I've been seeing this cancer male off and on for the last two years and there are still problems. He seems to be very emotional and doesn't know what he truly wants. He has dated this younger girl for the two years that he has been seeing me. They have broken up about 5 times during the two years, but keep getting back together. And when she goes out of town or whenever he is in the mood he gets in touch with me and wnats to get together, then after about a month he comes up saying he can't do this we can't be friends or anything and we don't talk for a couple of months and then he comes back doing the same thing again. He seems to get close and be devoted to this girl for a while then moves away and comes back to me and others as well. I don't know what to think about what he is doing. I don't think he truly cares for this girl or he wouldn't keep coming back to me every so often, but he probably doesn't care for me either. To me it seems he is a very confused person and needs to grow up. He is almost 20 years old, this girl just turned 17. So basically he is on his second year of being out of high school and she is a junior in high school. They were broke up this past week and then he took her to her prom over this past weekend now they are back together. Does anyone have any advice for me? I know he will be back to talk with me again it's just a matter of time. What do I do?