Expressing feelings to a Cancer man

How would you cancer men feel if a woman expressed her feelings towards you? I'm a cancer and he's a cancer also and I feel like its never going to go no where because we are both shy, or maybe he really doesn't like me lol. But I do feel like it's time to get it out in the opened. I just want to know if cancer men see this as a turn off.

You look gorgeous. Dont be afraid to open up. If hes an idiot he ll let you down...if you chase too much he ll run away.

Awh thank you. I'm going to open up to him and hopefully he doesn't go hiding in his shell 😢 Wish me luck lol.

good luck :p

Posted by CluelessCancer
You are beautiful indeed...

ahem...ahem! cc has a crush! :p

His Venus is in Leo. Why should I hold back?

Posted by tw1nk1e
If he has a Cancer Venus, I'd go for it. Gemini or Leo or Virgo, I'd hold back.

Not really sure why you would hold back if his Venus is in Leo. I would make it a point to move forward and let yourself be known, especially because of that! Otherwise, from what I have seen, people usually get friend-zoned...

I say go for it girl! Good luck! 😄

Haha thank you! I think what I have to worry about is that Taurus moon of his.. He's going to take forever to make a decision!

His mercury is in Cancer.

CC your completely right I shouldn't chase a man. I was thinking about this last night. If he doesn't come after me then obviously I'm not that worth it to him. Maybe ill just wait for someone who thinks I am worthy of being chased after 🙂

Posted by xMoonMan

Posted by tw1nk1e
I have always found that Cancer men who are not serious can fuck around and do whatever the hell they want quite easily, but when it comes to someone that really makes them fall head over heels they withdraw and become quite cold and prickly on the surface and don't open up until they are sure. I don't think that's a stereotype as I've seen it happen many times.

Sorry twinkle but this is nothing more than stereotyping.
Based on your personal experiences, I take it? So how many CANCER MEN, exactly. who are not serious, fuck around and do whatever the hell they want quite easily?
Some women even believe that "all men" fuck around .....and this is what you are implying.
If you are going to make such a comment and cast such a distinct difference between Cancer men & Cancer women....be specific about it, as in quantity and the type of relationships you encountered.

You see, there is always two sides to a coin regarding relationships, two distinct, individual personalities who will interact and communicate in a certain way and a lot of it is to do with perceptions.
I would hope that a woman who has had relationship experiences would be able to step back from those moments in time and attempt to look at it from an objective or reasonable perspective....instead of simply casting aspersions on what is essentially all, or at least most Cancer men.

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Twinkle is just giving me her observations from the cancer men she has encountered with, which doesn't mean ALL cancer men are this way. I mean this why we ask questions on this website for peoples experiences and observations.

Posted by xMoonMan
I'm pretty sure I was addressing twinkle and I'm sure she can speak for herself....jus saying
Actually, I know she can speak for herself, I've seen her posts.

Listen don't come in here being a crabby patty.

Well guys I'm doing it tonight.. and i'm completely ready for rejection!

Posted by CrabPrincess
How would you cancer men feel if a woman expressed her feelings towards you? I'm a cancer and he's a cancer also and I feel like its never going to go no where because we are both shy, or maybe he really doesn't like me lol. But I do feel like it's time to get it out in the opened. I just want to know if cancer men see this as a turn off.

Don't do it!

just grab his pee pee and ask him if its ok to grab his pee pee

goodluck! and yes twinkle is right..i tend to be withdrawn and cautious if i m thinking of making a move for long term.

so its been officially a week, since I have told him and still no response. so i can finally say i was rejected by a cancer man hahaha. I'm taking it better then i expected time to move on. Thanks for everyone who gave me advice!

Ohh shut up cc. Maybe they didnt like you. :p

@ cc

the most complete man of 2013 is a cancer man! :p so yah you are missing the chunk of it.

Lol its classified. ;p