Going crazy!!!!!!!!!

First time posting looking for much needed help with a cancer man i have a serious crush on. We've been going to the same gym for over a year but we've never actually met. I fell for him the fisrt time i saw him. I think he likes me too by the way he looks at me. He's very confident with his friends but he's extremely shy, to a point where he'd look down if we run into each other by accident. Iam very attractive but not a flirtatiuos person at all. Most guys at the gym are intimidated by me and i think he's afraid of rejection.
He's a very attractive guy and i've seen women thro themselves at him right and left but i've never seen him with anyone. He's not married (no ring on his finger)
Iam very shy myself so chances of making a move on him are almost zero to none. Cancers being traditional will he be tripped out if i approached him?
Maybe iam jus crazy but i really really like this guy.
More than anything, i wanna get physical with him. Iam a very sexual and spontaneous person, are cancers open to new ideas sexually?

When he lies back on the bench to do his pench presses, mount him. If he doesn't get the picture then...honey he ain't worth i

LMAO.

I don't know why iam tripping but i cant stop thinking about him. At first i thought it was jus a crush that would fast disappear but he's stuck on my head. None of the other guys at the gym have ever caught my interest like he did. His body language acts like he's interested (stilling glances, facial expression changes when other dudes try to hit on me, prefers to wrk out around me)
I havent shown any signs of definite interest but i know he knows i like him.

I say ...ask him if he likes walnuts...that always works..gets me my first dates!

dont listen to sweet pea......shes presently alittle jaded.

i think parralax was on the right track the secound time. this guy sounds about how i would act, trust me, he notices u, he just doesnt know what to say. sometimes if you are a shy person it is hard to talk to people u dont know, its easier for me if i have a reason or a purpose for talking to someone. definitely give him a reason to talk to u. smile alot, that will help make him comfortable and u might be surprized at how easily he opens up.


as for parallax's thoery about batting for the other team.....get to know him, im sure you would figure that one out soon enough. and if his does than u just found a new bestfriend.lol

Thank Parallax and cj.
Little obstacle. Have this new gym buddy. He's a guy. Really cute guy he's into me and flirts with me all the time. Do you think Mr Cancer will get in on the competition or retreat to his shell?

You couldn't just like the cute guy that likes you?

I wish i did but i don't. I jus met him and i've been liking the cancer guy for a long time now. It not easy to jus change your heart. Is it possible to love someone you barely now? like can you fall for the way they look, their energy and how they carry themselves?

Do Cancer peoples have pinchers—? And what's with the rejection thing? Not only that...what is with the "fear" thing? None of those even exist unless you choose for them tooooooooooo...Okay, now I am going to change my previous question....Do Cancer peoples have claws or pinchers? Do you move backwards or sideways? Are you Americans or Foreigners—?? Just asking...cuz I want to.

just talk to him. if the other guy is just a friend, why does that even matter?
and im curious what your sign is.

Thanks for all your help. As faras my sign, believe it or not i don't know. I was adopted and noone kept accurate records. I do have a sweet personality but edge toward Aries more.

Cancerstrung27
How can you not know your sign— Do you have birthdays, how old are you? How old were you when you were adopted and where were you born, I am sorry if I sound so nosey. This would just drive me absolutely CRAZY, I would do some serious investigating. You know though, by the way you talk I kind of thought you were an Aries they are very self centered, and have a confidence about them, not because they are genuinely confident its just that they are so into themselves. By no means do I mean to sound harsh, that is just what I have learned about Aries. My sister is one and we live together. She is currently trying to pursue a Cancer too.

Iam 27, no bdays. I moved over here when i was 10 from another country. I really don't think iam self centered, i was jus giving a little background. Thank for the input.

hmm... that would be wierd not to know your birthday. we'll like u anyways. lol i have a couple of questions for u but unfortunately i dont have the time right now, gotta head to the keys tonight....i know..poor me.🙂

Have a safe trip cj7 🙂