rush things. The most important part is that we are having unprotected sex, since he swears I'm the only one.
He claims he is a serial monogamist and all his relationships have lasted for years.
As a Scorpio, I'm already jealous and possessive. I also don't want to risk my health and get an std.
How do I find out what the truth is without stalking him...lol!!!

Posted by LovesickCancer
You say you don't want to risk your health but if you're not using protection then you are.

No, he's different. Mothers know these things. It's instinct.

I am taking a risk. If I were sure that he wasn't playing me and we were monogamous, then there would be no risk. I have been in long relationships where there was trust and we didn't use condoms since I have an iud. I don't like condone and I prefer monogamy.
I am suspicious by nature, so I am not sure what to make of this guy.

I live in a huge house with my x who sleeps a couple thousand square feet away.

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Square feet is not a measure of distance.
If he's a couple thousand feet away,
that's about four-tenths of a mile.
That's probably not what you meant.
Maybe you meant that you live in a 2000 sq.ft. house.
He probably sleeps about 50-75 feet away.

I'm not playing him because I am open and honest about everything. Being played is when the person lies to you.
And yes my husbands room is a couple thousand square feet away from mine. Our house is huge. He's on another wing.
I'm just here for support and advice.

And yes my husbands room is a couple thousand square feet away from mine. Our house is huge. He's on another wing.

Okay, then.
How many linear feet does that translate to?

Posted by dejaVwe

And yes my husbands room is a couple thousand square feet away from mine. Our house is huge. He's on another wing.

Okay, then.
How many linear feet does that translate to?

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You convert it in milligrams, you twit. Counting distance in sq ft means you've had about 250 mg of blow.

Posted by Poisson
The Pisces board is boring as fuck. I think I'm gonna hang out here for a minute or two...

😄

Sure, but just be nice. Whiny crabs can't handle the heat.