he is back..but why?

so after no contact for nearly 2 months from this cancer guy after a silly little row, i get a text saying 'hey, this is my new number' which was a general text sent to everyone in his new phone.
a litte shocked and wondering why he would give it to me when we arent talking i respond asking that ill save it but only if he was sure as its been a while.

the next day he says yes he is sure, calls me silly, that there is no issues at all between us and that he hopes im ok...

i said i was out and that we can chat later if he wanted. nothing since..


wtf?? why? its been 2 months of nothing... im not complaining at all, i have feelings for him.. just curious.. 😉

My question here is... if this is the very first time that happen with this guy?... If so I wouldn't bother questioning myself the whys? that's is over analyzing unimportant stuff... if you resent him for dissapearing 2.5 months... just talk about it, let him know and move on... if he keep doing that crap then yes... do it..

But at this point if you want him back take him... with cancers some people don't have that chance (just check at this forum)

first time he has 'come back' and we have been intimate so i know its not for that as he has had that lol. it doesnt matter anyway. i asked if he wanted a catch up tonight.. nothing.. guess hes not even that bothered by me anyway.
and im a libra.. i over think everything..

Maybe he was just busy. You're going to get grays over thinking things. Take my advice and go learn something cool like surfing.