Would you Dump a sign you don't like or give them a chance

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Bullish on Monday, March 12, 2018 and has 26 replies.

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@Bullish
8 Years

Say you're interested in someone only to find out later on they're a sign that you don't like or dislike, would you dump them right after, after finding out or give them a chance to change your mind?. I've never liked Cancer men and honestly would not date one till this day. It would turn me off if someone I was interested in said they were a cancer. I would maybe wait it out to see if and how bad it got. But as soon as he started showing any of the usual moody, depressing, cancer behaviors I would be done.

Reminds me of a episode of Famously Single when Sagitarrius Ronnie from jersey shore found out Malika from the Kardashians was a Pisces and had a complete meltdown over it, after they had already hit it off and messed around. His ex Sammy sweetheart is a Pisces and everybody who watched Jersey shore knows what a hot mess that relationship was. Fist fights, yelling, jealousy, mind games, manipulation everything except for the sex was a hot mess. Exactly how you would think a Sagittarius male and Pisces woman would end up. Ronnie wanted nothing to do with Malika after finding out she was a Pisces lol. The relationship didnt last soon after that.

So what would you do if you found out someone who you were chasing or someone you hit it off with was a zodiac sign you had more than one bad experience with or bad enough to where you don't like that sign. Or just don't like that sign. Drop them? Or no? And which sign is it that would trigger you and what's your sign?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Raakac
Lol thats just plain stupid, it's the same as dumping a person for his nationality or race, sign isn't anything and if you're judging only by a sign and past experience you're missing out

+10010

I was just about to write that! Thanks for saving me work. 👌

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@Mr_Pinchy
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Making the thread be about dumping is excessive imho. Everyone (9/10+) will say no, either because they truly wouldn't or simply peer pressure from everyone else saying no.

Imo a more interesting thread would be which if any of your red flags would go up when finding out the person's sign or combination of sign influences.

In the end, this is basically a question on wether a person is able to transcend previous bad experiences with a particular sign and start with a clean slate when meeting another member of the sign that caused trouble in the past.

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@Bullish
8 Years

Where's my Scorpio girls who feel me— I know you're out there lol. I've seen plenty of them saying never again about cancer men.

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@Bullish
8 Years

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Making the thread be about dumping is excessive imho. Everyone (9/10+) will say no, either because they truly wouldn't or simply peer pressure from everyone else saying no.

Imo a more interesting thread would be which if any of your red flags would go up when finding out the person's sign or combination of sign influences.

In the end, this is basically a question on wether a person is able to transcend previous bad experiences with a particular sign and start with a clean slate when meeting another member of the sign that caused trouble in the past.

Okay, well we'll sugar coated for ya'll scaredy cats then. That's the new question. What this guy said.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by ValleysofNeptune
No offense but I think dropping people solely based on their sun sign is incredibly stupid

There's some I'd be less thrilled to find out they were, and some I'd be more thrilled to find out, but I find there's something attractive and positive about every sign, even Scorpios and Geminis lol

You...STFU!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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@Bullish
8 Years

Posted by ValleysofNeptune
No offense but I think dropping people solely based on their sun sign is incredibly stupid

There's some I'd be less thrilled to find out they were, and some I'd be more thrilled to find out, but I find there's something attractive and positive about every sign, even Scorpios and Geminis lol

Haha atleast you're being honest about that much

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Posted by Bullish
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I'm a Sag and I would do this lol I would friend zone your ass.

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Ehh. Idk about sag girls, but I don't swing that way 😛

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I will give you the benefit of doubt but the first sign of some shit that seems familiar and I will cut it short. I will say to myself "smh, I knew it!"

And give no second chances lol.

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I’m a Pisces and honestly, I’d react the same way if I found out a guy I liked was a Sag.

Just a no go in so many ways😣

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Posted by sierra_
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I’m a Pisces and honestly, I’d react the same way if I found out a guy I liked was a Sag.

Just a no go in so many ways😣

but what if he's a virgo moon?

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I love Virgo moons♥️

But I’m too sensitive for Sag suns. It would never work out lmao

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@euphony
8 Years

I wouldn’t based on signs.

However, I’ve seriously asked any guy I was serious about to take a Love Language test since divorcing my ex. 😂😂

Quality time, physical touch, and acts of service 🙋🏼😍 That’s me!

If you are words of affirmation and receiving gifts. That’s not going to work for me because I don’t care what you buy me and I’m not great with constantly telling you how great you are nor will I sugar coat anything. ✌🏻

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Posted by Jayc3on
Posted by saggurl88
I'm a Sag and I would do this lol I would friend zone your ass.

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What sign though?

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Virgo lol I can't stand how feminine they seem to me. I don't know why they come off whiny and anal and nagging like women. The women of this sign are great, I just can't put up with the men. I Love virgo moon but as a sun sign, it's too much for me and my masculine sun sign crushes them.

I don't like nagging and criticism and pettiness. I can accept it from a friend but not in a relationship

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Posted by Jayc3on
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I'm a Sag and I would do this lol I would friend zone your ass.

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What sign though?

Virgo lol I can't stand how feminine they seem to me. I don't know why they come off whiny and anal and nagging like women. The women of this sign are great, I just can't put up with the men. I Love virgo moon but as a sun sign, it's too much for me and my masculine sun sign crushes them.

I don't like nagging and criticism and pettiness. I can accept it from a friend but not in a relationship


I don't like my opposite either. Too moody for me to withstand. Former friend of mine was virgo and talk about feminine, J.F.C he complained too much. Every time myself, my then girlfriend, him and his fat taurus chick, he would be complaining about the waited taking too long with serving the food and it got the point where I told him to STFU already. I hate complainers.
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Exactly and they are too controlling for me as well. I just can't do it. They are fine as friends but get crazy obsessive when they are in a relationship. You can only be with them, they don't want you having other friends, just a mess for me. I don't mind compromising but I will not be controlled.

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Posted by Bullish
Where's my Scorpio girls who feel me— I know you're out there lol. I've seen plenty of them saying never again about cancer men.

yeah but scorpio is.....i'll love who i love...

they dont "think" when it comes to their heart....unless maybe airy dominant...

like say, libra venus,aqua mars, gemini moon, random air or earth rising thinking.

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Posted by 2Moon
Dump immediately.

For me.... Cancer or Pisces? Dump that shit immediately.

and I actually did it...

I was talking to a Leo woman online.

On POF (dating website) you can see the sun sign of everyone in their profile...

I could read "Leo" on her profile.. so I assumed she was a lion...

We talked for 10 days on pof and Kik.

We started arguing after 4 days... But I'm like

" Our chemistry was nice, I don't know why we are fighting right now but it's okay I guess.. we don't have to always agree on the same things.."

Day 10:

I'm getting really tired to fight with a woman that I haven't even met... ( We have been fighting all day - everyday on text after day 7...)

I say: I know you are a Leo but when were you born exactly? I want to do your natal chart...

She replies: lol, I'm actually cusp leo-cancer, I was born on the last day of cancer...

ERMMAAAA GAWD. (PUKES) SHE IS A FUCKING CANCER!!!!

I stopped talking to her immediately after that. (lol!)

Cancer - Libra man (me) is NEVER going to work.

you likey cappy women but not cancer women??

i've seen alot of both couples,

cap women/libra man, and cancer woman/libra man.

edit -- lol @ last day of cancer... you getting them cuspers.

your libra brethens, love them watery peeps.

look at Jenna Elfman with Bodhi Elfman..

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and libra Gwen Paltrow is marrying another Pisces man...

she wants what she wants and so do they.

what the hell....someone uploaded thiis gif of Gwen Paltrow....ewwww

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Posted by Jayc3on
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Posted by Jayc3on
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Posted by Jayc3on
Posted by saggurl88
I'm a Sag and I would do this lol I would friend zone your ass.

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What sign though?

Virgo lol I can't stand how feminine they seem to me. I don't know why they come off whiny and anal and nagging like women. The women of this sign are great, I just can't put up with the men. I Love virgo moon but as a sun sign, it's too much for me and my masculine sun sign crushes them.

I don't like nagging and criticism and pettiness. I can accept it from a friend but not in a relationship


I don't like my opposite either. Too moody for me to withstand. Former friend of mine was virgo and talk about feminine, J.F.C he complained too much. Every time myself, my then girlfriend, him and his fat taurus chick, he would be complaining about the waited taking too long with serving the food and it got the point where I told him to STFU already. I hate complainers.

Exactly and they are too controlling for me as well. I just can't do it. They are fine as friends but get crazy obsessive when they are in a relationship. You can only be with them, they don't want you having other friends, just a mess for me. I don't mind compromising but I will not be controlled.


I witnessed first hand how controlling they get. Former friend became controlling towards his ex chick lol.

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And then want to practically threaten suicide when they leave! I can't with dramatic Virgo men. 😂😂😂

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My would be Aquarius. Lol we do not get along or mars aqaurius as well. They are way to detached for me. The energy between is great at first but feels like I'm constantly locking horns with someone and not connecting

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Not cause of the sign, just the personality and what kind of person they are.

You like sleeping with other woman and having an open relationship? That's not me, adiosssss~

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@Bullish
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ckquote> Posted by MiZLeo
I only have one exception. If I find out they are a Pisces. But that's cause I've had muilt bad experiences, not just one. Infact, when I found out the last Pisces I dated was a Pisces, I questioned taking it any further....But I said to myself... that's just stupid don't be like that...... I should have listened to my initial gut feeling. So yeah, if I find out a dude is a Pisces Im out ✌

Posted by 2Moon
Dump immediately.

For me.... Cancer or Pisces? Dump that shit immediately.

and I actually did it...

ERMMAAAA GAWD. (PUKES) SHE IS A FUCKING CANCER!!!!

I stopped talking to her immediately after that. (lol!)

Cancer - Libra man (me) is NEVER going to work.

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I knew you brutally honest signs, like Leos and Libras, who don't care what people think would drop in and be honest about it Lol. And whoever else answered. I'm still waiting on my scorpio girls.

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Posted by Stensco21
My would be Aquarius. Lol we do not get along or mars aqaurius as well. They are way to detached for me. The energy between is great at first but feels like I'm constantly locking horns with someone and not connecting

Yeah, I never thought that would be a good match up. Scorpio woman and Aqua man. This probably would be my 2nd guess for Scorpio woman.