This is from one astrology book I have. It rates Sco-Can couple as the most passionate couple of all. Here is what it says. I was laughing so hard, because....it is so true!
"If marriage were a pastime based entirely on sex, I'd give this couple a hundred stars. (She rates couples from one to four stars). Cancer/Scorpio amour is intense and delicieux in bed. If you are up to one of these titillating adventures, first invest in a giant swoop-curtain four poster. Before retiring each evening, shoo children, pets (unles you have some erotic use for them), and nannies to the other wing of the house. To avert explosion, unplug all appliances. Then, hit the sack. Brushing teeth and like will have to wait-the business of the Cancer/Scorpio day is at hand. Cancer's sexual intensity inspires Scorpio to those sizzling heights for which the sign is so famous. Likewise, Cancer finds sex with Scorpio addictive, because it allows for such an electrifying emotional outlet as to keep the moody Cancer in a good frame of mind all day. As for having kids? Maybe. But wait at least five years until the first blush of passion wears off and you can at least find time to speak to each other without wanting to jump in bed together. Have a Capricorn and a Pisces. They get along and help you to do likewise."
That's the Cancer spirit, Fiddlesticks! Maybe the majority of the people on these boards dislike Cancer men, but there is a whole other world out there. Get you arse out there...reminds me...time to go out...have a good night.
i dont believe cancers r the best firneds u'll ever had, sure they can keep all ur secrets n u can turn to them, but if u ever cross a line, they will ditch u, n put their gaurd up, n put in their last words, n u wont hear form them again, until they feel they wnat to.
I don't think it's entirely about the sex with cancer - scorp. Lubenica, the scorp girl I met last summer -- I never had sex with her and still we felt so comfortable with each other it was uncanny. We could just sit, talk, laugh for what seemed like hours. True, the attraction was enormous but it was much deeper than something purely physical. There was this warmth and tenderness to it I can't even explain. I have no fram of reference as far as the sex, but it seems to me it has to be more than that.
If you are patient, it will happen, I am sure. In her book, Linda Goodman says :"These two (Sco-Can), are meant to meet sooner or later". Often it is later.... Saving the best for last, I agree.
SRG, hello
No, it absolutely is not just about sex. Everything is as good. I just tought it was funny how she wrote abot sex part of it, that's all. I know what you mean about deep attraction, with Can-Sco, everything is there (that's why sex usually rocks!).
"i dont believe cancers r the best firneds u'll ever had, sure they can keep all ur secrets n u can turn to them, but if u ever cross a line, they will ditch u, n put their gaurd up, n put in their last words, n u wont hear form them again, until they feel they wnat to"
This happened once with me,my best friend (Cancer) got angry with me for a silly reason in my openion and swore not to talk with me ever.I was shocked especially that we are best friend for years,so i thought to myself that he is just doing this to feel important or to know exactly how i feel about him since i rarely talk about my feelings (Cancers have this annoying thing,they want their friends to express their feelings to them which i find it a blittle bit odd or silly)...so i called him and apologised to him and everything went ok..later when he was drunk he told me that he wasn`t intending to do his threat which back my thoughts about it.. Anyway i still think they are the best friends,on contrary of the annoying Leo friends who seem to be always around me.
Well, all people need to be grown up, regardless of the sign, for a relationship to work, that goes without saying.
And this is for SRG (from Linda Goodman book):
"Their basic harmony nearly always creates a sexual chemistry which is both aware and inspirational. Cancer and Scorpio INSTINCTIVELY BLEND THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL WITH THE PHYSICAL, which is the secret key to an exctasy never experienced by those who separate sexual desire from the other parts of their natures, seeking only the sensual. The ADDED DIMENSION OF AFFECTION AND MENTAL AFFINITY brought to sex by Cancer and Scorpio result in a kind of lovemaking realized by a relatively small percentage of man-woman matings in any particular incarnation. This explain the powerful intitial attraction between two lovers of this Sun sign combination; thier lingering pain when separated....their abundant opportunities for "trying again" after a quarrel".
One of the nicest things she says about them, is at the end of the chapter:
"After swimming for what has seemed to be eternities in endless whirpools of infinitude....to be brought together with one who so gently understands your heart's deepest longings....is a blessed thing."
Well, all people need to be grown up, regardless of the sign, for a relationship to work, that goes without saying.
And this is for SRG (from Linda Goodman book):
"Their basic harmony nearly always creates a sexual chemistry which is both aware and inspirational. Cancer and Scorpio INSTINCTIVELY BLEND THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL WITH THE PHYSICAL, which is the secret key to an exctasy never experienced by those who separate sexual desire from the other parts of their natures, seeking only the sensual. The ADDED DIMENSION OF AFFECTION AND MENTAL AFFINITY brought to sex by Cancer and Scorpio result in a kind of lovemaking realized by a relatively small percentage of man-woman matings in any particular incarnation. This explain the powerful intitial attraction between two lovers of this Sun sign combination; thier lingering pain when separated....their abundant opportunities for "trying again" after a quarrel".
One of the nicest things she says about them, is at the end of the chapter:
"After swimming for what has seemed to be eternities in endless whirpools of infinitude....to be brought together with one who so gently understands your heart's deepest longings....is a blessed thing."
Lubenica, thanks for posting that.. very accurate and well written. I knew that sex alone could not be the foundation for why cancers and scorps are so attached to each other.
From what I've observed and heard from many "participants", it is mutual and instantaneous. I think SRG is right, though, Scorps are secretive, and dont' talk too much, while Cancer is much more out there with their feelings.
I agree they are secretive and quiet but they don't necessarily need to speak - body language speaks for itself. From the experience I had, I'd say cancers and scorps do just as well without talking to each other -- as in they understand each other so well they don't need to speak.
Cancers have a strange streak ...they are sentimental and sacrificing when itz not really required and they would be aloof when U actively seek support ?
Yes, it is a positive thread, but this is just to show, that unfortunately not all Can-Scorps. end up "happily ever after"...sigh.
Kate,
I also think that he is jealous. And perhaps emotionally immature. I mean accusing you of "prowling on websites", that is just childish and resentful. I am close to agreeing with Antibling, perhaps you are better of far from him, at least you have great memories...
*My Cancer did tell me that sex with me was addictive* I just laughed at the time. Apparently sex in general with him is addictive. It wasn't just with me...
Cute Post Lubenica 😉
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i been with the same guy for 5 years, i'm 29, and he's 30 so we're not young, and I was dating his best friend for 2 years BEFORE him and i started dating..
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This is from one astrology book I have. It rates Sco-Can couple as the most passionate couple of all. Here is what it says. I was laughing so hard, because....it is so true!
"If marriage were a pastime based entirely on sex, I'd give this couple a hundred stars. (She rates couples from one to four stars). Cancer/Scorpio amour is intense and delicieux in bed. If you are up to one of these titillating adventures, first invest in a giant swoop-curtain four poster. Before retiring each evening, shoo children, pets (unles you have some erotic use for them), and nannies to the other wing of the house. To avert explosion, unplug all appliances. Then, hit the sack. Brushing teeth and like will have to wait-the business of the Cancer/Scorpio day is at hand. Cancer's sexual intensity inspires Scorpio to those sizzling heights for which the sign is so famous. Likewise, Cancer finds sex with Scorpio addictive, because it allows for such an electrifying emotional outlet as to keep the moody Cancer in a good frame of mind all day.
As for having kids? Maybe. But wait at least five years until the first blush of passion wears off and you can at least find time to speak to each other without wanting to jump in bed together. Have a Capricorn and a Pisces. They get along and help you to do likewise."
No wonder they can't let go of each other, LOL.
Hope I made you laugh a bit! Cheers!