do cancer men liked to be chased?

i recently met a cancer man who was very vulnerable towards me the night we met. I initially messaged him and he told me he wanted to but didn’t want to come off as a creep.

I’m going to be in his city soon and would like to see him again, should i text him or wait for him to text me (he now knows i’m going to be in his city).

I also slept over the first night I hungout with him but didn’t have sex. the next morning was really nice. we spent some time together and cuddled and kissed and watched tv.

i want this to continue, can anyone give me some advice. i’m trying to be detached because i sometimes can be obsessive...i’m a pisces female 🙂

I don't think there's any harm in texting him when you're in town. When my cancer guy and I had first started communicating as well I was nervous about coming off a little too obsessive as I'm a Scorpio so I would try not to text him first and all of that but one night we ended up having a serious conversation about our past and what we were looking for and he had let me know that he had gotten out of a VERY long term relationship so his first thought wasn't getting into another one right away he'd rather us be friends first but that he liked me. I wanted one but I felt like he was worth the wait so I told him what I was looking for and we went from there. We ended up hanging out a lot and spending a lot of time together so much that he asked me to be his gf after like 2 months. So my advice would be on how to handle cancer men is, let them know what you're looking for. Kind of have that conversation with him early on so that you guys are on the same page and if you feel like he's worth however long he's gonna make you wait then there's no harm in that either because trust me these men move pretty slow. They just want to make sure they're making the right decision on being with you but they're always worth the wait.