Drinking matters

How disappointed are you when your cancer man drinks?

It just hurts on a deeper level. To see him transforming into another mental state.

How much hurt cancer men have to drink that away or to know that their loved one feel sad about it..

I was very disappointed when i figure out that my cancer ex drinking every day. That just reminds my of my childhood memories of dealing with alcoholic parent.

I told him that and he tried to not drinking whenever i'm around. Now he has quit. But good thing is, he decided it on his own. Not necessary for me. Which i'm very proud about

As Cancerians we feel things a lot deeper, so when you go through stress and anxiety we might find ourselves engaging in harmful activity. Sometimes we think the bottle is the only option, drinking until we cry and still pick it back knowing it's not doing us no good, but atleast it numbs you for a while.

Alcohol and Cancer men tend to not mix well. Luckily most can't drink too much and keep standing, but I've seen this transformation in a few myself. They can turn anywhere from aggressive to emotional, which can be scary at times. Most Cancer men I know don't drink much period because they know what will happen and Cancers in general hate being controlled and letting their defense down. Hopefully he can change. I have faith he will eventually, and at least he has a person who truly cares and worries about him. You just have to let him know (while sober) that you deeply care as much as possible.