help...does this cancer guy like me??

we started talking in august. (my friend hooked us up) so until early November we had just been talking on the phone. we would be on the phone until like 4-5 in the morning and we would talk about everything and anything. we both told each other we had feelings for one another.

the day we met for the 1st time: the day we met he had someone drive him over to where i was at and once he got out of the car he was all smiles, he came over gave me a hug and we started walking together. the whole time he had his arm around me, gave me his jacket and told me i had pretty eyes. we were together a little more that day then he left gave me another hug and watched me walk back to the house smiling at me the whole time.

from that day things were different...his grandma died..after then we stopped talking like we used to so i got concerned and asked him what it was and if it was because i wasnt what he expected, he said no it wasnt that and he thought i was questioning the fact that HE wasnt what i expected. so basically, a misunderstanding.

i really dont know what it was but we stopped talking and didnt hear anything from him, nor from me and in february this year my cousin saw him and she told me he asked about me wanting to know how i was and why i had stopped talking to him, when all along i thought he stopped talking to ME. so a couple weekends later i saw him at this game i went too, he was smiling really hard, gave me a hug and said it's good to see you..he had to leave so he told me he would text me...time went by..he didnt.

so i was getting concerned and i texted him the next week and ask him what happened and he texted me saying sorry and his grandma's funeral was that day and he didnt feel like texting ( i checked...she really did die, so that means both of his grandma;s died) so i left him alone and gave him time to be with himself.

soooo more time went by and around 3rd week in march i hear some things he said. ( my mom knows his dad, they went to school together) so she tells me that his dad says that he talks about me alot, thinks im pretty, and he wants to get to know me better. another thing was that he is hesitant to ask me out be cause he doesnt know what he wants to do with his future and he may be going to the military.


the other day i just decided to be direct w. him and see what was up heres how the conversation went

me-hey hope your doing well u kno i like u n i dont want to waste your time or mine I wanted to see what was up with us
him- hey i dnt think we can be serious right now because if im far away we cant do anything together
me- ok well you have my number.
him- yea its just i know other guys can be around and im not saying i dnt trust you its just anything can happen
me- i understand what your saying but if we were together i wouldnt do anything like that to you just because other guys are around doesnt mean anything
and no reply.......so im confused.

about 30 minutes....what do you think about this...does he like me or what..??

cancer/capricorn moon

so does this guy like me or what/////i mean that would be nice if he could come and see me but he has no way too...no car no licensce no money...etc...

"it seems as if you guys had a mutual interest in each other and then something happened that made it stop."

what do you think that something was??

You should be direct. He is gauging your responses so he's testing you to see how secure you are with yourself.

Always be warm and understanding but be firm. If he sees that you are sure about yourself then he will feel more secure about where you guys are at and are heading.

In the end, always remain genuine. If you communicate authentically, and it only rubs him the wrong way, then let it go. We are not meant to be romantically entangled with most people we encounter and it's ok. If you gave it your best, and things go awry anyway, then that is all you can do.

this conversation we had was from a while back ( last year) it was a minute after we had met eachother for the first time and i decided to just see what was up....what do you think about this??

Girl- hey can i ask you a ?
guy-whts that?
girl- so be honest, why'd you stop talking to me, do you think im ugly or you arent interested in me anymore? do you just not want to talk to me anymore?
guy- i dont have a problem with you everything is cool!
girl- oh its whatever then ( seeing if he was going to text back..)
guy- why do you think im avoiding you..i dnt even remember you texting me that much!
girl- look you kind of avoided the question so im asking you if you want me to leave you alone so im not wasting my time...are you not interested in me anymore?
guy- no it isnt anything like that! i've been helping with my aunt but she passed away now

yeah its me and him....and we are out of high school..why??

he's 19

my chart:

Sun-cancer
moon-capricorn
mercury-cancer
venus-virgo
mars-gemini
jupiter-scorpio
saturn pisces
ascendant- aries




his chart:

Sun Cancer
Moon Virgo
Mercury Leo
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Capr

thanks....does it sound to you like he is unsure of himself..therefore unsure of us?

he's done that before..

what does it say about him if his moon is in virgo?