hsat143
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Had lunch with my cancer ex
He is insecure.
Men act weird around a woman we want when they are insecure.
A man who is confident in himself makes jokes about stupid and bad shit.
For example, when you broke up with him on the text message, a grown-up thing would have been to first joke and then act dignified like this:
Girl: "I'm breaking up with you, I am sorry."
Guy: "Nooooo!!! My heart is crushed forever nowww!!!"
Guy (quickly): "JK. You are a sweet girl, and it was fun. All the best."
His "ok" response could have been sulky or down.
Making a joke out of it and being a grown up tends to be more attractive, does it not?
Men act weird around a woman we want when they are insecure.
A man who is confident in himself makes jokes about stupid and bad shit.
For example, when you broke up with him on the text message, a grown-up thing would have been to first joke and then act dignified like this:
Girl: "I'm breaking up with you, I am sorry."
Guy: "Nooooo!!! My heart is crushed forever nowww!!!"
Guy (quickly): "JK. You are a sweet girl, and it was fun. All the best."
His "ok" response could have been sulky or down.
Making a joke out of it and being a grown up tends to be more attractive, does it not?
Oh I know there's no interest there. The reason I broke up with him was due to his lack of interest and his response of an excited ok made it all clear. I'm pretty sure he invited me to lunch as friends and to catch up. So I agree with you lovesickcancer.
Scoopfish it's possible he's insecure but I'm definitely not the reason for it. I don't know why he was acting so unlike himself but it was strange. It could be this is his true self and he was just hiding it well while we were dating? You know when you date someone you try to put your best foot forward and perhaps I never got around to seeing his true colors. Who knows!
Thanks for the response, guys!!
Scoopfish it's possible he's insecure but I'm definitely not the reason for it. I don't know why he was acting so unlike himself but it was strange. It could be this is his true self and he was just hiding it well while we were dating? You know when you date someone you try to put your best foot forward and perhaps I never got around to seeing his true colors. Who knows!
Thanks for the response, guys!!
Funny enough. My Cancer guy that has seemed un-interested in me. Aske me to dinner last night. We had a nice time. He was playing footsie with me and grabbed my hand a few times. Was very gentleman-ly. Opened doors for me. Just when I sorta lost hope that it was going to go a normal route. I was pleasantly surpised.
We will see what happens.
I am not jumping for joy as of yet.
We will see what happens.
I am not jumping for joy as of yet.
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