First time falling for anyone! And he's a crab

Well I've been talking to a crab for a little over a month now. Things started very cute from the getgo, calling each other sweet things and making love on the 2nd and 3rd date (whoops). And just as quickly as it came to be, distant he got as well. We still message each other, but noticed he no longer said anything like babe, sweetie, hun, etc. so I followed suit as to be fair.

On our 4th date he did say when I brought up the topic of relationships that kind and sweet people like me are rare to come by so he wants us to kind of become best friends before we go further. So me being an optimistic Taurus, it's definitely not saying he's no longer interested, so I'm still taking my chances and pursuing him.

This is my very first time that I've ever fallen for someone. Him becoming just a bit more distant has brought out the clingy in me but I've been holding back as to not scare him away as I know he is a busy person. Give me luck wonderful crabs. You guys are awesome!

Our charts are 5/10/1991 and 7/13/1986. If you plug those into cafeastrology's comp. rating tool we get... 100% !! Of ALL the guys I've dated, I never got that which is crazy haha

Here's a little snippet of our charts

Me:
Sun- Taurus
Moon- Aries
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Cancer
Mars- Cancer
Rising- Leo

Him:
Sun- Cancer
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Leo
Venus- Virgo
Mars- Capricorn
Rising- Unknown

Across the board, our aspects are complimentary or polar opposites. Crazy! Any tips are welcome my fellow crabs. I plan to make this one mine!

Posted by Arielle83
He sounds like me except I'm mars in cancer

haha interesting! Soooo if you were in a similar situation where you displayed a lot of affection at first and then slowly backed away, when nothing has gone wrong (no disagreements, etc) is it because you're losing interest or just simply coming back down to earth from infatuation, or scared of the possibilities? Let me pick your brain a little bit 🙂

Posted by Curiousram
Good luckkkkkkkkk id go nuts, be patient! Lol i love being chased if i had to chase id rip my hair out..

Oh trust, the fire aspects in my chart have me going nuts!! But luckily I'm able to center myself. I know what I have found and I'm doing everything in my power to make sure that his face is the first and the last thing I see everyday. I'm tired of the dating scene blehhh I'm ready to build my empire.

Not sure of how he feels about you, not sure how you feel about him, too fast, busy with life, you did something you're not aware of, he wants to see if you like him enough to chase.

Posted by Arielle83
If something's too good to be true, I always step back and reevaluate the situation. Plus I like to keep busy. It's about not showing too much too soon. Moon in libra needs balance and stability. Venus in Virgo loves more with their head as well. Needs to analyze logically.

I see. He expressed how special I was making him feel at first and slowly mellowed down. I still can't stop saying sweet things or I literally become sick with infatuation holding it in. I may have smothered him a bit much at first but definitely have given more space.

I think it's also the fact that our compatibility rate is 100% that is enhancing my feelings since I have this foresight. So far the percentages have played true to relationships.