How can I win him?

I have another chance to make this Cancer dude I've been hooking up with fall for me. What are your suggestions people of Cancerville? He doesn't yet know that I have feelings for him.

Posted by Libralicious72
You'll need to give us some background history... Why another chance? What happened the first time?

...I have concerns whether you'll be successful, based on your username... But hey, I won't judge! lol

I'm just being dramatic. We just had a gap in our interactions but now we are back at it. Also, yeah I can be prettty intense but I've learned to dial it down over the years especially with the non fire signs

Posted by Arielle83
If you can't keep it in your pants, like you said, he won't trust you and you won't win him.

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That's just it. I always end up with people I am sexually incompatible with. But here, I couldn't think of a reason i'd ever step out since I always leave 100% fulfilled.

Now HALP!

Posted by Arielle83
How old are you?

Well if he's worth it then you have a reason to be sincere for him.

25

Posted by Arielle83
Maybe it's a phase. But Aries are impulsive so you're gonna have to watch yourself, and yes, cancers don't do drama.

First I thought you were just judging but you have some excellent insight! Thank you

Posted by BlackNova
LOL at the female ex stripper giving gay men, advice!!!
priceless!

Everyone has a past silly. Also i'm not gay. I'm just vaginally challenged.

Cancer men like to do things for their loved ones (cook for you, feed you, cuddle you, do things around your house for you etc.) If you can find a way to have him do things for you that may help to intensify his emotions. Also, cancers love water... get in the bathtub with him and a nice bottle of wine or champagne if their are foods he love (like chocolate or petite fours) along with it that's a bonus. They love snuggles and long wet kisses.

Posted by BlackNova
LOL at the female ex stripper giving gay men, advice!!!
priceless!

I fail to see the humor here?

Arielle, Im sure you have a lot of wisdom in your life experience.. there is NO shame in dancing, we do what we can to survive and if we pick up little nuggets of wisdom along the way they are certainly meant to be shared hopefully in non-judgement.

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Posted by BlackNova
LOL at the female ex stripper giving gay men, advice!!!
priceless!

I fail to see the humor here?

Arielle, Im sure you have a lot of wisdom in your life experience.. there is NO shame in dancing, we do what we can to survive and if we pick up little nuggets of wisdom along the way they are certainly meant to be shared hopefully in non-judgement.

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My thoughts exactly. I tend to stay away from this site because of the few trolls whom only have negative things to say. Glad there are more good seeds though 😉