Shellyd238
@Shellyd238
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here's a question...
Need more info...how long you guys been hooking up? Do you guys do stuff together, get food, etc? Also do you guys communicate pretty regularly, and how often do you guys hook up?
Why don't you ask "are you being serious?" when he says that.
He's feeling you out to see where your head is. It's a way to avoid the hurt and embarrassment of rejection. What he said in the beginning was prob true but things change.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...
Posted by GreenteaI think next time I will, it just always throws me off when he says it, bc I'm never expecting it. But now i'm thinking it will probably come up again, and I should be prepared! lol
Why don't you ask "are you being serious?" when he says that.
Posted by Shellyd238Ok, yeah my initial instinct after all that is he likes you and yes, wants to date you 🙂 He fell for you, despite not wanting a relationship with anyone.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...
Posted by Moonbutterhmmmm, ok.......But oh boy, our signs do not play nice together...This is going to get messy.Posted by Shellyd238Ok, yeah my initial instinct after all that is he likes you and yes, wants to date you 🙂 He fell for you, despite not wanting a relationship with anyone.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...click to expand
Yup he's feeling you out...
Posted by Shellyd238It kinda is already 😛Posted by Moonbutterhmmmm, ok.......But oh boy, our signs do not play nice together...This is going to get messy.Posted by Shellyd238Ok, yeah my initial instinct after all that is he likes you and yes, wants to date you 🙂 He fell for you, despite not wanting a relationship with anyone.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...click to expand
Posted by Shellyd238It kinda is already 😛Posted by Moonbutterhmmmm, ok.......But oh boy, our signs do not play nice together...This is going to get messy.Posted by Shellyd238Ok, yeah my initial instinct after all that is he likes you and yes, wants to date you 🙂 He fell for you, despite not wanting a relationship with anyone.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...click to expand
Posted by Shellyd238why ask? if he wants to date, then he will invite you to dinners or other "dating" activity....... or what would be different if you two start dating? Like it would be a more regular thing or that you would be official?Posted by GreenteaI think next time I will, it just always throws me off when he says it, bc I'm never expecting it. But now i'm thinking it will probably come up again, and I should be prepared! lol
Why don't you ask "are you being serious?" when he says that.click to expand
you are already doing things together what would be a difference (I mean, in your eyes, what YOU mean by dating, what would be your expectations or what should change?)
Posted by MoonbuttertouchePosted by Shellyd238It kinda is already 😛Posted by Moonbutterhmmmm, ok.......But oh boy, our signs do not play nice together...This is going to get messy.Posted by Shellyd238Ok, yeah my initial instinct after all that is he likes you and yes, wants to date you 🙂 He fell for you, despite not wanting a relationship with anyone.
Well it gets long an complicated but we've been hooking up since july but had a few months break this sept-dec. we used to talk daily and did a few things together over the summer, but I had to put an end to that because I was starting to feel like I was giving him too much of my time and attention for a FWB. He got all pissed off, hence our little break, but we are back on good terms now. He's mentioned the dating thing both before and after the break...on xmas he asked me to take a trip with him to Montreal...Just not sure what to make if it all anymore...click to expand
Posted by Pandora101At this point I've already nixed the going out and doing things together because we weren't in a relationship. So I think he knows he wouldn't be able to get away with just asking me to do things like that, without first having a conversation about it...Posted by Shellyd238why ask? if he wants to date, then he will invite you to dinners or other "dating" activity....... or what would be different if you two start dating? Like it would be a more regular thing or that you would be official?Posted by GreenteaI think next time I will, it just always throws me off when he says it, bc I'm never expecting it. But now i'm thinking it will probably come up again, and I should be prepared! lol
Why don't you ask "are you being serious?" when he says that.
you are already doing things together what would be a difference (I mean, in your eyes, what YOU mean by dating, what would be your expectations or what should change?)click to expand
Fuck them all seriously. All talk no action.
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