dont know what to do with this cancer man

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nysa
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15 Years

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i am sagi-scorp 11/25 and he is a first decan cancer.we know each other from 5 years and were frnds for 1 year and are couple frm 3 years including 10 months of LDR.he is utterly busy in his college and is very passive too by nature.he never calls me if i stop calling him he calls me after 3 days.and then again everything starts.he never shows me his desperation for me.while he says he is committed to me.i have done break up with him 1 day next day he called me cracked joke and again we are in relationship.whenever i complain him for his passivity or lack of calls he says he is like this he even dont talk to his mother for 15 days.he says its only his parents and me complaining for his lack of communication and adds that `in nutshell FAMILY is having problem`.he tells me to accept him as that as he is a complete package and he lacks in communication...........what should i do..plz tell me.........he is never direct with me everything i suggest and he shows off that he is doing this to please me.....i know he is dying for thing but why always a pretence why nothing direct...plzzz suggest.
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pinklibra
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15 Years1,000+ Posts

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Oaky i've delt with 2 different Cancers in my life. The one that here now is TRYING to drive me nuts. My advice for a cancer man is when he's being distant dont nag him whatever you do. State your case, say what you mean and MEAN WHAT YOU SAY! Dont let his little temper tantrums because, trust there WILL be tantrums, or little displays of stubborness, depends on him, but dont let any of this get to you. He's as soft as cotton candy fresh off the machine. He just wants you to baby him. If you give in, your a gonner. If you nagg him, you'll be sorry. And if you cheat, FORGET IT! So all you have to do is DO YOU, not saying talk to other men, because that will crush him. Just remain calm sweet and direct. STAND YOUR GROUND! But dont nag, when a cancer man gets in his stubborn lil mood, the worst thing to do is try and force him to talk or spend time around you it will only make his moodiness worse. Hope that helps.