@Taurusallthewaytothebad
8 Years
Cancer men are the only men who have treated me like I'm stupid! What is going on
Why Do Cancer Men Sometimes Treat Women Disrespectfully
Cancer men may sometimes seem dismissive or unresponsive due to emotional sensitivity or difficulty expressing feelings. This behavior can be mistaken for disrespect but often reflects their internal struggles with vulnerability. Clear communication and setting boundaries help address these issues and promote healthier interactions.
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.
Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?
No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!
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I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh
I have never been put on the shelf like this man tried to do with me. Do they expect you to put your life on pause for them? Assholes
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
LOL shouldn't ya'll be busy stealing other women's mens and trying to gold digg the lints off a virgos pants?
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I guess you've been hurt by a Taurus. But...nah. I'm actually busy getting ready for a date w/ a non-cancer man. Lol
LULZ
I got the perfect thread for your post....
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Posted by OneKnight
I will shelf you.
Lol why do they try to do that?
Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh
This is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
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Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
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Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
My first girl in elementary school was a Taurus with a Moon in Aries. Loved her.
Hmm...so you guys think we're stupid! Lmao
You know, the hard to get thing...I guess that explains why he was with the Cap woman for so long.
Looks like I've made the right decision.
Thank you! 😊
Posted by OneKnight
@TaurusFlower22, whatever you do, do not change. Taurus has one of the nicest personalities. Taurus is not stupid at all, but their power comes from somewhere else.Posted by nikkistar
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lolThis. Cancer will "go" from one woman to another until he "gets it right". Then it's forever.
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Are you saying when they "shelf" you, it is their way of letting you know you aren't "home" for them?
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
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LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
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Mannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Mannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.
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LOL!
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Mannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.
LOL!
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
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You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Mannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.
LOL!
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
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LOL! We have the same sun and moon. I had ZERO patience until I had my trolling son. His placements tested the ever loving shit out of my patience. lol
Posted by OneKnight
I'll explain, but I could be a bit brutal.Taurus is opposite of Scorpio. Scorpio woman is the most difficult woman to seduce. So to us Cancers, naturally, Taurus seems the easiest. Maybe not true, but that's how it seems once you like us. Just look at you, you say you sit in the restaurant waiting for the Cancer to cancel. Imagine me sitting in the restaurant and you cancel on me. Your "stock" goes up. Now I'm angry, jealous, etc.
Now when it comes to intellect. This is straight from my gut: Cancers do not find Taurus people stimulating us intellectually. Taurus has a very narrow mind. That's why they are stable and finish projects. We value you for the Grounding effect. It feels amazing. No other Zodiac sign gives us so much contempt as you do. Same thing sexually. Most submissive woman in bed, but in a "here, do whatever you want" way. Again, you give in easily.
So what I'm trying to tell you is, each Zodiac woman is different. They provide us with different rewards. Someone has to be able to observe the benefits and fall in love with them, and ignore the difference. Don't stress yourself about a Cancer guy not texting. Don't text him, but be nice to him.
I met an outright beautiful Taurus chick (24) in Europe few months ago. Same thing. I put her on the shelf once I knew she could be mine. She wrote to me 2 days ago, and I did not reply either. We are authentic and we don't fall in love easily. So don't blame yourself. It's how we are. We don't understand how it all works either. That's why we are unpredictably random. It's only natural.
See and this is why yall end up with shitty ppl like a damn selfish ass cap cuz yall don't appreciate shit lmao look at this. This guy at work did this and I didn't get it til just now. Yall just like being treated like shit mkay got it lmaoo. I mean well I'll never be in that situation again but if I could go back....shoot lol
Not necessarily. I see it as more then picking and choosing who they give their heart to, and it being someone they hyper value.
Doesn't mean they can't be shitty, and are probably shitty to a lot of girls on the way to finding that "home" for themselves though. lol
Mannnn I did not have time for the mixed signals lol. Like everyone at my job could feel the romantic tension, that actually happened with me and another cancer guy before too at work everyone could feel the tension and I acknowledged it but the cancer would just be going along with his mixed signals. I always just leave it alone. I end up quitting and they always ask for me and like being shocked and blah blah after and it's like wow yet you spent your avoiding me but when I leave you're all interested lol. Weird stuff.
LOL, they do play a lot of mental games in the form of testing a person's loyalty. I will admit that. My own Cancer boyfriend did it to me, and sometimes I wanted to kill him for it. I have the patience of a saint though. lol
But man, once they do open up fully and trust you explicitly with their heart, do you get the squishfest of lovingness. They are so freaking squishy and attentive once they have tested the SHIT out of you. lol
Mannn one thing I'm not is patient lmaoo. That's how I ended up with a Taurus. I need the balance lol. My mom is a cancer so I know how good hearted and nurturing they are so they get a pass usually lol.
LOL!
I honestly blame my son, who's a Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, and Gem Rising for teaching me patience. lol
You know what's funny? I've always said I bet it's gonna take until I have a child to finally learn patience cuz otherwise idk anything else that can lol. My bf is working on me but I still need help lol
LOL! We have the same sun and moon. I had ZERO patience until I had my trolling son. His placements tested the ever loving shit out of my patience. lol
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Lmaoooo your trolling son. I could imagine. That's sounds super funny lmao
Posted by NelsonSacramento
Pretty sure one of those cancers is my dad.
My dad is also a Cancer. Lol
Posted by vixen14
Women who say to wait patiently for a man because he's a "Cancer, Aquarius, Taurus, etc..." is bullsht. That's why Astrology is asinine when dealing with relationships.Men are People. And People show interest with actions not words. All this "it's too fast" or "i'm not good enough for you" or "you just need to be patient" is just to keep you on the sidelines for an ego stroke and sex.
As soon as someone tells you that... cut the cord and move on. A person who is interested in you will show you
C O N S I S T E N C Y.
Facts
Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? SmdhThis is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
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Drop the ball and walk away. All they are looking for is an ego boost. Unless words AND actions match, it's a no-go. Rewarding bad behavior only encourages more bad behavior.
LOL @Canceronthecusp
The salt in this thread, bruh.
All the people that don’t know how to be single will shelf you because you allow them to make you their back-up when things don’t pan out with their main choice.
Posted by nikkistar
LOL @CanceronthecuspThe salt in this thread, bruh.
Every grain from every single ocean of the world 😂
Posted by aquarius09
All the people that don’t know how to be single will shelf you because you allow them to make you their back-up when things don’t pan out with their main choice.
I agree.
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LOL @CanceronthecuspThe salt in this thread, bruh.
Every grain from every single ocean of the world 😂
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lol
Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? SmdhThis is what I was talking about in another cancer post and some cancers got butthurt. I know I knew what I was talking about. I know 3 like this so I'm not buggin.
Drop the ball and walk away. All they are looking for is an ego boost. Unless words AND actions match, it's a no-go. Rewarding bad behavior only encourages more bad behavior.
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Exactly!
Posted by nikkistar
LOL @CanceronthecuspThe salt in this thread, bruh.
Posted by vixen14
Women who say to wait patiently for a man because he's a "Cancer, Aquarius, Taurus, etc..." is bullsht. That's why Astrology is asinine when dealing with relationships.Men are People. And People show interest with actions not words. All this "it's too fast" or "i'm not good enough for you" or "you just need to be patient" is just to keep you on the sidelines for an ego stroke and sex.
As soon as someone tells you that... cut the cord and move on. A person who is interested in you will show you
C O N S I S T E N C Y.
That's exactly what I was trying to say, only you worded it more succinctly. Don't listen to the cancers and their cheerleaders because your peace of mind is invaluable. Unless someone shows you clearly and consistently that they want YOU, and only you, they aren't worth "waiting" for. We're not in a dire situation that would warrant that lol. The cancer men who behave this way obviously don't know what they want and it's not worth your sanity to either wait or figure it out. Tell them goodbye nicely, but firmly, and keep it moving. Life is far too short.
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First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.
Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.
These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?
No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!