Cancer man disappearance

I sent my cancer guy a text telling him how I feel about him and how I'd like us to stop all the games and if we could kind of call a truce. Instead of offering feedback, he waited until the next afternoon to jokingly text back that my texts were a lot to digest while football was on. I asked him what he thought and he just didn't respond. Finally after a little bit more than 3 weeks (which I think is outrageous) I finally broke down and texted him "hey". He was super excited to hear from me but made no mention of what I had asked him. I can't lie, I got annoyed and didn't text him back anymore after a few exchanges. Of course he didn't take it upon himself to text me either the days following. I do know his last relationship ended pretty badly and he has a lot of walls up. I still feel he's putting in minimal effort. I'm so lost.

I know someone has some sage advice lmaoooo 🙂

I figure, that replying to stuff like this is not their thing, and they instead "act": wait for u to do an act of friendship, and their response to that is their reply...

Like this one was waiting for u to do an act of not playing around, and so he respons. ...Sometimes minimal effort is their best effort...

Doesn't sound like you should keep trying. Are you two broken up?

And don't listen to counter9 who is socially retarded and doesn't know how to talk to a woman about real shit. That's why he deleted his latest thread. Bitch made

Counter9 can you rephrase that? I'm a little lost.

Starchild63 It's been 7 rollercoaster months and he still isn't my man smh. I've never felt this way about any other guy before. I feel like he's my soulmate, I know I sound corny lol. He's the king of shutting down and needing to think. Idk what to do 😢

Cancerians are the most difficult people to understand. I am one, and to be honest, I dont even understand myself sometimes. We are really slow people, it takes a lot of time for feeling comfortable with someone and missing that person from our life.

Nicole99 Boy are you guys slow and contemplative lol. My patience is really getting a workout.

ScorpiosHarmony I hear you. Love isn't easy but it's not supposed to be this hard.

Posted by StarChild63
And don't listen to counter9 who is socially retarded and doesn't know how to talk to a woman about real shit. That's why he deleted his latest thread. Bitch made

You're the one that got kicked in the face for trying to kiss a girl and still keep on pushing... you're the guy girls need protection from... Go suck a dick instead, it??ll suit u better.

Sorry for derailing this topic... That was my experience...

Nicole let it go. If it's meant to be it will come back. Sometimes you need to separate to change.

Counter9 at least I have functional adult conversations with my cancer. I won't suck a dick but I'm sure your cancer is sucking someone else's!

What a great communicater u are in fact: sneak attacking her, so she has to kick u in the face. Litterally....
I bet that was a really good functional adult conversation...

As long as she ain't sucking yours....

Shut the hell up counter at least I still have a chance.

This is typical. It may get better. It will take a shit ton of time. And you can't force them to do anything before they are ready.

Meh! yall fucked yet? as for us being distant, he has been hurt, once we give our all and trust broken veryyyyy hard to get someone to settle with us. We also very goal oriented.Money n cancer were made for each other!!Libras can be indecisive. And sometimes you need someone to make that decision for u. Communication is the key. Yeesshhhh libras and cancer fall for each other FAST!

What are his placements? specifically venus and mars? Help me better understand his thinking/motivations..

Moonbutter - How do you figure out these placements?

phEnyxBull876 - He's put me through a lot and I'm starting to feel like I'm being chumped lol. I'm also growing impatient.

Reddmannscorch - That's exactly how it was in the beginning smh. LOL why do you ask that? Only once and it's been a minute. I haven't done anything to prove myself untrustworthy or two-faced like his ex. I am a bit indecisive in life lol, but I definitely I never made him feel I felt that way about him. I try to talk to him but he shuts me out a lot. Even if he's going through something he won't talk to me about it. He'll share stuff on Twitter though -_-

Sugarfoot - I def feel you on the perfectly imperfect for each other aspect. Two cardinal signs sounds disastrous too lol. It all seems so cruel. Oddly enough this doesn't feel like a craving. I haven't enjoyed the roller coaster aspect but enjoy the times when things are still and we can really connect. But oh well.

Finbuff - Gee that sounds rough. I'm hoping it's more of a some libras and cancers are mismatched vs. all.

Yeah whats up with dat? We are physically attracted to each other, like a magnet. When we touch ,ooo myyyyyy,lol. Relationship wise.it can work but you have to realise cancers are bosses.We rule! We lead! We can communicate, we dont like to show da mushy mushy stuff,blech! You socialize alot dont you. Do you make time for him? I'm hungry now need Snickers. Dont mind me i think aloud all da time. As for addicting. Yes we are.

RedsmannScorch - Well this is my first time dealing with a cancer. Lol I seem to be the only one trying to communicate. I do make time for him. Idk what his problem is. That ex has ruined him apparently smh.

NaniRo -unfortunately been there done that. The communication differences between Libra and Cancer are difficult to understand although both seem to be 2 of the most sensitive signs. He will come across as cold and you will not understand why he cant put in the effort to speak. With our tendency to push a conversation, you will try your best to understand but... He will take his time to respond and you will be hurt by this. Your best option is to move on and let him come to you. You dont want to appear needy!

I am in the same exact situation with my cancer. We connect so well and things are very harmonious but he puts up a wall and tries to make jokes when things get serious or we talk about our friendship. But he always comes back to me. Grrrrrrr

Sorry you're going through this. I agree 100% what finbuff said though. To add to it. He's not emotionally invested in you like you are to him. Both signs are passive too.

WTF! libras get hurt? Reallyyyyyyyyyyy——Huh, i know they can get QUITE jealous!

Lol Reddmann - Librans are one of the most easily hurt, but they are strong enough to pull through. The facade that we put up confuses almost everyone around us - including the ones who are closest to us!

Starry22 - that's what I'm doing now.

Cancer2448 - ouch! Lol

Well first stop sending feelings via text. I hate that crap. Feels fake and it could be read the wrong way.

text "baby I luv u. We R lyke Bffz and I want to wear your jacket."

Dude text "k"

Posted by kissmygrits
Well first stop sending feelings via text. I hate that crap. Feels fake and it could be read the wrong way.

This. I think so many people on here got screwed over by cancers because we didn't take them serious. We didn't make the right choices and actions till it was way too late for that. Talking flat out to a cancer is the best way to get somewhere with them. I have come to learn that and I wish I knew it sooner. All the times my cancer committed instead if ran away the dude was the type that talks and wasn't afraid to talk and act. I was afraid to at first and I missed my chance and never got another one