Stihl46
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Feels good to win
So, forgive me for being out of the loop- but were you in a relationship with this girl or something? Not sure if that is the one I see you mentioning in other threads.
I have won she's still in the same place she was before struggling to make ends meet with the amount of money she makes. Not sure how she does it because I had troubles surviving on what I was making I was using a lot of my pay check to pay down debt.
I have freedom again she does not, she doesn't have the options like I have, doesn't have the experience I have. My future is in a better position that hers, the job she's in won't get her anywhere. She has goals and ambitions in her life but she is spinning wheels in a company like I used to work at.
All I can do is laugh she tried so hard to win over me in reality what she did was improve the situation for me. It seen how much value I was to the company I said screw you I'm out of here. I was a little worried about leaving my job but now I have a bunch of money rolling in from investments I had into the company being paid out I made a good decision walking out of my bosses office with my notice on his desk.
I hate to be her BF right now she's got to be pretty miserable all her plans are going to h*ll in a hand basket. She stresses about making enough money now that she's been bumped back to a lower position she will be struggling.
Not sure what its with Scorpio's wanting to be winners all the time they are sure sore losers she hates losing. The worst part working with her was trying to tell her she wasn't doing a good enough job. She strives for the best but there were things she wasn't the best at and I would have to tell her. It would end up in a fight and she would get hurt I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. You tell a Scorpio they are not good at something that is a huge blow to their ego.
I said never screw with a Cancer man we always win she took that as a challenge and lost.
I have freedom again she does not, she doesn't have the options like I have, doesn't have the experience I have. My future is in a better position that hers, the job she's in won't get her anywhere. She has goals and ambitions in her life but she is spinning wheels in a company like I used to work at.
All I can do is laugh she tried so hard to win over me in reality what she did was improve the situation for me. It seen how much value I was to the company I said screw you I'm out of here. I was a little worried about leaving my job but now I have a bunch of money rolling in from investments I had into the company being paid out I made a good decision walking out of my bosses office with my notice on his desk.
I hate to be her BF right now she's got to be pretty miserable all her plans are going to h*ll in a hand basket. She stresses about making enough money now that she's been bumped back to a lower position she will be struggling.
Not sure what its with Scorpio's wanting to be winners all the time they are sure sore losers she hates losing. The worst part working with her was trying to tell her she wasn't doing a good enough job. She strives for the best but there were things she wasn't the best at and I would have to tell her. It would end up in a fight and she would get hurt I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. You tell a Scorpio they are not good at something that is a huge blow to their ego.
I said never screw with a Cancer man we always win she took that as a challenge and lost.
Posted by DearCupcake
So, forgive me for being out of the loop- but were you in a relationship with this girl or something? Not sure if that is the one I see you mentioning in other threads.
She wanted a relationship with me but I backed out she was trying again then I sort of rejected her that's when the wanting revenge on me started. The fight was on she hated ever moment that I was happy and she wasn't. She was/is in a relationship with another man that doesn't really make her happy.
I was the only one at work that understood she could be in the office with the other co-workers and I would walk in to the room I could read her like a book. She wouldn't have to say a word her face would ask if she was okay most of the time it would just take a smile and she would feel better. She was the most comfortable with she didn't need her guard up. She hides a lot from other people with me that wasn't the case I seen her rage, seen her emotions, her voice would crack when talked to her she wanted to cry. I could hold her hand and she wouldn't pull it away she liked me around. If she was having troubles she would come sit near me she could be herself.
When I started digging asking her what is wrong she would say "I'm Fine" and we would have fights I got asked are you two married. She treated me differently than everybody else we worked with.
I learned from all this you don't butter where you eat it is a valuable lesson never have an emotional bond with a co worker. It was tough working with her especially when I had to lay down the law she would get hurt. I couldn't treat her as a regular co worker when I tried she would feel hurt.
Her un-happiness got to her she seen I was successful and she wasn't getting the same success as me. She was reeling over hurt feelings that happened between us in our personal life she could never let that go. She started plotting revenge she caused me trouble at work to the point I walked.
Scorpio women are not happy people when things are not going the way they want they become even more unhappy.
I have read a lot about Scorpio women what I have read I have realized what has happened to me and why she acts the way she does around me. I figured out why we understand each other so well she knew what I wanted and I knew what she wanted. We talked to each other with body language and facial expressions.
You are still talking about her, so she didn't lose. Don't talk about her at all. Just move on without saying anything.
Posted by Noreallynow
You are still talking about her, so she didn't lose. Don't talk about her at all. Just move on without saying anything.
I'm gloating I'm coming out of this trouble smelling like a rose I was a little worried now I'm not. In reality I'm glad what happened the way it did it made me realize I'm worth it. I've had a life changing experience. The news I was getting more money took a butter load of stress out of my life things are looking good.
Posted by Noreallynow
You are still talking about her, so she didn't lose. Don't talk about her at all. Just move on without saying anything.
Word. She still winning dude! She owns you.
Posted by DMVPosted by Noreallynow
You are still talking about her, so she didn't lose. Don't talk about her at all. Just move on without saying anything.
Word. She still winning dude! She owns you.click to expand
I don't think we will forget each other I've never been around a girl that understands me and I understand her.
Hey OP, I find your thread really interesting. I don't know what in the world her problem was though, lol. It seemed like you were really there for her. Do you know what her moon sign is?
And as far as comments that you're still losing because you're taking about it, my understanding is cancers give what you're putting out.
And as far as comments that you're still losing because you're taking about it, my understanding is cancers give what you're putting out.
How many posts or threads devoted to the same broken record about your obsession with this gal is this? Scorpios kicked you off and I took away your Cancer card and passed you off to the Virgos. Go away Virgo stand-in.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by DMVPosted by Noreallynow
You are still talking about her, so she didn't lose. Don't talk about her at all. Just move on without saying anything.
Word. She still winning dude! She owns you.
It's not ownership, it's how the world works, if you put bad energy out there, you will get bad energy...
cancer is just feeling good, that payback has occurred, in the end, she deserves no compassion
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Not to cause rumble but karma is a natural way of the universe to apply justice although is not for the victim is because is justice... No one nomattee what should rejoice of anyones missfortune... Karma is for everybody... No one is exept...
If he really move on from her.... he shouldnt even give a rat ass if she paid or not her wrong doing... It simplu stop being his business when he decided he didnt want her on his life...
Posted by DearCupcake
Hey OP, I find your thread really interesting. I don't know what in the world her problem was though, lol. It seemed like you were really there for her. Do you know what her moon sign is?
And as far as comments that you're still losing because you're taking about it, my understanding is cancers give what you're putting out.
Her moon is Virgo
Posted by MoonArtist
How many posts or threads devoted to the same broken record about your obsession with this gal is this? Scorpios kicked you off and I took away your Cancer card and passed you off to the Virgos. Go away Virgo stand-in.
I have no obsession with her I do miss her a little bit the only reason why she did what she did was hurt feelings plus the fact she isn't happy in her life and she hates seeing me happy.
As for revenge its done I got the biggest revenge why do you ask? the people that work in the stores and businesses in the area her and I live in have a severe dislike for her now. Its spread wider than just the people she works with not liking her now its spread to the area she lives in not liking her.
Don't mess with a well liked guy I have lots of people behind me she's out numbered this is revenge of the century. There is people that know what happened to me that I haven't even talked to. There are places she most likely can't show her face in anymore. The anger that people have against her is really surprising. Its a small town word gets around that you do something to somebody that people really like and respect you will pay for it. So she's not just getting hatred from work its in the area she lives in.
What happened she did it to herself did I think the hatred for her go as far as it has? No. She did it to herself anger got in the way of thinking clearly she has screwed herself.
* She never got the position she wanted I could have helped her get what she wanted she screwed that up.
* Her reputation is finished what she has done will never be forgotten by the people she works with they see her it reminds them of me. Never mess with a very well liked person the people I worked with loved working with me. The people that know me that see her brings anger they want to see her pay for what she's done. The estimated amount of people that would like to see her rot in hell got to be pushing 100 plus by now.
The benefits for me I have new opportunities opening up and I'm away from the stress I used to be under with the position I was in. I'm happy I have a new lease on life I'm going to be in a better position in life than I ever was before. The stress I was under at work was affecting my well being some mornings I was surprised I woke up having a jammer in the middle of the night was a worry. The fatigue from the stress was driving me nuts I was so tired and I ached all over. That is all gone I don't have any of those problems anymore.
Its humorous she's made things better for me and screwed things for her she wanted the opposite things better for her and worse for me never worked out that way. After all this I would still take her by her hand and she could come with me on my life's journey I will never hate her.
* She never got the position she wanted I could have helped her get what she wanted she screwed that up.
* Her reputation is finished what she has done will never be forgotten by the people she works with they see her it reminds them of me. Never mess with a very well liked person the people I worked with loved working with me. The people that know me that see her brings anger they want to see her pay for what she's done. The estimated amount of people that would like to see her rot in hell got to be pushing 100 plus by now.
The benefits for me I have new opportunities opening up and I'm away from the stress I used to be under with the position I was in. I'm happy I have a new lease on life I'm going to be in a better position in life than I ever was before. The stress I was under at work was affecting my well being some mornings I was surprised I woke up having a jammer in the middle of the night was a worry. The fatigue from the stress was driving me nuts I was so tired and I ached all over. That is all gone I don't have any of those problems anymore.
Its humorous she's made things better for me and screwed things for her she wanted the opposite things better for her and worse for me never worked out that way. After all this I would still take her by her hand and she could come with me on my life's journey I will never hate her.
CC, he IS insane. Thus, why I took his Cancer card away and sent him to the Virgos. They like endless lists, right?
I'm not insane? I'm still recovering from years of abuse working where I used to work where the managers want you to live in fear. You are not allowed to think, not allowed to have an opinion just do what your told and shut up. They are after the rebellious employees I was one of them they wanted to make an example of me. They are after a couple other guys I worked with that are getting tired of the new management regime. The company will make your life so miserable they want you to quit so they don't have to come up with a good enough reason to fire you.
You suffer from Stockholm syndrome... Next
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by MoonArtist
CC, he IS insane. Thus, why I took his Cancer card away and sent him to the Virgos. They like endless lists, right?
lol lol i was just cosigning on the Scorpio women bit...damn he's obsessedclick to expand
Just a wee bit obsessed. She's probably never even talked to him. 😆
Poor guy need a hug?
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by MoonArtist
CC, he IS insane. Thus, why I took his Cancer card away and sent him to the Virgos. They like endless lists, right?
lol lol i was just cosigning on the Scorpio women bit...damn he's obsessed
Just a wee bit obsessed. She's probably never even talked to him. 😆click to expand
Her and I shared a lot with each other a girl that has a BF sure liked being touched, get close enough to smell her and close enough to kiss each other. When other women would come near me she would get jealous. We would sit beside each other she would eat food off my plate.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by DearCupcake
So, forgive me for being out of the loop- but were you in a relationship with this girl or something? Not sure if that is the one I see you mentioning in other threads.
Scorpios the bad one's are really horrible. I fuking hate them.Crabs will win in the end, because we're patient and really our energy is good so we the universe pays us back tenfolds for our generosity and kindnessclick to expand
I seriously don't know what kind of Scorpio that makes me. I don't actually hang out with any Scorpios and the ones I have met, I really do not like at all. AT ALL. I work with one and she's seriously psycho I think. Anyway, I have a cancer moon! I wonder if because if it I just behave differently. I'm seriously different than the average description of one.
Posted by thinktoomuch
She kissed you while having a boyfriend? On the lips? And IS this gonna be the last topic on her—— ow that you??ve won?
No we never kissed each other I knew she wanted me too but I always had the thing in the back of my mind if things don't work out I still have to work with her. I got to know her before she even met her BF she was on the rebound she wanted to be in a relationship really bad. She rushed into dating this other guy she's still with him because she needs his money. Now that she hasn't gained anything in her career she still needs to keep her BF around for money.
I'm meeting my own goals I'm getting my health back I look and feel great in another month I should be where I want to be in my weight loss goals. I get a lot of attention from women they seem to like what they see. Stress isn't in my life anymore so I feel great. Soon as I get the rest of the investment money I can wipe out my debt I won't have to deal with that anymore.
The guy that thought he won stealing the Scorp girl away from me is losing and I love it she's caused him so much stress in his life he's done irreversible damage to his health. His hair falling out in clumps, gaining weight, needs to keep smoking to try ward off the stress his face looks like a wrinkled up prune. If he ever dumps her he wouldn't get another woman interested in him what woman is sexually attracted to an over weight bald man that looks 10 years older than he really is?
I never said I kissed her she's tried a few times. She will come back she always does lol.
The reason why I started this thread she thought she could hurt me by forcing me out of my job. In reality I'm benefitting more than her. I have my life back I'm happy, do you know what it's like to lose your freedom.
The reason why I started this thread she thought she could hurt me by forcing me out of my job. In reality I'm benefitting more than her. I have my life back I'm happy, do you know what it's like to lose your freedom.
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It has to be p*ssing her off that I'm still successful she hated seeing me being successful she was jealous that I would get recognized at work and she didn't. No matter how much she tried she couldn't win, she would constantly try one up me everything was a competition to her to say I'm better than you. Funny she wasn't competitive with any of her other coworkers with me she was.